Aayun jo apni hadd pe,tujhe kya se kya banaa doon! - Page 2

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@penfolk I dont think Maya put Arjun on that spot purposefully. Though I cant give her clean chit yet on Maurtius Pandit, Vikram accident. Jhanvi is not afraid of Maya. Her eyes doesnt show fear when Maya is nearby. Her pressing the buttom when Maya tells Arjun is hiding something from me shows Jhanvi either wants to bring her daughter out of the delusion or she knows something about Arjun.

I dont think Arjun loved Maya per se. He was attracted to her. I had put that in many posts. There was a certain aura about Maya which he wanted to conquer reason being he felt his step mom had trapped his father. So he didnt want a woman to control him. This aspect is very clear in Arjun from day 1. He blames Vandana for all problems, Saanjh for all problems. Both Vandana and Saanjh run behind him allowing him to do whatever he wants. Good or bad. Basically he kept both the women chasing behind him, never valued them.

Coming to Maya after consummation Maya tells Vandana she got Arjun, but if you check Arjun changes colors, because once consummation done Maya is his. Typical male attitude. He tells her he doesnt want to go back to 1bhk apartment. So that means Maya along with the perks attracted him. He takes her car keys telling he is fed up with driving his jeep. Basically he excepts like VM and Saanjh, Maya will also go any extend to do his bidding. And will allow him to do whatever he wants.

But problem is it doesnt happen. Maya kept check and balances which a man like Arjun cannot take. And she does it in a very obsessive way. Problem with the couple is Arjun wants Maya his way and Maya wants Arjun her way. That power struggle was written all over during the initial days in office itself.

No marriage can sustain like this. Both partners have to give and take. Here we have 2 individuals who only want to take. Result is null or destruction all around.

Dont think if Arjun was with Saanjh his life would have been different. He will still have complaints as Saanjh doesnt have his larger than life ambitions. He will manipulate Saanjh to get whatever he wants. The same way he got drunk in the restaurant or he stopped her from going to Singapore. Saanjh allowing herself to be a doormat would have ruined her life also.

So whatever mess Arjun and Maya are right into it, they both are responsible for it. Her need of imagined security landed her with a mess called Arjun and his need for a beautiful wife with lavish lifestyle landed him with a mess called Maya.

Originally posted by: Penfolk

@khushi...yes, maaya can never be given a clean chit. And Arjun has almost become her possession. I agree women should keep control over their men, but everything has a limit.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Love doesnt control, in a healthy relationship you put limits and that limits come on its own. Nobody can impose them.

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Sorry...But what kind of control are we talking here, about women over their men???😲...I think I disagree here...

There is no place for external control in love...True love creates its own control, or so I believe...

Originally posted by: Penfolk

Let's believe that Arjun had really fallen for Maya on the day she saved him from drowning in Mauritius. A pre planned seclusion of him as per the phone call she made beforehand. So, basically the basement was based on half a truth.

She DIDNT manipulate him in2 fallin4 her. she didnt plan anytn here. 😆😆 duffer fell fr her, seein how crazy she is, for him & maya's manipulation isnt involved here!! 😕😕

Maya had claimed that she didn't see love for saanjh in Arjun's eyes. Same was the case for her then. She wooed him. Saanjh didn't, that's the difference.

Saanjh didnt try2 woo him? 🤣 Evn afta knowin arya relationship dat girl actually proposed him & askd him if he wud hav given her a chance if he had known dis b4. 😆😆

She had forever believed she couldn't be loved, because of a bad past. But if she is taking promises from someone, promises to not leave her ever, whatever come may, it was her duty to make him aware of what exactly can come.

Agn duffer was d one to stop her. Rembr how he askd her to tell him d truth afta d bachelor party. She was all ready2 tell him, wid tears in here eyes, but arjun was d one who stopped her sayin he doesnt care abt her past. & how conveniently u blame maya here 😆😆

Arjun was a happy go lucky person, a duffer with lots of attitude, who might have blindly and completely believed maya for whatever reason be, but maya's insecurities have left him eccentric too, a sadist who enjoyed maya crying out helplessly, because maya has failed to hear his screams all through the years.

I DO agree wid u here. Maya has suffocated him so much, dat he, who wsnt able to see her tears once upon a tym, has now turned in2 a psycho smirkin @ her wen shez cryin cuz of him