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When a child marries, parents wonder, "Will he settle down and be a loving and responsible person?" I remember when I married off my oldest son and was so happy to see him grow into a responsible husband and father, who would often get up with a child at night so that his wife could sleep and was at her side when they needed to take a child to the doctor. He didn't seem to mind that he could no longer go out at night or spend days on trips to his favorite places. Perhaps because he was raised with the Victory Method, he managed the stresses without resorting to escapism or criticism, even when irritated or exhausted. That's maturity.
However, some married people never make this transition. They remain immature, wanting to be free to have fun or pursue their careers without the burden and responsibilities of marriage and parenthood. Although there are also women like this, the phenomenon is more common in men. The "married bachelor" type is well-known to advisors and counsellors, who chastise them, but rarely see change.
Many of these men did not really want to get married, but succumbed to family and social pressure. Feeling that they were forced into marriage and forced to have children, their "revenge" is seen in a passive-aggressive refusal to accept responsibility and an attitude of resentment toward their "restrictive" wives and "stifling" way of life.
To identify the main traits of a 'married bachelor' and to know how to manage a married life with them, here is the link:
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