unfit for marriage

Don't bash me but how to get married to a person who wears rose tinted glass as far as his behaviour or family are concerned. Sona has her fault but she can be brought to the negotiation table but Dev...give me a break...no redemption.

If Dev and Sona get hitched again, then, the whole sob story from the beginning will start again. Please, I can't bear it.

For me, may it be Ritvik or Jatin, they seem to be better suited to Sona.

Hi leaves.I have seen you often in the JNDSD forum.

@Bold-No offence meant but I disagree there.That line actually demeans the entire essence of Dev and Sona's love.Dev and Sona were never a lusty couple.Their romance is as graceful and decent as it can get.Have you ever seen them getting overtly physical ? They hardly ever touch each other forcibly ...falling in love due to physical attraction was never the case.The problem with these two idiots is compatibility issues particularly from Dev's side.

Other than that I agree.

Even i do not thnk they were unfit for marriage..neither were they immature..families play an important role in our indian marriages...and as sona said yesterday for a marriage to wrk well in our society, the families too have to get along well, if not well, atleast shldnt create further problems for the couple...neither the girl can give up on her parents , nor the guy..as much as they love one another, they also love their parents and have a responsibility towars them..

One of the most common causes of arguments during the initial days of most marriages is when it comes to their families..they have lived wth their families for the past 20-30 yrs and its not easy for either one of them to let their F*Ly to b criticised..the level of understsnding is always different..the girl wldnt be able to unferstand her MIL as much d the guy understnds his mom, so what hurts the girl might not sound so bad to the boy coz he knows exctly what his parent meant or intended...and vice versa...so these issues are common in most mrried couples life esp durin the initial yrs when the trust n understanding is just developing..but in case of devkshi, unfortunatly, his mom was insecure to the level of not wanting her son to marry ...and that was the root cause of all the problems..and in real life too..such a scenario wld have ended up in a divorce unless the guy tkes a strong stand or decides to live separately but here dev clnt do that coz of the difficult past he had ..coz his mom is a widow , coz she bought him up facing lot of hardships so it was impossible for him to even thnk of leaving her..so wat other option did they have?? Another issue was the lack of proper communication betn them mainly coz of the fear of hurting one another...both loved each other immensly ..if only Sona , instead of bearing all he tortures alone, discussed it wth dev ..if only dev did not find temp solutions to keep everyone happy at the same time...if only !!

So what makes you thnk dev wld have been happy with someone like Asha...every individual has a tolerance level..Sona ws as understanding n patient as Asha initially ..but when issues piled up one after another, she lost her cool and that might have been the same wth Asha or any other girl...as long as Ishwari doesnt change , there is no scope for any girl to live happily with dev...and coming to Dev, being such a pure soul, he can never let go of his mother whatever she does..the max he can do it sacrifice his life n happiness which he did..

So both these people are jus perfect for one another , just that they were too gud to hurt their own families, hence they decided to hurt themselves !