Originally posted by: Mreddy
Ishgun love is a big turn off for me...and I am really confused what is meaning of self respect/dignity/pain/grief etc in Ishita's book. She is missing Raman when it suits her otherwise she is happily playing house maid to her friend..whole family is. Mani is not letting her husband to come meet her and also meet her kids...so where is her independence..she said she is a doctor...so why this abla nari. She can have fights with her husband but she cannot keep the kids away from their father...whom she knows loves the kids more than anything..or is she testing him if he wants her. Then she should leave the kids with him and see if she still makes the efforts to want her back in his life. Is she afraid..that without the kids he wont make the effort at all to get her back.
Inspite of hearing all about Gulabo awesome acting, I am not able to watch this silly track because of Ishgun. Ishgun bring the trp down. As long as they remain friends..trp will stay down. And this pukeworthy love from the bhallas towards Shagun...😡
@bold - Exactly. You spoke my mind. This has been my constant rant and disappointment with this whole track. Had she moved out of the Bhalla house and lived separately, I would have admired her for her stand of self respect and dignity. But the way her friendship with shagun is being shown, where she takes care of shagun like a maid, shares the minute of details with her, takes her opinion regarding Raman, frequently complains about Raman to her, it is truly disgusting and puke-worthy to watch as a woman. Does she even realize that she is sharing all this with the ex of her husband? Is it actually possible to maintain such a relationship with a husband's ex for real, specifically for the kind of woman shagun is?. Does her help in saving Ruhi alone qualify for giving her a second chance ( god knows how many second chance she will give Shagun😕) and be friendly with her? By that logic, Raman is after all Ruhi's father?. When a woman who tried killing her can be given a second chance, why not Raman who only tried desperately to save his daughter?. Who is going to make Ishita understand even her means of saving Ruhi involved illegal acts?😕
My point is :- She chose to be quite all the while when Raman was hurling abuses. That was wrong. Now that she has decided to take a stand, which is really good, why take a drastic step and walk out without even having a one-one heartfelt conversation in private? Agreed, she voiced her hurt and he has not realized the depth of hurt. He is at fault. But my concern is, why not voice it again and question him, when is he even going to take her feelings and emotions seriously? Why not tell she is hurt beyond a point and what exactly she expects out of him, so that she can trust him back? Where is the communication aspect here? I'm surprised that these two were able to come so far in their marital relationship, without mutual communication, trust and respect, only with understanding and love. 😕
In this track, Raman has been trying his best to talk to her and sort things out, be it in a funny way or seriously. Was she even ready for a detailed talk with him? She forcibly shut her eyes and ears to everything he says and does. She has fixed her mind that she needs to walk away from him and stay separate and has used shagun's pregnancy as an excuse. That is it. I see no traces of self-respect otherwise in this track.
Nowadays, she is not raising the point about her hurt or kids safety at all and the point has shifted to him ignoring her and kids, not calling them, not loving them and she is projecting as if he is an irresponsible husband and father who has left her and kids stranded in life.😕. Now it looks like she only craves for the little happiness in life that a wife expects from husband and nothing else 😕. So in the best interest of kids, family and them as a couple, it is only better she communicates precisely what changes she expects in him and what reassurances she wants from him, rather than waiting indefinitely and making life difficult for everyone. But from what is shown, it looks like even she is not aware of what she wants and is totally lost and confused in this decision of hers.
Bhallas and Iyers :- I don't want to get going. 🥱. They are nuts and are shamelessly involved in pampering and taking care of shagun🤢😡😡, when their whole house is in a mess and the elder son and daughter-in-law / daughter & son-in-law are staying separate. It looks as if Ishita and family have moved out to setup a nuclear family and people are getting used to it, with Ishita visiting them frequently.😕🥱. A bunch of jokers, I would say. 🥱
Sorry for the long rant. It just came with the flow. 😆
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