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Posted: 8 years ago
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Golu has better sense than JOtin!
If you guys remember, in one of the episodes, when Ishwari wanted to call Dev to talk to him, then Golu had stopped her saying it is his Bigcha's time with Suhana as he was meeting her after 7 years, so do NOT disturb his bigcha.
The lil'l boy has more common sense than JOtin. Jotin is a nice guy and helped Bose family during their difficult times, I understand all of that.
but he should have understood that this is Dev's time with his daughter. The Dev is living in Bose parivar taking all of Bose baba's tauntings only for Soha's sake.
The sole purpose of his stay is to get to know Suhana.
This is is their first week staying together, C'mon, Jotin give them a break!
I truly understand Dev's frustration in this matter, other than this I don't have any other complaints about Jotin.
Hope he realizes this soon!!!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Being a nice n understanding guy that he is...Jatin wud surely realise that Dev would like to spend more time with Soha. He said sorry for taking Soha out for burger even when he had no clue Dev wud be cooking but he surely noticed Dev's disappointment.
I understand Dev's frustration but he has to give time n remain patient as building a bond with Soha wud take time. There is a learning curve for everyone here. Everyone has to make adjustments as situations have changed but everyone wud realise it gradually only. If he wud get angry with Jatin n Soha gets to know abt it, Soha wud not like it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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somehow i dont feel jatin is wrong, he is very matured, he is actually studying dev and will definetely come out with a solution for dev sona and suhana. but as u say jatin shud have given space to dev. lets c wat happens
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

Being a nice n understanding guy that he is...Jatin wud surely realise that Dev would like to spend more time with Soha. He said sorry for taking Soha out for burger even when he had no clue Dev wud be cooking but he surely noticed Dev's disappointment.

I understand Dev's frustration but he has to give time n remain patient as building a bond with Soha wud take time. There is a learning curve for everyone here. Everyone has to make adjustments as situations have changed but everyone wud realise it gradually only. If he wud get angry with Jatin n Soha gets to know abt it, Soha wud not like it.


I agree with u, time and patience are needed. but, Jatin also should realize that this is just the first week of Dev in Bose's house. instead of staying away at least this week, but he's hanging out every day in that house. It's not like there's no other person in bose family to go pick suha from her activity...Saurabh and Bose baba instead of roaming randomly in the house to find Dev's faults, he could have gone too...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anyways , why is Jatin who is a very successful entrepreneur, picking up Soha, while the retired Bose grandpa is whiling away time picking up arguments and fights..😡.

Isn't it weird that a young and handsome Jatin has nothing better to do than do household duties like
picking up friend's kid from school, having lunch date and he playing kiddy games patiently... Is it me or did anyone else find it wierd and infuriating? 😲
Edited by Rsp2001 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What about soha's wish?
What if she wishes to spend time with Jotin?
Or it's like ishwari no one should spend time with my beta, not even his wife. His attitude is same, no one should come close to my beti, not even a person who was like father figure all these years.

Next Ishwari will demand sona should stay away from soha and let her be around soha al the time becoz it's her time as she was away from poti all these years.
Edited by _IHeartFriendz_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifuser


I agree with u, time and patience are needed. but, Jatin also should realize that this is just the first week of Dev in Bose's house. instead of staying away at least this week, but he's hanging out every day in that house. It's not like there's no other person in bose family to go pick suha from her activity...Saurabh and Bose baba instead of roaming randomly in the house to find Dev's faults, he could have gone too...



@bold so true 🤣, how much help they will take from Jatin, he have to bring kid also from school..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _IHeartFriendz_

What about soha's wish?

What if she wish to spend time with Jotin?
Or it's like ishwari no one should spend time with my beta, not even his wife. His attitude is same, no one should come close to my beti, not even a person who was like father figure all these years.

Next Ishwari will demand sona should stay away from soha and let her be around soha al the time becoz it's her time as she was away from poti all these years.

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Yes, Soha enjoys spending time with Jotin, but I don't think she would miss him when he is not around. especially, now that her "loving and caring" dad is around. Soha does realizes that her Dad loves her a lot to have made a big adjustment to come and stay with her family. Her relationship with her father is growing everyday and she would not miss a father figure in her life at this point.

Dev is definitely not insecure like Ishwari. Common man, he has stayed away from his daughter all these years, and there is nothing wrong in feeling possessive and wanting to spend as much time as possible to strengthen the budding relationship. Dev is completely invested in developing his relationship with his daughter, of course he will see consider any interaction that reduces time from his daughter as an interference...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa



@bold so true 🤣, how much help they will take from Jatin, he have to bring kid also from school..


Exactly same thing could be said abt Dev too right.😉..why is he sitting at home picking up fights with Bijoy n Sona when he cud go n pick up Soha n spend maximum time with Soha to makeup for all lost time, afterall he is there only for Soha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well if mamiji and vicky could continue to stay at IN for so long even when Dev got married and interfere with everything his newly wedded wife does Jatin is doing relatively harmless thing. He also misses family and Bose family apparently become family for him over the last 7 years. He can't be only helping them when they are in need and disappear. He also is getting something from the family. Relationships work only when they are two way. Hw may seem like a friend and outsider but he probably has been morethan ant relative for the Bose family.
Ofcourse Dev not happy with Jatin's presence is understandable coz he is not important as far as Dev is concerned and he also doesn't care if he helped Bose family. He may think that Bose family refused help from Dev but took help from Jatin.

Just a POV
Edited by tellyjo - 8 years ago

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