Bijoy Baba...aapne ye kya kiya?

Aapki ye impulsive nature ki vachay se ye sub kuch ho raha hai.

If Baba's impulsive nature had been the reason for the slapgate incident which led to Devakshi's separation, then that same nature has now opened the door for Devakshi to be together, thus leading to their reconciliation. In the first case, if he had shown some sort of forbearance, the second situation would not have arisen. But unfortunately the most dreadful happened; and still Baba has not learned a lesson from it. As a result, this time also, as soon as Soha informs him of going to Kolkatta, he starts packing his bag without a second thought. And for that he was even ready to skip his only son's aashirwaad ceremony...seriously...If he had instead try to buy time from Soha, stating that they would leave as soon as Saurav's marriage was over, Dev-Sona could have found some other way out. No, but then how can Baba forego his pride(ego). And if Baba can be selfish to the extent that, for him his ego is important than his son's marriage, then why can't be Sona; infact, because of him only Sona has to now go to that mad house, forgetting the tortures she had to go through...And we are calling her selfish...Really? Anyway, once again, because of his non-tolerant nature, Baba had to face something like a slap again when Dev-Sona decided to be together, though for the sake of Soha...CVs have really played it smart by using the very same person & reason to be the cause of the break & make of Dev-Sona relation...Kudoos to the story writers for this wonderful execution.

To those, who are ready to jump on me with their gun, let me just share my experience. In the past 2-3 episodes, I am seeing glimpses of my father in Baba, who on the drop of a hat, will jump in to interfering in his kid's lives - whether it be his son's or daughters' lives. Since my hubby is a very cool guy and doesn't give a damn to anyone advising him beyond some extent (evenif it is his mother) my father doesn't tell anything directly to him; rather will start advising me...for which, at last I have to remind him that we both are parents of a teenager and we are grownup to take our own decisions. But, that is not the case when it comes to my siblings case, who had love marriages. Many a times, inspite of me & my mother warning him, my father used to interfere in their lives, till the extent of commenting & passing criticisms in front of their in laws, which are retaliated by tit for tat replies from the other side. And in my brother's case, it reached an extent that he had to warn my father in a harsh tone to stop interfering in his life. Same like Saurabh's case, till his marriage and even after marriage, my brother was treated by my father as someone who was not matured enough to take his decisions. And this had far reaching effects in his marriage, that now my father has learned to control himself. A sentence what I always use to tell my father is, we know your concern for us; but for that one reason, we don't want to see you becoming a joker infront of our inlaws...Let us handle our problems ourselves. That's the same thing what I have to advise Bijoy Baba too.