Is it only me or they are bringing up the same fights up unnecessarily? Today's episode left a bitter taste in mouth regarding Dev Sonakshi.
The only and only charm was Asha!👏what a lady really! So sorted, calm and no-nonsense woman.I could not relate to anything that Dev said to Sonakshi today because it was contradictory to whatever was happening ever since Dev entered Bose house.Seems Dev is, one hurt with the way Sonakshi did not believe in him though he said to Asha that he really doesn't care what she thinks, second He cannot bear anything against his mother.I thought he has evolved to be a practical person but this practicality is lost when it comes to Ishwari.What Dev said was pinching for Sonakshi..and it may be true for some that Sonakshi is trying to run behind the truth and principles so much that she forgets what the fate of the relationship might be after the revelation.But here, in this situation, she did not want Sounita marriage to be broken but wanted things to be clear. Clear that things aren't as cordial as sourab ronita imagine..like I said yesterday..she doesn't want this marriage to break with regrets later.Certainly, love is not enough!It is all about blaming each other for Dev and Sonakshi, like the children said it is confusing. Who is lying who is not?Actually nobody is. It is all about perspectives.The only person having a balanced perspective is Asha now. She tried to advice Dev about rethinking but it was rejected right away.Sonakshi is trying to convince herself that she hasn't changed. She finds solace in Jatin's advice...what astonished me was how She remembered the rain sequence when J asked her to be herself and not give importance to him.Does that mean Sonakshi thinks she was content and happy when she herself went to Dev for the dance, when he did not expect her to? To prove that she has not changed?Help me decode that moment.Soha is such a sensitive child, I loved how she said friendship cannot be forced or else they will collapse.I see Dev and Sonakshi have a really really long way to go.P.S I miss Dev in formals and his old decent look. The add-on ponytail is eyesore.
I like your balanced analysis.. I have been reading them for a week now. I have never been active on this forum. But today's episode made me want make a post. The episode was a disaster. Sigh...
I have been following the show since it's start and took a break few days after dev and sonakshi wedding. I was not able to handle what sonakshi was going through with ishawari's passive attacks and gkb 's direct attacks. Even after that I could never dislike Dev because of his intrinsic qualities as an individual.
I resumed watching just before the seperation and leap. Over last few weekends I also caught up with the epis I had missed.
As I said I could not dislike dev even though I felt for sonakshi. I guess because I knew he loved her... in fact I thought her to be not a separate entity but one. Hence he wanted to react and behave just the way he did with his mother. Like he knew during his 1st breakup and many more instances that ishwari is at fault but the indebted son in him still let it go each time giving her unconditional love. Unfortunately, that cannot happen... we can accept our parents the way they are but not inlaws. It's so complicated. Let's not even talk about ishwari's behavior.
Post leap I saw dev as a changed person, someone who is callus about everyone around him except golu. I don't remember the episode number but he clearly mentioned that he cannot accept or take any more interference from ishwari. He also witnessed his mother lying about sona-Jatin, he witnessed sonakshi opinion1st hand about his mother( don't remember the dialogue but something like she is some kumbar who mounds truth to her convenience ). Even after all this he didn't blast. Then why suddenly ever since he found his daughter has he forgotten everything ??? I know bijoy is irritating . But then how does a father of a girl who faced so many hardships and raise her family and daughter single handedly react to the man who didn't have the courage to stand for his daughter behave? Everyone is not as calm and rational as asha. What appalled me about dev'sbehavior today is that he didn't even spare asha who is only one who understands him forget the way he treated bijoy and sonakshi. Sonakshi never told anything bad about dev to soha and he knew that the 1st day after the discovery of his daughter . Now can sonakshi not even talk to her own mother about her feelings ?
I have always tried to understand Devs psych ... his angst and his pain. But today was rather a rude shock ... I left nothing and no scope to understand anything . I really don't know how they are going to take the story forward but dev was 'extremely' disappointing today
I really liked all your analysis that I read over past few days. I can completely relate to your thinking