If Chakor doubts Suraj- MY TAKE

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PenguinBaby

@PenguinBaby

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+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

If Chakor doubts Suraj (ie, he is Imli's baby daddy) then for me, her character is irredeemable.

Cause if she loves him then she must trust him. People say love is important in a relationship but I believe trust is more important. In the absence of trust, there is no love or friendship.

MATSH was a very famous show and the love story of the leads was loved insanely by the people but for me, it was one of the shows which I disliked to the core. Reason? The shocking distrust shared by the leads was the reason. People who were its viewers may not agree with me and it is absolutely fine.

But in my POV, they never trusted each other with secrets or blackmails. That was why, even after they became super sacrifical for their SO, their partner ended up hating them, distrusting them, because they never trusted them with their problems in the first place, even if their intention was right and they wanted to spare their partner any problem, tragedy or did everything to save them.

This may not be the exact situation of SuKor but I just wanted to say how much trust is important. If she doubts Suraj even after the confession, then what's the difference between her and the Vivaan of their wedding night? He had confessed to her, was marrying her and the moment things didn't go as planned, he blamed her for everything, calling her opportunist and characterless. Remember how much we hated that Vivaan, and wanted Chakor to realize what an unworthy person he was?

So if she blames Suraj now, calls him an opportunist and characterless, then she will be Vivaan V.2 and I will be heartbroken.

I think we all will be.

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ipkrr

@ipkrr

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sanya - trust is important - I agree. But it is a two way street. Did Suraj who claims he loves Chakor trust Chakor enough with the truth of the night in car with Imli? Not only did he indulge with Imli in senseless unnecessary chatter, he crossed the line in behaving with her ... waking up with her head on his shoulder...and most importantly lied to Chakor with no reason as to where he and Imli sat in the car that night. Comparing the two - I find Suraj's lack of trust in Chakor more damning especially since she has given him no reason ... she has not acted jealous of Imli nor ever behaved inappropriately with Vivaan. If Chakor will be upset with Suarj's lie - I personally will side with her.

Trust is important...equally important is not being a fool. Suraj's love does not match Chakor's love in terms of selflessness and intensity...I would love to see her walk away from Suraj and for him to grow up and come to Chakor when his love matches hers.

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Vgn1

@Vgn1

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree, he had no reason to lie but he still did and if Chakor does distrust it will be because of some damning evidence, maybe something like a DNA report( faked by Ragini) I guess.On the contrary, if CVs have brains they may show more of Sukor bonding with Chakor supporting Suraj. Anycase, I don't think someone would be irredeemable just because she doubts on Suraj but Suraj that has done so many things was redeemable because he repents and is the hero? Don't get me wrong, I like Suraj but fair is fair if Suraj was redeemable Chakor's guilt is even less(if she doubts him). Ok, that being said trust of course is important but also fact is that to build trust it takes time and effort. They both have only just realized their love and this fiasco happened by then. Well, i hope everything gets cleared soon because seriously I am bored with the brainless Made for each other Jodi Imvaan and their "true love". Actually, liked them better during the marriage track I mean right after the bride swap. But the CVs ruined that by speeding up their love confession. Now I guess they are waiting to destroy our Sukor as well. I am really happy the confession happened but I don't want their equation to change ( can if for the better like build more trust and support).

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 8 years ago

Usually with tracks like these I would be annoyed with the female lead not believing her husband but in this case Chakor cannot be faulted. Trust is something that works both ways and if nothing happened that night then why did Suraj not tell Chakor the truth? By not being honest with Chakor it made it seem like he was guilty of something, add to that the fact him and Imil did have an intimate relation in the past it is only natural if Chakor has her doubts. It is the same reason why I am not hating on Vivaan for his outbursts right now, he is completely justified when you look at things from his POV.

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aamias

@aamias

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ipkrr
Sanya - trust is important - I agree. But it is a two way street. Did Suraj who claims he loves Chakor trust Chakor enough with the truth of the night in car with Imli? Not only did he indulge with Imli in senseless unnecessary chatter, he crossed the line in behaving with her ... waking up with her head on his shoulder...and most importantly lied to Chakor with no reason as to where he and Imli sat in the car that night. Comparing the two - I find Suraj's lack of trust in Chakor more damning especially since she has given him no reason ... she has not acted jealous of Imli nor ever behaved inappropriately with Vivaan. If Chakor will be upset with Suarj's lie - I personally will side with her.
Trust is important...equally important is not being a fool. Suraj's love does not match Chakor's love in terms of selflessness and intensity...I would love to see her walk away from Suraj and for him to grow up and come to Chakor when his love matches hers.

totally agree with u trust is an important matter but this tells that suraj doesnt think chakor is worth of truth also . Even vivian is fully not at fault. Chakor love is selfless and unconditional for suraj to go there it will take a lot of time.

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: aamias

totally agree with u trust is an important matter but this tells that suraj doesnt think chakor is worth of truth also . Even vivian is fully not at fault. Chakor love is selfless and unconditional for suraj to go there it will take a lot of time.

oh my gosh!
asmi..
🤗🤗

you here? don't tell me you are watching the show? i could swear Suraj is not your type😆.
good to see an old mate.
*hugs again*

and beautiful beautiful quotes.❤️.

edit: Sorry Sanu. Chakor would be less of a girl for me if she let's this 'lie' of Suraj pass by without lashing out. or even getting hurt over it.
when lie slinks in through the window... trust walks out of the door.

she was given a reason to misunderstand. if she does.. the only one to take the blame would be one who gave her the reason to mistrust him at the first place. not chakor.
Chakor gave Vivaan NO reason to misunderstand her. yet he did. and he is a fool.
Suraj and Imli and Chakor's situation is different. can't be compared.😳.

Edited by Banjaaran. - 8 years ago