Food for thought.......think about it - Page 2

Originally posted by: bugsbunny12

Exactly!

Once vandy had feared of maya stabbing her

and now she has herself turned into what she was against

thats why one should be careful

bcz hatred changes u into the same person we hate

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Thats the thing.

Vm has this certain perception of Maya out of which she is acting irrationally.

Infact everyone had this certain bad/negative perception of Maya due to which all are falling in trouble. This perception of Maya needs to break.

Had VM accepted Maya wholeheartedly after ArYa marriage, then things would have been different today. Had Saanjh given ArYa some space and not cling on Arjun all the time then Maya would have also not been that possessive or controlling to Arjun.

All the characters are wrong in this show but the problem is because Maya is mad as per some people and so she reacts negatively to the actions caused by people which make Maya look bad directly.

Not once VM and Saanjh acknowledge their mistakes. Not once Maya tries to understand Arjun and try to give him space and speak openly to Arjun about his closeness to Saanjh being disturbing for her. The way Arjun and Saanjh behaved in the past in the name of friendship was in no way appropriate . Any normal girl in place of Maya would have felt insecure and jealous of Arjun and Saanjh dosti.Not once Arjun tries to speak openly to Maya about her controlling nature. Instead of Arjun complaining to his family about Maya he would have rather sat down with Maya and had a one on one conversation with her.

Bottom line: Communication is the key. But there's a lot of assumptions and perceptions due to which people are clouded by their judgement.

Originally posted by: anshvi

Yes...none of the characters are pure white...all are flawed...Vandana should have tried to accept Maya or must have tried to find out why Maya is the way she is instead of going by what Ashwin said...Now trying to stab her again is quite impulsive although she pleaded in front of her first.

Saanjh should have understood that Arjun is a married man and not only his bf.

Ayaan should have stopped after Maya put the keys in blouse.

Arjun should have taken Maya to a psychiatrist

and Maya should't have behaved the way she did with Arjun, shouldn't have thrown the gifts out of the window and if she did then the biggest crime framing Ayaan in the false rape case.

All have been wrong at one point or the other...the flaws and negatives of respective fav characters should not be justified...people's judgement get clouded when it comes to their favorite characters

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Yes all are wrong.

But it's still not clear whether Ayaan was really innocent or guilty. Whether Maya reallly framed Ayaan.

Because for arguements sake lets acccept the keys and kick theory to be right. But this keys and kick theory still don't fit to the scenario in terms of Ayaan's actions and dialogues. All those filthy dialogues of Ayaan don't make sense either.

When Samay came there Ayaan was still blabbering "choddo mujge main aaj isse nahi choodanga" If Maya had kicked Ayaan on herself or lets say that he fell on her by mistake then also why did he say "choodo mujge main aaj isse nahi choodonga"? Not once he had mentioned the word "keys".

Therefore it's still not clear whether Ayaan was framed by Maya or not. Because all those filthy dialogues of Ayaan could in no way be "planned" by Maya. Maya or anyone in this world can't control someone's mouth and the words they speak.