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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Is it only me or they are bringing up the same fights up unnecessarily? Today's episode left a bitter taste in mouth regarding Dev Sonakshi.

The only and only charm was Asha!👏what a lady really! So sorted, calm and no-nonsense woman.
I could not relate to anything that Dev said to Sonakshi today because it was contradictory to whatever was happening ever since Dev entered Bose house.
Seems Dev is, one hurt with the way Sonakshi did not believe in him though he said to Asha that he really doesn't care what she thinks, second He cannot bear anything against his mother.
I thought he has evolved to be a practical person but this practicality is lost when it comes to Ishwari.
What Dev said was pinching for Sonakshi..and it may be true for some that Sonakshi is trying to run behind the truth and principles so much that she forgets what the fate of the relationship might be after the revelation.
But here, in this situation, she did not want Sounita marriage to be broken but wanted things to be clear. Clear that things aren't as cordial as sourab ronita imagine..like I said yesterday..she doesn't want this marriage to break with regrets later.
Certainly, love is not enough!

It is all about blaming each other for Dev and Sonakshi, like the children said it is confusing. Who is lying who is not?
Actually nobody is. It is all about perspectives.
The only person having a balanced perspective is Asha now. She tried to advice Dev about rethinking but it was rejected right away.
Sonakshi is trying to convince herself that she hasn't changed. She finds solace in Jatin's advice...what astonished me was how She remembered the rain sequence when J asked her to be herself and not give importance to him.
Does that mean Sonakshi thinks she was content and happy when she herself went to Dev for the dance, when he did not expect her to? To prove that she has not changed?
Help me decode that moment.
Soha is such a sensitive child, I loved how she said friendship cannot be forced or else they will collapse.
I see Dev and Sonakshi have a really really long way to go.

P.S I miss Dev in formals and his old decent look. The add-on ponytail is eyesore.



I like your balanced analysis.. I have been reading them for a week now. I have never been active on this forum. But today's episode made me want make a post. The episode was a disaster. Sigh...
I have been following the show since it's start and took a break few days after dev and sonakshi wedding. I was not able to handle what sonakshi was going through with ishawari's passive attacks and gkb 's direct attacks. Even after that I could never dislike Dev because of his intrinsic qualities as an individual.
I resumed watching just before the seperation and leap. Over last few weekends I also caught up with the epis I had missed.
As I said I could not dislike dev even though I felt for sonakshi. I guess because I knew he loved her... in fact I thought her to be not a separate entity but one. Hence he wanted to react and behave just the way he did with his mother. Like he knew during his 1st breakup and many more instances that ishwari is at fault but the indebted son in him still let it go each time giving her unconditional love. Unfortunately, that cannot happen... we can accept our parents the way they are but not inlaws. It's so complicated. Let's not even talk about ishwari's behavior.
Post leap I saw dev as a changed person, someone who is callus about everyone around him except golu. I don't remember the episode number but he clearly mentioned that he cannot accept or take any more interference from ishwari. He also witnessed his mother lying about sona-Jatin, he witnessed sonakshi opinion1st hand about his mother( don't remember the dialogue but something like she is some kumbar who mounds truth to her convenience ). Even after all this he didn't blast. Then why suddenly ever since he found his daughter has he forgotten everything ??? I know bijoy is irritating . But then how does a father of a girl who faced so many hardships and raise her family and daughter single handedly react to the man who didn't have the courage to stand for his daughter behave? Everyone is not as calm and rational as asha. What appalled me about dev'sbehavior today is that he didn't even spare asha who is only one who understands him forget the way he treated bijoy and sonakshi. Sonakshi never told anything bad about dev to soha and he knew that the 1st day after the discovery of his daughter . Now can sonakshi not even talk to her own mother about her feelings ?
I have always tried to understand Devs psych ... his angst and his pain. But today was rather a rude shock ... I left nothing and no scope to understand anything . I really don't know how they are going to take the story forward but dev was 'extremely' disappointing today

I really liked all your analysis that I read over past few days. I can completely relate to your thinking
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Yeah, what was that he was sporting? it looked awful to me... He does not look like a father.. a mature, responsible and good father..

