Give them a break

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Posted: 8 years ago
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With all the traumatic events, she experienced I was wondering how she was so okay, but looks like the writers were waiting for Daksh's return. SC was amazing today 👏

Character-wise she hasn't been the same since the wedding happened. I remember her breakdown after the reception and her words then explain her behavior now. She was fun and full of life, but now she is like a zombie resigned to her fate. As a viewer, I know her abandonment issues coupled with her love has made her accept this benaam relationship, but it's disappointing she isn't angry. She is a human being and she should be even angrier now because she is in love. It's natural to be angry when people we love hurt (and continue to hurt) us because they aren't supposed to hurt us. We expect more from them, but the problem is she doesn't expect anything from him or his family. The writers have written her this way on purpose so the abuse continues and she accepts it all, which yields them TRPs.


I was upset about Prinku hiding the truth, but I realized her only example of dealing with this type of situation is Om. He went against his principles, spiraled into drugs to deal with the guilt, and continues to hide the secret for her. In turn, she wants to protect her brother, who is more of a father than her own father is and she thinks this is the only way. Like Om, who without hesitation was willingly to take all the blame for her mistake she is in turn doing the same for Shivaay. While I admire the love I wish these siblings would realize you shouldn't cover up sins for family because that is doing them more harm than good. You take responsibility for your actions and make amends for your mistakes, but then we wouldn't have a show lol.


While Prinku's actions are out love, but I'm not sure if the same could be said for Anika. I might be in the minority but her actions don't say love to me. Yes, she is love in fact she said it herself, but her actions seem to stem from her inferiority complex. It's not shocking she has developed a complex after being constantly targeted and put down. She thinks less of herself because of them. Apologizing to her brother's aggressor and her abuser was submission, not an act of love.


I want to sympathize with Anika and Prinku, but it's too much self-sabotage. For the sake of a brother and a husband they are willingly to endure pain and humiliation. While I don't agree, it's not like some people don't think this way. My issue is with the writers' glorification of their destructive behavior.


Maybe this will be the amazing track of where Anika finally rises from the ashes *knock on wood* This would be a perfect opportunity to address the two traumatic events in her life when both perpetrators are present in her life. I love you Shivaay, but sorry taking a bullet for her doesn't absolve you have your sins. Prinku can own up to her mistake and stop letting a bully manipulate her.

I know we need conflict and drama, but come on writers give us and the characters a break😆

I shouldn't have any expectations, but someone please stop this wedding. Kamini, Daksh, and the ACP is a horrible fate for Prinku and Anika. Anika re-open your detective agency, Om please remember the ACP is the same psycho that was emotionally torturing you, and Rudra feel free to impersonate the pandit again.

Jokes aside, this would be a perfect time to have both characters stand up to their abusers and find their voice again.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely post - loved your takes and the parallels you drrew on how they have both been abused. The way Shivaay was asking Anika to be strong today gave me ope , although i wish the brothers had instiled same courage in their sister, who seems afraid of her own shadow.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: teehee

Lovely post - loved your takes and the parallels you drrew on how they have both been abused. The way Shivaay was asking Anika to be strong today gave me ope , although i wish the brothers had instiled same courage in their sister, who seems afraid of her own shadow.


He was there for and comforted her. I just wish the writers don't make him disappearing so Daksh can accost her a habit. I knew it was going to be Shivaay, but I was still scared it would be Daksh 😆

Honestly, what is happening to Prinku is no different than what happened to Anika. The only difference is one is family while the other is a stranger. If the writers are going to use their situation to teach the family a lesson and both girls come out stronger then I'm looking forward to it.
Edited by yellomellow - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said exactly how I am feeling
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post, all good points. It is definitely a writing flaw, the characters are reduced to near death events and then some wedding crap. Annika needs to pick up but that can only happen if provided they want her to be the strong FL they started off with. I totally understand that the channel demands drama or shows get axed quick. However, like you said drama can be provided in many different ways.

All I really want is conversation among characters and or the characters to be shown to have some thought process😆 They did that in the beginning when Annika used to be at home and she would think or speak to Sahil. These days theres none of it. The bedroom scene today I enjoyed but then there is no consistency, we just don't know what will happen next and will negate such a scene.

But it looks like Shivaay wants to wrap up this wedding quick, and with new set pix that seems accurate. So Daksh may be gone soon (fingers-crossed)



Edited by Arnavlover98 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said... Anika keep asides her respect n ask sorry for nothing she did. Ranveer taking advantage of Prinku love for her bro n family hope someone pulls off tis marriage
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for such a wonderful post 👏👏👏
Mirror your sentiments, really wish there is a ray of hope for Annika and Priyanka after this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely post.
Hope the two of them are able to face upto their abusers/perpetrators and emerge stronger than ever before. Would love to see Anika teach Daksh a fitting lesson and Prinku to the ACP. Both are cheapdes and creeps... for subjecting them to this ordeal. Also Shivaay should realize that his so called friend is such a psycho and if he chooses his NKK over Anika, then she should just... quit. He has not yet seen the full, ugly side of DAksh that Anika has seen and faced.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for acknowledging Shivaay as one of her perpetrators because he always gets a pass for his behavior😆

This would be the perfect opportunity to make these characters stronger, but I highly doubt these writers want strong FLs. We might get Shivaay saving her unless TRPs come into play than she will be forced to suffer at Daksh's hands.

If this track is to show the parallels between them and the expose the family's bias or their lack of humanity for continuing to treat Anika the way they do then I would be interested. Sadly, I don't Anika will feel bad that he puts his sister or her feelings above her worth as a human being because she is content with being treated like dirt. The family and their behavior won't change either. Shivaay might be the only one affected, but it won't change anything 😆

SSO will save the day then random jump to the next morning and all is forgotten t.

Anika and Prinku need psychiatric help. Since the wedding and Daksh she is mentally exhausted and broken. It could be PTSD and the never-ending weddings are triggering her. It explains her erratic behavior and why she isn't acting like herself. It doesn't help that he is trying to mold her into someone she isn't and she is okay with it. While Prinku has been on the edge of a cliff since the beginning of the show. She doesn't stand a chance against them nor will she even try to fight.

We shouldn't expect much from these writers, ever. We have a shows where woman and children are abused, a sister being marred off to psychos, a wife that literally worships her husband as god, a husband that mentally and physically tortures his wide, and vulgar scenes of a woman exposing herself. Oh right and witches 😆


Edited by onlyrani - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arnavlover98

Great post, all good points. It is definitely a writing flaw, the characters are reduced to near death events and then some wedding crap. Annika needs to pick up but that can only happen if provided they want her to be the strong FL they started off with. I totally understand that the channel demands drama or shows get axed quick. However, like you said drama can be provided in many different ways.


All I really want is conversation among characters and or the characters to be shown to have some thought process😆 They did that in the beginning when Annika used to be at home and she would think or speak to Sahil. These days theres none of it. The bedroom scene today I enjoyed but then there is no consistency, we just don't know what will happen next and will negate such a scene.

But it looks like Shivaay wants to wrap up this wedding quick, and with new set pix that seems accurate. So Daksh may be gone soon (fingers-crossed)



Seriously no one talks anymore. Even the brothers don't talk about anything serious or important. The writers are deliberating doing that so we get tracks like this 😆

I hope he is gone soon too.


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