Marriage and Parents

Till kids get married every thing is fine...a happy family both places - IN and Bose house...The moment Kids marriage happens or even in discussions...so many problems appear...I wonder why ??

Till Dev found a life partner every thing was fine and happy at IN ...small , small issues which most family will have ...but once Dev married things started going out of hand...every day was a challenge for Dev and Sonakshi...even more for the Dev trying to please every one...and loosing his emotional balance now and then...

Even Neha's marriage brought in so much of problems for the Dixits..

At Bose house also everything was good till Sonakshi got married.. now they are going thru pain of having a Sonakshi and Soha at home with out a male support for them ...this is understood thou openly never spoken..and all the while I was thinking it all happened due to the Dixits...

Now comes Saurabh's marriage...I thought Bijoy and Asha were balanced group and will handle their son's marriage smoothly and there wont be any problems...but then Bijoy started reacting very poorly , he is impulsive like Dev...and above all he is loud and rude... He is tensed abt his Son's marriage and he feels Dev's presence could wreck things up for Saurabh ...he is stressed out and the end result is his poor behavior..On the other hand like Ishwari , Ronita's mom is also insecure...she feels Sonakshi could snatch away the wealth that should be rightfully her daughters after she marries Sourabh...and adds more fuel to the existing fire..

I sometimes wonder why such things happen when with ur childs marriage...ideally your child getting blessed with a life partner should bring in joy rt ? not insecurity or be overprotective thinking that his or her spouse cannot take care of them or love them more than what parents can do for them.

If you notice...all the other close relationship that makes a family is God's choice but the choice of life partner God smartly left for us to choose...when god himself gave us the authority to choose , then why would parents find it difficult to accept life partner chosen by their kids??!!

Any thoughts on this one ??

Meri family ka abhi iss mamle mein time nhi aya so i cannot say.. Lol..

Originally posted by: AnanyaGhosh

Meri family ka abhi iss mamle mein time nhi aya so i cannot say.. Lol..

Par aapka post is a matter to be thought abt...

The reality is even if parents choose the spouse for their kids once married they will be insecure..its like no one can love their kids as much as parents can do...true your parents love you a lot but they need to understand is that the affection , support and security that you get from your spouse is very different from parental care and support..two are of diff flavor and aroma..both these are required for every individual...then why compare their love??

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

The reality is even if parents choose the spouse for their kids once married they will be insecure..its like no one can love their kids as much as parents can do...true your parents love you a lot but they need to understand is that the affection , support and security that you get from your spouse is very different from parental care and support..two are of diff flavor and aroma..both these are required for every individual...then why compare their love??

Originally posted by: AnanyaGhosh

Yes di sahi kaha.. Every word is true.. Par sach kahu.. Mujhe samajh nhi aa rha hai kya reply du.. As i m nt that known na to such feelings and care and relationships...

Apne life mein toh ek bf nhi hai... Shaadi toh dur ki baat hai.🤣

Bt i strictly respect ur pov...

Don't worry , when time is rt god will see to he will bring him into ur life... 👍🏼