Originally posted by: Nova19
Pakeezah - The last line of my last post was because it seems like you casually judge other people when you don't know all the details and maybe have not been in their shoes. Not everyone will react as you do, feel as you do, or live as you do - if it doesn't affect you why should it matter?
I believe Sussanne used drugs before she married Hrithik but I can't produce proof for you so we will have to keep our own opinions about that.
Marriage means whatever we think it means right now. Every major religion has condoned polygamy at one time or another and more than one woman was perfectly fine as long as you provided for her and her offsprings' material needs - currently religion is instructing monogamy but in future who knows? Maybe we will switch to polyandry.😆
I have little doubt that most, if not all, of the errant husbands you mentioned are no more monogamous than they ever were though they have learned to be more discreet. If it bothers their wives, they should divorce. If it doesn't bother their wives, live and let live, it's not my business.
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If one were not to judge, I think there wouldn't be any judges as a profession! Whatever a person does, theek hi kartey honge. Reasons are for their every act.
I think polygamy is punishable by law now in all countries except for Muslims who can take four wives and divorce by saying talaq four times.
There are tribes where for convenience sake, one wife married brothers matlab multiple husbands. Even that is gone now from there, because those conditions no longer apply. The feeling of sharing ones husband or wife fills one with revulsion no matters what.
If a spouse is not bothered to put ones foot down, and let's it pass, then that's that. But in a business like films, cheaters are revealed one way or another, there is no way to hide. Especially in today's paparazzi days.
I don't think Kajol and Twinkle are such doormats they keep a blind eye if their husband strays more than once...and I think Wrongly or rightly there are men who hold marriage vows sacred and are able to exercise restraint...its not like a guy or woman dies because they can't hv sex outside marriage.
But a divorce and all the shit that comes after that can do one in.
Edited by pakeezah - 9 years ago
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