Where is Sona's backbone?

Sorry I could not resist this post.

In my mind I cannot but help but compare how the lead female character who was thrown out of her house by her MIL and not supported by her husband behaved until the last episode in soap from across the border. It was a very popular soap and that character also returned after 6-7 years with a daughter in tow and wanted the husband to help with the daughter's surgery. She was forced to live in the house she had once been thrown out of for the sake of her daughter. Throughout the man accused her without knowing the truth just like Dev does. He was angry with her because he had really loved her and believed she betrayed him. The way that character behaved was so real: She remained focused on her daughter, cold to the Husband and his anger issues, refused to explain her actions, did not engage with the ex-MIL beyond a point and warned her off and made it clear she was a temporary visitor with no interest in the house, mother in law or the son.

I cannot understand why the CVs are hell bent on destroying Sona's character? Why can't she maintain her dignity and keep her distance even if she wants to play detective. Why is she throwing all these stray dialogues like you threw me out of the house, why do have the jhula still, this is my family too, I am the daughter in law of the house... REALLY SONA

What was the need for the scene with GKB where we could see clearly that Sona was in the wrong? And what was the need for that Stupid Elena scene saying Ishwari supported me? Ish supported you to stay with a creep Vicky...why are you grateful for that Elena?

The problem is always that these writers do not have character consistencies in mind when they write scenes and that's why story gets all haphazard.

AND IT IS BLOODY TIRING TO WATCH THE BOSE GIRLS IN THOSE ATROCIOUS COSTUMES. SOMEONE DO SOMETHING PLEASE

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I have no sympathy for women who KNOW what's right and what's wrong and still chooses to be on the wrong side, women who know what is dignity and what's insult still chooses to seek insult, women who know what is abuse yet choose to stay on that side for whatever XYZ reason. I am not talking about women who don't have an option to choose. But I am strictly talking about those who DO have an option still choose to remain deaf and dumb to all the wrongs around her. I don't believe that choosing abusive relationship for any damn reason, even your child, is a reason good enough to put up with. A child raised under separated parents can much more sensitive and rightly brought up than in a forced abusive relationship with the mother going through full of mental torture everyday.

This show has proven to be the WORST of the lot. I have no words for such Female Lead, she aint even the Gopi Bahu types who are raised to tolerate everything. Despite having such wonderful family and friends, if this is her decision, then I say bring it on Ishwari and Co. She deserves to be abused and tortured.