Then erica looks distracting.. when not in makeup she is more Erica and Less Sona.. can be very distracting..




Dasji... on a lighter note... is tht distraction good one or a bad one?. I can guess the answer but still want to hear frm u😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just one question to all...have ever Sonakshi spoken so rudely to anyone ever in IN...the way Dev spoke to Asha today was completely wrong...the way he is speaking n treating Bijoy is horrible...Bijoy ne Dev ka kya bigada hai?... Have Dev ever spoken to RR like this ???? Everyone knows what RR n Vickey did to dixits ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have followed only 3 serials very closely because of the nice story (at the beginning) & exceptional chemistry between the leads & superlative acting.

IPKKND, QH & KRPKAB. In all 3 the heroes started out clean shaven & dapper & well dressed! One year into the serial Barun (IPKKND) looked oily & unkempt! KSG & Shah grew their hair & beard & employed the dreaded pony! KSG infact stated wearing a headband!

I hated that the men look so shabby but in all 3 serials the heroines managed to look fresh & beautiful- this despite all 3 wearing horrendous clothes!

I know barun & KSG were tired of working serials & went onto to do movies. Is this shahs plan?

Thankfully all 3 are wonderful actors so the work didn't suffer (despite all 3 serials meandering into weird story lines that made no sense).

I hope this serial doesn't follow the same path!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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We definitely didn't deserve that ponytail !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik

I have followed only 3 serials very closely because of the nice story (at the beginning) & exceptional chemistry between the leads & superlative acting.

IPKKND, QH & KRPKAB. In all 3 the heroes started out clean shaven & dapper & well dressed! One year into the serial Barun (IPKKND) looked oily & unkempt! KSG & Shah grew their hair & beard & employed the dreaded pony! KSG infact stated wearing a headband!

I hated that the men look so shabby but in all 3 serials the heroines managed to look fresh & beautiful- this despite all 3 wearing horrendous clothes!

I know barun & KSG were tired of working serials & went onto to do movies. Is this shahs plan?

Thankfully all 3 are wonderful actors so the work didn't suffer (despite all 3 serials meandering into weird story lines that made no sense).

I hope this serial doesn't follow the same path!



Preeti .. i hope the history doesnt get repeated again.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sharica

Regarding Sona remembering rain dance sequence -When Jatin said that why are you getting impacted with Dev's words, this is what he wants. Then Sona thinkss abt that rain sequence as she was impacted with Dev's words then also and went to him for dance.. just as an example that she is getting impacted and reacting..

My PoV.

Again today Dev and Sona were a big disappointment...what were they doing??? Fighting for nothing...

When it comes to Dev's mom he gets irritated..she never said anything but he assumed..

Same goes with Sona..without knowing what happened she started shouting on Dev...

This is why Asha should have told her family abt Ronita's mom..else Sorabh and Bijoy will keep on blaming him...and how is Asha sure ki after marriage Ronita's mom will not do anything..
They are more problems waitng for Sona and after marriage it will difficult to deal with such situations...Asha has already witnessed the same with Sona's marriage and now again she is taking chance with Sorabh which can impact Sona...

Episode was full of unnecessary fights, blame games and shouting...

Dev and Sona has so so so much inside them..it has to come out..
And the reason for so much of bitterness is that hey had unlimited expectations from each other but when their relation broke up, everything broke inside them..every damn feeling and now they are at their peak...and just venting out seeing each other...again for their families...now also they are not introspecting themselves...




Okay ! Seems true.. that When Jatin said you are giving him what he wants by getting affected..She did not remember the rain dance as 'being herself' by saying "Mai tumhare jaise nahi hu" but actually thought of it as a situation where she was negatively impacted and got carried away with his words.
Niceee...it explains why she wasn't mellowed down but bitter after this conversation.
Regarding Asha, So true! Though she had an amazing way to approach things, Asha has trusted Mrs. Mondol again. I hope it doesn't prove to be a mistake because Mrs. Mandol is an expert in putting up a guilty face for show and doesn't regret anything.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _TheJoker-

@saumiee

I really liked/like your posts... so sorted and balanced just like how a good show and fictional characters should and can be discussed with respecting different views.

