DIVINE INTERVENTION..ROFLMAO....5/21/17 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Yes Maya its CVS answer for why Ishita not wear marriage symbols... Because what's a marriage if one doesn't respect or value it...

Here is my long rant how the core got killed at every turn of the way in YHM...

Not only that Maya, the twisted way the story turned out how can we call it even a marriage..

Ishita life with Raman had been like one big question mark from the beginning...He married her for Ruhi but slowly once he gain his footing in the marriage her every act became a comedy circus for him.. no value at all...Him ridiculing on Ishima was the first hit/slap to the core philosophy of the show. Then him throwing her out when ever trouble hit irrespective of her fault is another blow altogether. So he neither valued her as his wife nor as a mother to his kids.

Then the surrogacy, leap, his refusal to even acknowledge her as Pihu mother, him erasing her existence from their life (is her sin bigger than Shaguns' at any given day? Even Ruhi exchange is his idea which he conveniently forgot. And we shouldn't forget he went to deal with a kidnapper who is dangerous and holding a premie baby as a hostage and he sent an injured wife with a 7 year old child without a back up plan and he himself is too far away to save them) and after she came back his constant harassing and wishing her dead..Once again got her home for Ruhi marry her for Adi...WTH...Do we even call this marriage?

Now twist it around some more making a glorified version of Shagun making her asli ma for Pihu , birth certificate fiasco..Who is Ishita? Right? Shagun and her insecurities with Ishita coming back to her rightful place or so we thought..But in one second Raman made Ishita looked like she is a one night stand with Raman in front of Shagun. And Raman trying to marry Shagun, failed attempt, Shagun turniNg into hard core criminal kidnapping and trying to kill Ishita...But keep her as Pihu mother.. not once Raman tried to correct it or be the bridge for Ishita and Pihu and losing custody to Shagun all that to just to highlight how giving birth is more important and all sins are forgiven if one has an ability to give birth...Again the core is compromised where nayi soch being women will only respected and also be forgiven if she can give birth only...

So let's see what's marriage? A convenience. Being a mother to a child that's not ones own should be ridiculed.. Everytime Raman ran after Shagun and ridiculed Ishita on motherhood the core of YHM got killed...

So why Ishita alone should respect the marriage and wear the symbols while Raman at every opportunity runs after Shagun...

This is not marriage and they are not respecting it in anyways. And the motherhood is the biggest joke now where own son turning into SIL all the relations that are defined for ages are definitely mocked at and motherhood is ridiculed..

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

Did not watch the episode but going by your reviews.

Miscommunication between the bride and bride grooms party was seen very clearly. Shagun did correct by ordering non - veg foods for foreign delegates as one needs to look into the preferences of your guests but did not communicate it to the grooms side.

Hon...there was NO communication at all..that's the problem...what Australian delegates?..its few of her friends, which means it's understood they know aaliya is an iyer and an vegetarian..they are culturally and religiously have the limitations. It's is not completely South Indian either...it's north/ Punjabi veg dishes..so not having nv on day is not going to harm them.

Same thing was done by brides side, they changed the menu and asked the waiter to remove the non-veg food from the counter without even asking the brides side, so clashes and blame game is ought to happen. One might have a vegetarian family but it doesn't make a place bad if non-veg is there, one can always keep a separate counter for it , it only needs to be conveyed to everybody as what is being served rather than panicking.
Yes..but it's the belief of the iyers...we cannot ignore that...if it's a vegetarian family's wedding..people are aware of the food too...unlike families who have nv, were there's literally nothing for them to eat...The thing is vegetarian food can be eaten by any/all/ everybody...buts that's not the case with vegetarians. It's very sensitive issue..specially the food..it's better to avoid if it's an issue rather than creating unpleasant situation..

The saree fiasco - well I don't understand why the complain about Raman not considering Ishita's feelings while asking her to change. To be honest , that was the best to do -

though I respect you pov..I'm sorry I may have to differ here..It is a big deal...it is not his place to think about shaguns feelings..it's her husbands job...ishita lovingly wore that saree for their sons wedding...and why should she change?...she had no problem with it..but shagun did..so it's she who Needs to change. Won't it hurt ishita...I'm glad she stood firm. Besides shagun is NOT his responsibility..but ishuta IS..his loyalty should always be with ishita...

reason - 1) Raman knows Shagun in and out so asking her to change the saree would be like breaking your head into the wall, so why waste time on a solution which is not going to work out.
It's equally bad/ inappropriate for him to ask ishita to change...as she lovingly wore that saree purchased by him for their sons wedding...he knows shagun..so why give into her demands...it's not ishita's fault that shagun wore the same kind. Ishita never demands ...when he knows shaguns tantrums..it's best to ignore and go...to stay away and leave it to mani ...what is the need to pacify his ex?

2) Apologising to Shagun - a step to pacify the lady who is capable of creating a ruckus in front of the guests , so as a host and the grooms father, small step taken by him to avoid unnecessary hungama

.Raman is not shaguns husband...it's manis job to pacify her..it's between her and mani...he needs to stay away...what's the need to apologize to someone else's wife...when it was neither his or manis fault?... he said...shagun I swear to god...I didn't know mani...It only shows had he known he wouldn't have bought it knowing well his biwi will like it, he liked it and it will look good on her...so he's ready to compromise for shagun?..and sorry for what happened...how ridiculous is that...

3) Asking Ishita's to change - step taken to again fuse the bomb as he knows Ishita's can understand and secondly and most importantly as a husband he has the complete rights on her and so can ask her to do rather than ask some other lady.

You just contradicted your own statement..@bold exactly..that's why raman should not have gone to pacify shagun. His job is to only think of ishus feelings rather than some other lady..he was the one who bought her the saree..he was the one who was miffed when Ishu decided to wear it during kanyadhan which he agreed...and now just because shagun is upset he wants his wife to change...this is unacceptable...

Ishita's Shagun conversation
Well though the words used by Ishita's was correct but I don't agree to her as when it comes down to taking decision for kids, she doesn't give that right to Shagun, whatsoever the reason, that time everybody becomes her kids from both sides so basically this trump card is used again and again by Ishita's only to diffuse situations.

Making her understand..that it's their children's day and they should be the center of attention..is wrong ?..but ordering her to change the saree is ok?...so shagun asking mani to order ishita to change saree is ok? ..for ishita, all are her kids..she's everybody's mother..even Roshini calls her ishima..she has abundant love to share/ give everybody..it's out in the open..it's not compartmentalized...unlike shagun who uses kids for her benefits ...where as ishuta going by your words...uses it for the children's benefits...is wrong?
Roshini's and Ishita's conversation
Very meaningful and apt. Roshini's has accepted her fate very gracefully and she is moving in the correct direction . You go girl.
Yes it was meaningful...graceful and classy...

Originally posted by: Mdwst

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