Tu mera pyar kyu nahi samajh rahi hai???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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After yesterday's outburst...and Preeto revealing her past to Harman...he is taken
up by her story...he makes her sit down...trying to calm her...said...he didn't know
her struggles...how great she is...to wage such a war ...for the sake of love...for
her kids...and in this war...Harak Singh was there for her...It felt good to hear
this...but just think Preeto...that if Harak Singh had not to stop you, or take your
hand and support you ...where would u have been today...neither would Raavi
nor me be there today...u fought your war...Harak Singh brought restoration to
your life...similarly now...if I have taken a decision to improvise/restore
somebody's life...what is bad in it...what is less in Saumya...just this...that she
cannot give birth to her own child...What is bad if she brings up someone else's
baby, and makes that child worthy of being called a waris/heir of this home...
so then how is Saumya adhuri/incomplete...Its not necessary that only your own
blood will be your waris...Main thing is that love and a sense of belonging shoud
be there...and Saumya and me will give him lots of love, bring him up well...
Why can't you understand my love...

As Harman is saying all this...every member of his family getting irritated with
him...and Preeto..who first thought she had won him over with her flashback
story...and knew the point he was coming too...leaves his hand...and is
fuming...She replied back...She would have understood his love...if this love
was for a woman...and she walks away...

Frankly, I can fully understand her last sentence ...as it is difficult to accept
a kinner as a bahu...but somehow dont trust Preeto...cause here in the
beginning they showed clearly how she use to taunt Chachi for giving birth
to a girl...and hoping other child was a boy...etc...and here Chachi was
a complete woman and mother too...Even if Saumya was a woman...but
barren woman too ...Preeto would have still put her down and continued
with waris jaap...

But best part was Harman...its not that just because he loves Saumya
intensely...he has forgotten his parents/family...He genuinely felt bad
for Preeto...the pain of her past...and same question what we had
yesterday...he voiced it out...that she could be more understanding
towards his situation...very well he said about giving the kid love
and good upbringing to make the child a worthy heir...but ...it fell to
deaf ears...

Vivvian really super in bringing out the pain of Harman as he spoke
to Preeto...😳






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zubeada thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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preetooo thought by this will bring harman to her side
but she failed badly 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Harman, compassion Preeti, but knew that Preeti plays on emotions.

was clear evidence, Harman lengthy monologue in which he tried honestly, convince Preeti. When, Preeti, she saw that her drama serve no purpose, immediately he was again, angry woman. Harman was not surprised.

yes he has compassion, but Preeti not say sufficient reason why he should not have an adopted child. because the reason does not exist. it's just a sick mind Preeti.

not only Preeti, but the entire family.

a lot of women can not have children for health reasons. Preet but said that woman is final only after childbirth. So, according to Preeti, women who can not have children, They are not women, and it would be best if he died.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Estadra


Harman, compassion Preeti, but knew that Preeti plays on emotions.

was clear evidence, Harman lengthy monologue in which he tried honestly, convince Preeti. When, Preeti, she saw that her drama serve no purpose, immediately he was again, angry woman. Harman was not surprised.

yes he has compassion, but Preeti not say sufficient reason why he should not have an adopted child. because the reason does not exist. it's just a sick mind Preeti.

not only Preeti, but the entire family.

a lot of women can not have children for health reasons. Preet but said that woman is final only after childbirth. So, according to Preeti, women who can not have children, They are not women, and it would be best if he died.



Very well said...while Harman genuinely felt sad at Preeto's emotional
story...he knew she was playing up with his emotions...and her drama
served no purpose ...as was revealed by his words...😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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all preeto game is over
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can't understand the logic behind Preeto past
what sacrifice she did to have children
she had husband died without having kids and she married his brother and brought up two kids
what is the big deal?
Harak Singh could marry any other woman and have kids from her
she did nothing for the family

and who decide who have kids boys or girls or don't have kids at all
it is not by man and wife welling
it is ALLAH welling
so if someone doesn't have kids it isn't their fult or guilt
they could be normal healthy couple and still doesn't have kids
and to have son or daughter it is not man or woman decision neither their achievement to black mail our kids that we brought them to this world



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sure I don't need to talk about Vivian performance in this scene and how he felt for his mother
although all the did with him but still he loves her like any son loves his mother he cares for her he feels for her
and this is Harman biggest problem he can't cut of any relation he has
He loves his wife and feels responsible for her
and her loves his family and feels responsible for their happiness

he cares for everyone and think about every one but no one cares for his feeling or think about what he wants
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: anitarani




Very well said...while Harman genuinely felt sad at Preeto's emotional
story...he knew she was playing up with his emotions...and her drama
served no purpose ...as was revealed by his words...😆


If Only Preeto Understood Harman. And His Love Saumya.
I Know That Its Very Hard For Her To Accept Saumya, But Come On She's Human Too.
Sigh.. Wish Harman&Saumya Just Leave Home.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Harman spoke exactly the same things which we were discussing on another post before the episode 😆

We too were wondering that if Preeto went through so much of trauma when Harak Singh because her rakshak , then how can she not understand that her son too is doing what Harak Singh did , that is becoming rakshak for Soumya ... I m glad Harman so politely explained it to his mother 👏

Preeto's plan backfired for sure 😆 .. She thought after telling her sob story , Harman will feel indebted to his parents and will agree to give waaris but instead he compared Preeto and Soumya's situation and told her why he will all the more support Soumya now 😆😆


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