who is responsible for the separation

ishwari dug the grave of dev-sona marriage with active help from GKB.dev lead the way to grave willingly followed by sona.vicky pushed them in upon reaching the grave.may be they could have pulled themselves out.but they didn't.Do you guys agree with this?

Dev and Sonakshi are responsible for their separation. No matter what the situation is if their relationship was strong then it would have withstood the storm. They loved each other ...but the problem was fear of loosing each other. Dev wanted his mom to like Sona ...he needed his mom's acceptance ...and Sona knew it ...did everything she could to be in good books of Ishwari ...but what Dev and Sonakshi didn't understand is ...Ishwari's problem is Dev's affection for Sonakshi...the more he expressed his feelings to Sonakshi , the more his mom became insecure...and to add fuel to the fire was GKB and her red.

If they had trusted their love and believed in each other ...communicated their fears and inhibitions ...accepted each others flaws and not acted brave always to prove a point ...then they would have understood each other much better. And others would not have made use of their differences to separate them...

I hope they have learnt their lesson and will work towards getting back

ishwari who else insecurity and infertility in sona lead to this separation .

I would only blame dev. Well as sona said on the last scene he himself was the problem in their relationship. He obeyed his mom like a 8yrs old boy. He was blindly following sick and disgusting ishu.
He didn't have spine to stand by his love. GKB, neha, Vicky and ishu used so many bad words for sona infront of him, their punching bag was sona. But dev didn't has the spine to shut them up, leave the ishu part aside.
He could learn something from Vicky, no one dared to say a word to Elena. She was not the bahu they wanted, she didn't care about any of dixits but still no one said a word to her, even she married without anyone s permission. Still ishu is giving Elena credit. Wow this dixits are impossible to understand.
Dev the spineless only made fake promises in his bedroom.
Spineless doesn't mean going against your mom. Dev should have make it clear to everyone that if they say a word against sona then he will show them. But instead he just lived in lala land that his mom loves sona. He actually didn't care about what sona was going through after their marriage.
Anyways this topic has been discussed so many times. And conclusion is until dev doesn't get spine, sona or any girl can't be happy with him.
All these 7 years if he truly loved sona, he could find out, why sona broke the relationship with him. Who throw sona and her family out, what was written on prenup papers, and why ishu got his signe. He did nothing because, for doing all this you need to be man enough and have spine. Instead what he did was actually like a 8yrs boy sitting there and playing victim and blaming sona for everything. The casenova image, sleeping with girls, just to satisfy his needs because his wife was not there.
Now that sona is happy being where she is, with her daughter and business, he is acting all hurt and devdas. Because he is selfish that why sona is happy.
Even now he doesn't have to spine to ask his mom why she made prenup. And I am sure once he gets to know about soha, he will blame sona for keeping secret. I am sorry to say this but dev deserve worst then what he has got. Him and his family are still the same pyscho and selfish people, who always play victim.

Dev and Sonakshi...they are responsible.

Both are responsible. They realised that they had fallen into the grave, but neither realised that the other had fallen too... In fact both of them assumed that the other person had pushed them into the grave and was having fun at the other end

Usually its both but here only dev.

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Both are responsible. They realised that they had fallen into the grave, but neither realised that the other had fallen too... In fact both of them assumed that the other person had pushed them into the grave and was having fun at the other end