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Posted: 9 years ago
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So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top ...

This is what I got from today's episode ...

You can interpret the above how ever you want ... Please do share ...

To me atharva dug his grave by leaving ,

Vividha put his body in it by not giving him a chance and marrying ravish ...

Sujata , poured in the ground/sand by passing on the wrong information ... To her it was atharva insisting on the wedding so again , this mother who said she sent her son to school so he could come back and take decision for them , will always trust her song ...

So she made sure vv and R got married ...

And ravish placed a cross and a tomb stone on said grave by saying yes ...

Someone said something today that clicked to me ...

He is always saying yes ...

Yes when suman was like marriage ...

Yes when apparently it was what his father wanted ...

Yes to sujata again about marriage , yes to vividha again ...


this person was angry and asked where is his individuality ... But

I feel ravish is a people pleaser ... He is one of those people that will normally give you what you want if you ask him...

Let me explain ... Has anyone watched my 600lb life with those extremely overweight people ...

There is that family member. That still gives this person what they want ...

Not because they don't love you but because they do ... They love you a lot and want you to be happy , even though whatever that makes you happy is killing you ...

But the family member. Can't see your depression , pain low self esteem etc ...

And so when you ask they give reluctantly with a warning but they do ... Because at some point they lost control of you and now your life is in your hands ...

If you don't want to get better how can they make you ... They have been trying all their lives at some point. You have to let this person go ... You can't always depend on their love ... Yes you love them too and yes you are hurting but yourself , but them seeing you in pain gives them just as much pain ...

That person can walk away. But they love you


And don't want to ... This is where somebody has to realise that a line needs to be drawn ...


I liked ravish today ... For just one reason , yes it was awkward and strange but this was a different side of him...

Little of the control freak and just an average man ( or trying to be average man )

They might not be happy , but they are content and settled ...


There was once this question posed ...

I will give you a list of three things and you can only choose two ...

Love

Happiness

Kids


Which two would you prefer in your life ...

Stepping away from the fandom wars ... I will only really discuss BBA , when the time comes ...


So today guddi love took over again and I made this post ...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post Kells
Yes in every relationship there needs to be a line drawn. Coz humans tend to take everything for granted very easily.

Now if u r being used it's ur own fault to let them use u. Not theirs.

So one should grow a backbone when it's needed.

I would choose kids and love. Coz happiness is where the rest of the two are. :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top ...

This is what I got from today's episode ...


^^ perfect Kels 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would choose "Love" simply because that is foundation for all the other emotions the presence or absence of love!

So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top

@Bold is so true!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post Kells!

I don't like Ravish because he is trying hard to be something he ain't! But then you made a valid point regarding him! He is a human pleaser and his libido pleaser thus why he is in the situation he is today!

Atharv dugged his own grave indeed and now he will suffer the consequences! Forget losing Vividha, he has lost his identify, his mother's name. A name he had so much pride in! How upsetting is that?

Vividha gave the right of that child to someone else! She lied to her little boy, how will she come out of that? She has shot herself in the foot there for sure!

Sujata still believes her boy is alive! If only she knew how much he has forgotten!

#SadState of affairs!!

What a mess by the makers! I wonder how they will clean it up!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kelly 🤗
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Awesome post!

Every relationship has certain boundaries which every one has to respect. If you himself wants to used by others so it's your fault only.

So Atharva dug the grave

Vividha place the body inside

Sujata poured sand in

An Ravish placed a cross on top

@bold so true

For me love is most important. Love is the base of any relationship so automatically other things will come.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My dear Kelly, you really sound upset.. or maybe it's just me :(
ravish is a people pleaser ..You got this one right :) The term selfless people doesn't exist... maybe that's why I cannot connect with this character. Oh well😆

I would choose Love and Kids...Happiness is a part of backage that comes with the other two :) Why choose when you can get it for free :)

Beautiful write up girl🤗

P.S. you nailed this one:

So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top
Edited by KambakthIshq - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh wow Kells, you have got this whole situation spot on! Absolutely love your analogy!

It's funny how you liked Ravish today and for me, for once he actually made no impact. Even though he was there, he just didn't seem there in mind and soul. Yes he is a people pleaser but aside that it seems to me that he is a lost soul.

Today he just didn't seem to fit in. He was standing there like an outsider busy playing with madhav...he had no stance and seemed like Vividha is taking all the shots, he just listens and obeys. I actually feel sorry for him.

If they got married then what a waste as it seems it's non existent. If they haven't got married then hallelujah!

Loved your post!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..sairat..

So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top ...

This is what I got from today's episode ...


^^ perfect Kels 👍🏼



Thank you ... Trupti right ??

I have a question how do you get to place in a moving gif as dp , and what is the required size I see everyone's different ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

I would choose "Love" simply because that is foundation for all the other emotions the presence or absence of love!


So Atharva dug the grave ...

Vividha place the body inside ...

Sujata poured sand in ...

An Ravish placed a cross on top

@Bold is so true!



Thank you ... bold is literally how I saw the episode play out ...

Love is a nice option ...

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