I think CVs have lost track what they want to do with Dev. if i thought that these 7 years will bring some change in Dev then I was right. they have got change in him in all the wrong way. so much that I miss the old Dev Dixit... I miss the Natasha track Dev...I miss the Neha Ki Shadi Wala Dev.. and I miss Mr Obhodro period
from the very beginning I was always ok with Dev-Ishwari's equation. Ishwari is his mother and there was nothing wrong in my eyes to love your mother unconditionally... problem was when it became blind.
Dev never realized rather believed that his mother can be wrong... he indeed felt she was/is God..

dont we all love out mothers? but along with that dont we know that out mothers are human... she can be wrong.. my mother sometime gets hyper... sometime she cribs.. sometime she watches too much of Ekta serial.. sometime she does chugli of pados wali aunty... and I know she can be insecure...but i still love her... Dev loves his mother because he thinks she can never be wrong... but Mr Dev Dixit you love your mother when you know she is a human ...can and will do wrong and accept it... accept her flaws and love her... know that she has done mistakes and that has cost YOU a life without a wife and daughter... dont go and shout at your mother... dont cut her off.. dont misbehave... but AT LEAST accept that she has been wrong.

One thing that I understand that Dev's intention has never been wrong... he always wanted to make people happy only... hut his ways have been so wrong... so wrong that he has made a mockery of his own life... its SO tiring now to see him blabber the same thing again and again which makes no sense to me or anyone... Dev Dixit when will you understand that these 7 years you BOTH suffered... pls stop being so unreasonable that people forget that you too probably were not happy..

Thanks a lot. It means a lot to me!😊
You have summed it up pretty well, Dev may not reflect this in his daily routine now but he still does worship Ishwari. So much so, that he can't accept she is flawed.
Like the way we look at God - whenever anything miserable happens or our day is bad, We are upset, we complain but we accept it all as God's will. That if he wants it to be that way, we have to accept it. Also, we never question him because God is perfect.
Dev looks at Ishwari the same way. He knows he has been wronged, the cause is Ishwari...but he does not think she is flawed. He accepts the way things happened and tries to move on by accepting his God wanted it this way.
Dev forgets she is a human. Yes, God is perfect but imperfections is human, this is he forgets.
Also totally agree that Dev's intentions are not wrong but the way he brings his thoughts into action is very wrong.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Yeah, what was that he was sporting? it looked awful to me... He does not look like a father.. a mature, responsible and good father..

Then erica looks distracting.. when not in makeup she is more Erica and Less Sona.. can be very distracting..


True that Sir! Plus, I think this ponytail is so not in sync with what Dev really is. I agree his lifestyle, his approach for everything has changed but his core personality is the same. His outfit and hairstyle should reflect the same.
Yesterday it did not seem like I was looking at Dev Dixit.
Bijoy even said it, "ye rowdygiri yaha nahi chalegi"😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

I don't have any Pov

After watching the episode.
It's hard to digest for me...I guess I'm not mature enough to understand the complexities of relationship
Still I tried doing that by reading urs and some more analysis
And I have concluded that Devakshi are directionless and want someone's guidance to take their relationship on the right track...and asha is here for the same!😉

Will wait for more episodes to form my opinion!😃
Thanks for such a lovely post Saumiee Di👏
P.S -Hahaha..Dev was looking so shabby while fighting with Sona...whenever those hair were falling on his head!😆😆😆

Bingo dear!😊 DevAkshi are directionless indeed. They dont know how to fight, argue and for what. They are just blabbering whatever comes to their mind. That is why they need Asha/Jatin to intervene and be a 'mirror' for them.

I hated how all his hair were covering his face when he was talking😆
Thanks😳

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