Saanjh is misusing her position - Page 2

How is she a lawyer? I'm a law student and my thinking is totally opposite from hers.

Originally posted by: poppinss

Look at it from a layman's perspective. Depression can be at various levels, from mild to severe. There are cases where severely depressed mothers have harmed their children, not intentionally but due to their mental illusions.

Imagine the trauma that a man would need to go through when his wife or gf is going to be not ok. In such circumstances it is better for Arjun to fully know about Maya before jumping in... and Maya surely has not revealed herself fully to him. But Saanjh is equally in the dark and is meddling into private affairs of a man and woman. Will Arjun be telling all his personal things to Saanjh? How does Saanjh really know that Arjun knows nothing about Maya's problem?

Saanjh is venturing into troubled waters and Arjun is going to tell her that and show her the difference between friend and wife. This is what Maya is steering Saanjh towards. Maya is a master player and Saanjh is in trouble... she is ignoring the advice of her parents and going towards Ashwin!! God Save Saanjh.

Yes depression/bpd can be dangerous if its not managed but Maya is clearly managing her, she's on pills and seeing a psychiatrist...believe it or not, us depressed can function in the real world w/o committing murders and as such.

I can't speak for bpd/ptsd which she might have cos anti-depressions is used to help manage many mental disorders but Maya came this far in life because she's been managing and getting the help needed.

For us lot with mental disorders, its not so easy to talk about it or disclose it to people we know in real life (it only took me like 6 before telling my friends) so i can understand why Maya is taking her time (especially with her past/present traumas cos ashwin is still around who's abuse is the cause of her disorders) with her fear of abandonment (she has no-one but her mother and now arjun.

Saanjh has no right to look into someones private matters and disclose to others especially when the person isnt currently harming themselves or anyone (mind u i would have been more okay with Saanjh if this matter was linked to the murder of the priest) but no, from what i've seen of Saanjh...she only wants to disclose someone else's private matters to Arjun for the sake of it and not because she thinks Maya harmed someone else or herself.

Mental disorders are not a crime nor something to be scared of and the person themselves has the rights to disclose their disorders at their own leisure when they feel comfortable.

If anyone is committing a crime, its actually Saanjh, i dunno abt India but you get jail time here for looking into someones private medical files and manipulating others into disclosing such sensitive info while abusing ur position of power.

Someone here said that maya trusts sanjh and gives her her personal files and document and i agree. Sanjh is stalking maya. Behaving as a top person and getting mayas information is wrong and ehat is maya is depressed. Doesnt she has a right to be loved if she is depressed.

Saanjh is supposed to be white. This is not quality that the white character should have. A white character is not supposed to compromise with their level or dignity to bring other person's truth. Maya has got Saanjh sacked from Multani's firm whatever may be her ulterior motive but that is related to official matters but nothing like checking someone else's personal files and the purse especially if the person is your boss. She will also be seen joining her hands with Ashwin.