Vividha place the body inside ...
Sujata poured sand in ...
An Ravish placed a cross on top ...
This is what I got from today's episode ...
You can interpret the above how ever you want ... Please do share ...
To me atharva dug his grave by leaving ,
Vividha put his body in it by not giving him a chance and marrying ravish ...
Sujata , poured in the ground/sand by passing on the wrong information ... To her it was atharva insisting on the wedding so again , this mother who said she sent her son to school so he could come back and take decision for them , will always trust her song ...
So she made sure vv and R got married ...
And ravish placed a cross and a tomb stone on said grave by saying yes ...
Someone said something today that clicked to me ...
He is always saying yes ...
Yes when suman was like marriage ...
Yes when apparently it was what his father wanted ...
Yes to sujata again about marriage , yes to vividha again ...
this person was angry and asked where is his individuality ... But
I feel ravish is a people pleaser ... He is one of those people that will normally give you what you want if you ask him...
Let me explain ... Has anyone watched my 600lb life with those extremely overweight people ...
There is that family member. That still gives this person what they want ...
Not because they don't love you but because they do ... They love you a lot and want you to be happy , even though whatever that makes you happy is killing you ...
But the family member. Can't see your depression , pain low self esteem etc ...
And so when you ask they give reluctantly with a warning but they do ... Because at some point they lost control of you and now your life is in your hands ...
If you don't want to get better how can they make you ... They have been trying all their lives at some point. You have to let this person go ... You can't always depend on their love ... Yes you love them too and yes you are hurting but yourself , but them seeing you in pain gives them just as much pain ...
That person can walk away. But they love you
And don't want to ... This is where somebody has to realise that a line needs to be drawn ...
I liked ravish today ... For just one reason , yes it was awkward and strange but this was a different side of him...
Little of the control freak and just an average man ( or trying to be average man )
They might not be happy , but they are content and settled ...
There was once this question posed ...
I will give you a list of three things and you can only choose two ...
Love
Happiness
Kids
Which two would you prefer in your life ...
Stepping away from the fandom wars ... I will only really discuss BBA , when the time comes ...
So today guddi love took over again and I made this post ...