In the eyes of Gauri...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi all,
Cheers!!

I had been a silent but active stalker on this forum.. I love this couple, characterizations and their impending love-hate relationship. I was never impulsive to write down my thoughts but after today's epi.. i just couldn't control myself from writing this. This is strictly my pov. :)

I read many conversations about people wanting an educated female lead and not another typical panchvi-pass village girl from Barielly for OM. I for once thought they could have made the female lead atleast some college dropout and not an illiterate. But I was wrong. From what we see in the last few epi, she has the highest presence of mind compared to Obroi ladies put together. Education does matter to a girl but they are lot of people with just degrees and no common sense. Her ability to get to the crux of prob (like projector, not believing in bhoot and thinking about hallucinations etc..) as as a problem solver basically reveals she is an intelligent person..

I feel the CV's are basically trying to prove a point that (leaving money of equation) an intelligent girl (what if not graduated) with a golden heart, shrewdness and common sense can be a equal partner to a man has had a education abroad, is bloody rich, has all access to the knowledge,wealth,power but still broken and not happy & still is impulsive to look beyond problems and find a solution (which the girl like her does). OM despite having everthing that money can buy lacks peace, mental strength, happiness and positivity (which she has despite being not so rich).

I feel she is the one who is actually rich (being able to smile, happy, hop around) despite all the difficulties in her life as well(ill mother, insult at home town). He is drowning in depression about all what is happening around in his life(His estranged relationship with father, broken mother & broken trust in love) and only her positivity or unrequited/undemanding/sufiana love can bring him back..

he is double minus and only a double plus of her love can bring him back. It may not seem practical but only that can salvage him..

Love,
Yayini

PS: I would like to bore you with more analysis. So please bear with me.
I love deriving, analyzing & discussing people's reactions, mind, their pleasures displeasures and their hidden thoughts..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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YAASSS TO EVERYTHING!!!

Gauri being under educated would've been a problem had she been shown as a dumb person. But this girl, she's smart. She's quick on her feet and always goes for the most practical approach. The biggest argument against her is her blind faith in her god but that's such a private affair for her. It actually shapes who she is as a character. Gauri shows how to balance practical life with religious side. She does aarti every morning but considers the internet her chachi who holds all the answers. She is ready to whole heartedly be in a one sided relationship/love but has the sense to never demand anything in return. She just has her own affairs in check, she isn't clueless about how to live her life.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pretty much what I had also felt during the bhoot sequence!! I just hope they keep it this way!! We wanted a strong and clever female lead for the Omkaara that he was; not the on ethat he is. i guess for him, gauri would be the best!
Agree to most of what you have written! A bang on post!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Some extend lam also against of gul's typical 5th passed FL.because she always make them sacrificing and doormat types. But about gauri I think she have great presence of mind like last episode she didn't believe svet's ghost wala drama and when she saw that projector she try to connect it with current situations and another side highly educated om easily fell in to svet's trap. That's quiet refreshing. Gauri's drawback is her overdose patiparmeshwar rant.sometimes it is hell irritating. Rikara yet to start. So we don't know how they are going to show gauri on future. First few episodes FL are strong, independent and happy go lucky types on gul's shows and after that they will use them as doormat . I hope atleast gauri is different from them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes.. She has considered this relationship an ashirvaad from her Sankarji.
Like rain is a mercy of nature, so has this relationship turned out for her. Which is indeed a sign of positivity at the highest. Any person who is remotely realist or a pessimist, would have considered this marriage as a bane. For them it would be "Marriage is a for a lifetime and how can i even get married or fakely married to person who has rubbished me as a trash??". But she chose to take the only positive aspect of marriage like how the saviour came in a shining armour. She chose to ignore the insult which followed afterwards and be sane enough to not to demand anything from the marriage.

OM will literally lose himself once he gets into this positivity ka volcano.. But he will be vulnerable at that point also because she will become all that defines his hope on world. Too much emotionally vulnerable stuff coming up if CV's handle this all properly.

Love,
Yayini
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@yayini--wowww bang on post...agree with ur each nd every words..it will be vveryy intense if cvs handle rikara track properly..nd yeh keep posting :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: meLuvsParul

@yayini--wowww bang on post...agree with ur each nd every words..it will be vveryy intense if cvs handle rikara track properly..nd yeh keep posting :)

Don't understand estimate the power of gulneet. They will only do omm of our wishes and thoughts. 😆 yayini plz can you post your thoughts regarding rikara on gul's insta. May be she will get some inspiration from your post and show some mercy to us.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lakshmi32

Don't understand estimate the power of gulneet. They will only do omm of our wishes and thoughts. 😆 yayini plz can you post your thoughts regarding rikara on gul's insta. May be she will get some inspiration from your post and show some mercy to us.


I wish i could..😆 No insta account

My wish is to bring some interest and positivity in the forum 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Really well described about the character of gouri.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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First of all Gauri was not at all illiterate as she was 5vi pass n a person who can read n write his/her name is literate as per the definition of literacy
Secondly literacy or education has nothing to do with intelligence the great Hindi writer Nirala n sumitra nandan pant etc. were graduates but their books are taught to post graduate n pHD students of Hindi literature

I never had a problem with either her her illiteracy or language (when a foreigner speaks in broken Hindi you are fine,but when a Bhojpuri speaking person tries that then you start mocking this is hypocrisy) my only issue was that she believes in Pati parmeshwar thing thinks Omkara to be always right

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