Uma, Sujata & Suman - The marriage counsellors

Why marriage is IT, should be ABIDED by, as told by these 3 women:

Uma: I got abused by my husband, physically and mentally day in day out, he bruised me, made my life a living hell. I loved someone else, I even thought about him now and again but because I went round the fire 7 times with my abusive husband I gave that priority. My husband also ruined my daughters life, almost killed a guy who respected me like his own mother, the guy whom also gave me strength to finally speak up against my abusive demonic husband but nevertheless I still wear that holy mangalsutra and sindoor for him because marriage is the best thing which happened to me...blatantly!


Suman: I married a guy I knew didn't love me but hey ho, I'm sure he would fall in love with me eventually. I went round the fire 7 times, I put his mangalsutra around my neck and sindoor in my head. I had my husbands children, one boy and one daughter. Are you proud of me? Meanwhile my husband wouldn't stop thinking about this other woman. I'll admit, I craved for his love my entire life but even so I didn't walk out because my mangalsutra and sindoor are very important to me. They give me strength to lead an incomplete life.


Sujata: I went round the holy fire too, wore a mangalsutra & sindoor by the man who loved me and whom I loved back. How lucky am I? That's another thing that he left me and married another woman because he didn't have the guts to stand up for our relationship. But how does that matter? I have my black beads and red powder to prove that he's with me all the time. I was his first legally wedded wife but I couldn't speak up for my rights. I waited for him my entire life but it's ok...I had the support of my mangalsutra and sindoor.


And these 3 women, ladies & gentleman are advising Vividha on the importance of marriage :)

I feel second degree embarrassment from hearing such things especially from these 3 woman. Shame shame puppy shame

When these three women are preaching marriage, one cannot help but chuckle! However at the same time, it's disturbing because it goes to show no matter how badly you get treated by your husband or how much of a loveless marriage you have, you must carry on because at the end of the day your husband must be your god! Its not surprising though as many hold such mentalities! I hope the makers use Vividha to depict that a forced marriage or an abusive marriage are not ones that should be fulfilled! 😃

Dude, that's the point na!

I was just laughing at the way these three kept telling vividha.the importance of marriage all these days..

Wow. This is one of the best posts I have seen.

Shouldn't it be agaainst the law this women give advice at all ... If my marriage is ever in the gutters and I need help ...

Knowing these three , if I enter an office and they are my counselors ... I shall peacefully turn around and leave ...

I'm actually at a loss as to what to say about these three women. And the sad thing is that these three actually represent a majority of society and their thoughts.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Why marriage is IT, should be ABIDED by, as told by these 3 women:

Uma: I got abused by my husband, physically and mentally day in day out, he bruised me, made my life a living hell. I loved someone else, I even thought about him now and again but because I went round the fire 7 times with my abusive husband I gave that priority. My husband also ruined my daughters life, almost killed a guy who respected me like his own mother, the guy whom also gave me strength to finally speak up against my abusive demonic husband but nevertheless I still wear that holy mangalsutra and sindoor for him because marriage is the best thing which happened to me...blatantly!


Suman: I married a guy I knew didn't love me but hey ho, I'm sure he would fall in love with me eventually. I went round the fire 7 times, I put his mangalsutra around my neck and sindoor in my head. I had my husbands children, one boy and one daughter. Are you proud of me? Meanwhile my husband wouldn't stop thinking about this other woman. I'll admit, I craved for his love my entire life but even so I didn't walk out because my mangalsutra and sindoor are very important to me. They give me strength to lead an incomplete life.


Sujata: I went round the holy fire too, wore a mangalsutra & sindoor by the man who loved me and whom I loved back. How lucky am I? That's another thing that he left me and married another woman because he didn't have the guts to stand up for our relationship. But how does that matter? I have my black beads and red powder to prove that he's with me all the time. I was his first legally wedded wife but I couldn't speak up for my rights. I waited for him my entire life but it's ok...I had the support of my mangalsutra and sindoor.


And these 3 women, ladies & gentleman are advising Vividha on the importance of marriage :)

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

I feel second degree embarrassment from hearing such things especially from these 3 woman. Shame shame puppy shame

It's embarrassing but these kind of women are far more in number than a rebellious Vividha.