This is why JNDSD is about Vividha & Atharv

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Remember when Vividha thought Atharv had been making out with a girl in the car? She doubted him. Atharv was hurt that she could even think of such a thing.

Few months later, Atharv finds out Vividha is MARRIED. He isn't told, he FINDS OUT by chance that she's married, she was dancing with that man.

Of course I'm not going to agree with what he said to her but I didn't agree when Vividha slapped him 4 times without knowing the full truth or when she doubted him.

But hey what's a great love story without pain? There isn't one. The angst is REAL, the insecurity is REAL and the soul wrenching pain is 100000% real.

I'm going to let my fellow beautiful posters to write about the episode in a better way I can. But I do want to say one thing, episodes like this prove why this is Vividha and Atharv's love story and everyone is a part of that tale.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Completely. Because in Love you grow together through all the difficulties and rocky waters. A real love story has pain and,angst. A true one faces them head on and goes over all of it to have taken a,step further in understanding each other. When Vividha doubted him, he was hurt. But he made her understand in a manner that she,would not doubt him ever again. Now it is Vividha's turn to make him understand. And she will. He needs to know EVERYTHING. He can and will make amends then.
When you love someone truly, you may scold them for whatever wrong they do or say. But you never leave their side. That is what ViTharv will do. The pain is going to be heart-wrenching. But it will show you what commitment and love is all about.
And yes, everyone else is a part of this tale. A tale which is absoulutely human yet beautifully divine. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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All I can say is relationships have its ups and downs. It's not always hunky dory.
Vividha had a doubt on atharv. Then he promised her he won't think of any other girl.

Now atharv doubted viv (though I don't agree with his choice of words) . This time viv will make him learn to trust his love.

Didn't he promise that aankhen dekhi ,suni we shouldn't believe. Only believe what our hearts say.

He has anger issues too. He ll learn to control.

It's not wrong to be human
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Posted: 9 years ago
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But I will say this - their story is the tale and everyone else is part of that tale. Will be back later to update
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Posted: 9 years ago
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VITHARV is what JNDSD is all about! Two very different individuals with various flaws and they become one, they are perfect <3 I am pissed at Atharv's comments but I can understand his perspective as well. His outburst had a touch of reality to it...(REAL PEOPLE REACT EXACTLY THE SAME- especially that bedroom taunts, havent we all heard it in our arguments with our exes?-)!

Had she told she the truth, the situation would have been different. However, Vividha expected a sense of understanding from him but she has not got yet. But he had just found out in a horrendous manner.


Anyways both have their flaws, thats all am saying!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Am loving this... perfect build up to ALD 2 sequence. This time it's going to be role reversal😳 Before that, ViVi should smack the hell out of A😡
Nice read Reemz!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Reemz I totally agree with you! I do not agree with the venomous words that Atharv used but I can see where he comes from But of course I want Vividha to give it back to him for all that he said today!
you know this is what I love about Vitharv! their insecurities are so REAL! How many times have we come across couples who in a long distance relationships face insecurities? Does it mean there is no love? of course not they eventually learn to brave the distance overcome their insecurities.
Their Anger is REAL too! How many times have we lost our temper and said things that we shouldn't say and regretted later? How many times have we said words knowing very well that it would hit a nerve? I know I have. It's not right but it does not change the fact that we are all overruled by our own emotions, Atharv was hurt in fact beyond hurt, he had lost everything he felt betrayed and he wanted Vividha to feel what he was going through and he did it through his words.
Tomorrow when he comes to know the truth, he'll regret it more than anything! He'll make up for it ! He still does not know the entire truth and I am going to wait till he finds out & how Vivi handles this situation.
I may not agree with his choice of words but frankly speaking he can't be blamed for reacting this way either He is a human being not robot who has been programmed to always be calm, do good, think good, be good, stay positive, forgive, let it go etc.
He Reacts & he thinks. He makes mistakes & makes up for it.
And so does Vividha that's the best part about these two they are so relatable, they make mistakes like everyone else, realize & make up for it.
I don't know if you have watched IPKKND where Arnav misunderstood Khushi based on a hug & convenient lies from his BIL. Here Atharv has come back to find out that the love of his life is marrried to someone else and like you have emphasised he "Finds out" and is not told!
I am on no one's side Both Atharv & Vividha are hurt. And I know they'll come out stronger after braving this storm.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalStars.

Completely. Because in Love you grow together through all the difficulties and rocky waters. A real love story has pain and,angst. A true one faces them head on and goes over all of it to have taken a,step further in understanding each other. When Vividha doubted him, he was hurt. But he made her understand in a manner that she,would not doubt him ever again. Now it is Vividha's turn to make him understand. And she will. He needs to know EVERYTHING. He can and will make amends then.

When you love someone truly, you may scold them for whatever wrong they do or say. But you never leave their side. That is what ViTharv will do. The pain is going to be heart-wrenching. But it will show you what commitment and love is all about.
And yes, everyone else is a part of this tale. A tale which is absoulutely human yet beautifully divine.😊



A love story without that pain and angst is no fun! There's no deep bond which has not faced conflict and misunderstanding. The greater the love the greater the pain! These twoclove each other so much, the reactions will always be extreme.
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Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

All I can say is relationships have its ups and downs. It's not always hunky dory.

Vividha had a doubt on atharv. Then he promised her he won't think of any other girl.

Now atharv doubted viv (though I don't agree with his choice of words) . This time viv will make him learn to trust his love.

Didn't he promise that aankhen dekhi ,suni we shouldn't believe. Only believe what our hearts say.

He has anger issues too. He ll learn to control.

It's not wrong to be human



We say the worst things when we are angry and right now Atharv feels so betrayed but then it'll settle down too because at the end of the day they're one! They can't tear themselves apart from each other even if they try.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with Julie most couples who have fought have had similar fight that Vitharv had today, I have not had such a fight but I have seen my friends fight it out like this.
Most people who have been in a relationship or are married would understand where Atharv's insecurities are coming from.
and Atharv is not a mahaan ki murthi who does no wrong. He was wrong today and said some really hurtful things. But when he relaizes his mistake he'll man up and own up to it and make up for it.
Will vividha get Angry? yes
Is she right in doing so? Very much yes.
Does she deserve this from all that she has been through. No
But does he know what she has been through. No
Did he deserve to find out like this. No
Is he right in feeling betrayed. yes
Vitharv will sort it out like everything else that they have sorted before.
This will make their relaationship grow & Evolve.

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