I DON'T KNOW ABOUT IT, KOYI 1st HAND EXPERIENCE HI NAHI HAI MUJHE...2/ - Page 6

Originally posted by: swa6

Viji darlz...

Check it when you have time, n share ur thoughts😉

About Episode

Title Scene

probably i m gonna slp now...🥱

Originally posted by: Akhinaravi

Dont understand Ishita...bcoz Anniversary hai isliye Raman ko miss kiya nahi toh kuch miss viss nahi karte...Ishita ko Raman ke baare mein sochne ka time hi nahi hai sirf Raman hi biwi bachon ko yaad karte...Ishita khud hi Raman ko dhoor push kiya dha na ab uske saath anniversary aur valentines day celebrate karna chahthe hai...Agar Ishita ko Raman se milne ya interact karne mein problem nahi hai toh bachon ko Raman se dhoor kyu rakte hai...Acha hua Raman anniversary celebrate karne keliye nahi pahunje kyu ki Raman ki importance ishita kabhi nahi samjhenge aur Raman romantic nahi hai and all...arey Raman hamesha apna pyaar openly express karte hai aur precap mein mein Ishita ne bola ki Romance sab wahi log karte hai jinke beech mein pyaar hota hai ...arey itne saal hogaya isko abhi bhi Raman ki pyaar par shak hai kya,Raman aur Ishita ne ek doosre keliye kya kuch nahi kiya par abhi bhi Ishita ko dono ki pyaar mein shak hai aur Yeh track mein bhi Raman ki feelings ko koi justice nahi milegi... its all about Ishita's feelings and her hurts...andit's about her ego not any self repect

Originally posted by: Lacustris

This Gulabo doesn't seem like it is to address Ishita's pain and Raman understanding the extent of the damage his anger and out of control abuses he hurled at her from time and again and realizing and healing her. The way the track is progressing is to showcase the pregnancy of Shagun and celebrating her motherhood.

Yesterday, i wrote that the way Shagun and Raman bonding over the coffee and shagun talking about Pihu likes and dislikes made it crystal clear the main focus of the track and today's scenes of Shagun, Pihu confirmed it. Pihu after finishing the home work her running to Shagun to show it to her and asking her for the permission for TV just shows that CVS are in no hurry to cut the cord of Pihu with Shagun any time sooner. Pihu was, is and forever will be Shagun and Raman's daughter. People may argue that it's not the case but it is for a fact.

The point I'm confused is.. Did we see the new montage correctly? There is no Shagun peeking from behind Ishita and Raman anywhere? because it feels like this track is to hurt Ishita more than healing her? Then what? Separation or kill her? Where is the healing part? Or did we assume it will be ishita's healing? I am beginning to believe that we thought since Ishita expressed her years of hurt in the guise of kids wellbeing this gulabo is to heal her...I think we got it wrong.. So the old trick got played here to show the promos as this is going to address Ishita's over due hurt and made her move to Mani's house in the guise to take care of the fragile pregnant Shagun. CVS have a clear agenda that this is for shagun getting pampered by Raman in the form of Gulabo otherwise it will not be possible.. his aim is to be close to his kids.. never to bring her back.. because he knows if kids would want to come back to papa the mother cow will follow the kids.. why waste any healing wealing ...take care of Shagun and celebrate her motherhood.. that's the goal and it's what is happening..

the CVS said ishra centric and we all assumed logical thing.. but if the CVS say sharam centric who would watch it? Also, they saw what surrogacy track did.. but to achieve surrogacy thru Shagun they can hide her and bring her out with the baby.. goal achieved.. but now having Ishita move in with Shagun they used the magic track of her hurt and Raman as gulabo we assumed Raman healing her.. irrespective of hints being dropped by Raman for pihu ke liye. Because he can't say for Shagun and all ladies said it's for Shagun as well. Its still ishra centric as he is hurting her in ways we couldn't even fathom..so Shagun is all taken care of and pampered.. but why make ishita hurt when healing her is not the goal.. she could also join the party and be happy for Shagun.. but CVS know that will backfire..

I just read this quote

"The person who broke you can't be the one to fix you. Remember that."

True isn't it?

The one moment that got me was Ishita's expressions when she was putting pihu to sleep... The moment Pihu holds her hand in her sleep she got jolted almost shocked.. and then hurt and pain too..pain that she didn't carry Pihu as part of her and hurt that the way all happened and it felt as if she wants to go far away from it..Viji notice how she suddenly shows that on her face that she doesn't want to stay near Pihu... because it looked for a second Pihu reminded of the deception she went through.. then her mask came back after she sees the family picture and says she misses all..

Viji her hand removal is significant... If I'm not mistaken this is what lead to her morning talk with Shagun..reflected her pain of not carrying pihu and tried to hide it in her smile.. reminded me of Pihu kick scene..

If i am not mistaken Ishita will have a major breakdown regarding her inability to give birth to a child, her significance in Raman's life as his Ruhi's mother and nothing else.. like she couldn't hold any value for him regarding her. because now she is believing if she holds any value he wouldn't have thorown her out from his and his kids life time and again. Even with Pihu Shagun carried more value for him but not Ishita.

And her talk with Shagun where she expressed her pain if Raman didn't hear it what good it does? makes this track is only for Shagun and Pihu. If by any chance Shagun pregnancy will not see the fruition then she will be once again possessive for Pihu for sure.

Her anniversary memories were nothing but Raman thanking her as Ruhi's mother. She as a woman want her place in Raman's life as his wife first eventhough that is not how their life started. She wants it to be Where he sees her as a wife first then his kids mother next... the natural progression in any couples life. but for him Ishita is always Ishima and even for his/her kids she is ishima that includes Pihu making her realize that she will never be a mother in true sense to any child and hence she will never hold that special wife place in Raman's life which Shagun successfully held even after her betrayal and her being called "Mamma" by all kids is cementing the fact that none of these kids are hers ever no matter what.

if he is getting frustrated of her calling him unromantic then imagine her frustration where Raman doesn't even make an effort to call her or in anyway shows her he misses her.. her saying that he breaks the doors to see her and kids but he doesn't do the needful reflects her pain as she as a wife has no place in his life. She is hurt beyond to see or logically decipher anything properly.

Also, did we hear Raman making yet another promise that he will make this valentines/Anniversary a special day... ouch.. we know how Raman's promises end up as..

Viji, nice Review. Thank you so much.

Viji totally agree with being in Ishita's shoe.. and your pov.. it never meant that one has to experience the inability but to empathize we need to look from her pov. it's a phrase that is used more commonly. But i can clearly see people misunderstanding it and i truly feel pity for them too. hence I posted the meaning of it..

Also, in someone else's shoes; in someone's place or stead . Acting for another person or experiencing something as another person might; in another's position or situation.