No emotional bond with his daughter

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Posted: 8 years ago
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How can a father be so selfish and self-centric?
He worships his son-in-law like a god while his own daughter suffering are not visible to his eyes...
Or I will say that he is too much lost in his self-created world that he isn't able to see his daughter pain...
When he came to meet Aditya for congratuling him ot was beautifully shown how he is busy in his own life and happiness while his daughter is in pain which she was trying to hide...
I will not be shocked if this marriage was a business deal...
Here somewhere this is also because she is a daughter and not son...
Coz from so many episodes I've realized that in Goenka family there is discrimination b/w boy-girl & son-daughter-in-law (Daadi mentioned it too in kaira's mehendi ceremony)
I loved Swarna who though is not her real mother but still can feel her pain and see through her soul...
I was so wishing Keerti to tell her but no she didn't...
Well it had to happen coz they can't reveal all this so easily...
And now after Manish little talk with Swarna which was heard by Keerti too...
She'll zoom into her mode again to fake everything...
But we can't blame her coz it's clearly shown time and again that how her own family except few people think about it...
I doubt even if she got the courage and told them the truth they'll believe her...
Instead they'll blame her as they do with Kaira coz for them Aditya is the idle man...
But in all this I like Swarna's concern for Keerthi...


P.S.:Hope Kartik too will see his sister's suffering apart from his upcoming blissful married life...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Theres no respect for women in this family (except Dadi).

This man never seems to either notice or care about his wife's suffering whom he actually lives with and sees every day (the way Dadi taunts and belittles her every moment possible). Forget abt his daughter who he rarely sees.

Dadi and Manish wont even support Keerti if she speaks and their word is law in that house (the only one with courage to rebel seems to be Kartik) and knowing these 2 backward people, they will blame it all on Keerti ('its ur fault that you're not doing ur wifely duties properly' type blame).

Keerti's unwillingness to speak up and rebel against Aditya has been instilled in her from a young age by her own family (plus the victim mentality that exists in these situations). Other women in the family like Swarna always stay quiet and conform to Dadi's beliefs (I'm not belittling Keerti's abuse by comparing her to Swarna (altho Swarna herself experiences a milder form of neglect and verbal abuse at the hands of Dadi and Manish) I'm just saying that her staying silent and staying with Adi stems from learned behaviour from what she has seen in her own family dynamics).

Yes, after today, what little progress Swarna made has been undone by Manish. I'm hoping that Swarna finally finds the courage to stand against Dadi and Manish by helping Keerti, I hope that she doesn't ignore her intuitions and talks to Keerti.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Goenkas definitely discriminate between boys and girls.
Which is a pretty horrible thing to do.

Dadi is a women herself and she still considers females as second class citizens.

Kirti is his own daughter and not once Manish thinks of her happiness. He knows something is wrong between creep and Kirti, yet he believes it to be Kirti's fault.

Thankfully Suvarna saw Kirti in pain, hopefully she will think more about it.

Want Karthik to notice Kirti's pain too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well Manish is not a good dad at all. Becoz of him his both children have suffered and still suffering.. ..His ignorance and unsupportive behaviour has put kirti in this terrible situation. Karthik does right with him

The only flaw that i see karthk is his too much trust on dadi and not seeing his sister's pain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very true. Manish cares only abt his reputation n least bothered abt his daughter pain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

Theres no respect for women in this family (except Dadi).

This man never seems to either notice or care about his wife's suffering whom he actually lives with and sees every day (the way Dadi taunts and belittles her every moment possible). Forget abt his daughter who he rarely sees.

Dadi and Manish wont even support Keerti if she speaks and their word is law in that house (the only one with courage to rebel seems to be Kartik) and knowing these 2 backward people, they will blame it all on Keerti ('its ur fault that you're not doing ur wifely duties properly' type blame).

Keerti's unwillingness to speak up and rebel against Aditya has been instilled in her from a young age by her own family (plus the victim mentality that exists in these situations). Other women in the family like Swarna always stay quiet and conform to Dadi's beliefs (I'm not belittling Keerti's abuse by comparing her to Swarna (altho Swarna herself experiences a milder form of neglect and verbal abuse at the hands of Dadi and Manish) I'm just saying that her staying silent and staying with Adi stems from learned behaviour from what she has seen in her own family dynamics).

Yes, after today, what little progress Swarna made has been undone by Manish. I'm hoping that Swarna finally finds the courage to stand against Dadi and Manish by helping Keerti, I hope that she doesn't ignore her intuitions and talks to Keerti.



So true yaar...
It's true that Manish loves his wife but then also she hasn't given authority to keep her views in front of them...
It's always about what daadi and Manish thinks or want...
Well the main problem for the lack of bonding is daadi...
Kartik should see her true face...
Both mother-daughter duo are just behind money and fake respect...
Kartik said correct that Mr. Goenka is always busy in his business meetings...
To gain small profit he tends to ignore big one and the relations...
I doubt Keerti telling the truth after hearing her dad words...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: janvi0513

Goenkas definitely discriminate between boys and girls.
Which is a pretty horrible thing to do.

Dadi is a women herself and she still considers females as second class citizens.

Kirti is his own daughter and not once Manish thinks of her happiness. He knows something is wrong between creep and Kirti, yet he believes it to be Kirti's fault.

Thankfully Suvarna saw Kirti in pain, hopefully she will think more about it.

Want Karthik to notice Kirti's pain too.



Well! Manish is too busy in earning money to notice the strain in his daughter relationship...
But yes I am hopeful about Swarna...
Maybe after mehendi fiasco somewhere she too has started doubting...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

Well Manish is not a good dad at all. Becoz of him his both children have suffered and still suffering.. ..His ignorance and unsupportive behaviour has put kirti in this terrible situation. Karthik does right with him

The only flaw that i see karthk is his too much trust on dadi and not seeing his sister's pain.



Yes, his reckless attitude towards his own children had made them far from him...
And when truth of Keerti marriage will be out this gap will just intensify...
As of now I too am disappointed with Kartik character growth...
Hope he will soon realise his sister's suffering...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NancyPaul

Very true. Manish cares only abt his reputation n least bothered abt his daughter pain.



Least bothered?
I think he is not at all bothered...
Swarna believe Keerti is matured enough to not let them down...
While Manish is on his blaming spree for Keerti...

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