I Can't sympathize with Saanjh

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

I can't sympathize with saanjh.

Yes I can't.. and I don't know if there's anyone like that here who shares my feelings.

And why should I sympathize with saanjh ?

Saanjh.. saanjh only saanjh mahaan glory for two episodes almost is frustrating me.

What did saanjh do here that saanjh is being praised?

She just accepted the situation as it is. She accepted arjun never loved her & came out of her la la land finally. The family always was supporting all this while only one side I.e her love & her happiness. Never once thought of arjun choices.

And she prayed for Maya in hospital only to support arjun as every human does, when somebody is in hospital frnds or relatives when their close ones ask for prayers we all do.

And she choosed to go for a break to get away from heartbreak.

And she has whole family & arjun family supporting her in all this. She cried in arms of all of them. And they were so understanding & gave love and care for her like always. She was always a SPL person for arjun,ayan,vandana,& in their happy family. She didn't know any downs & tears in her life till 24yrs & she has all the happiness. She never faced cruelty in hands of her own family. She never had a day in her life to be alone or known sadness.

And when she says things like.. "her hisse ki khushi" "give her fate to maya"

Isn't life with ups & downs? Does she know what's in her fate ? Why everyone is blaming maya for saanjh heartbreak? Isn't it brought by herself alone? Is there any sacrifice of her in all this ! She got whatever she wanted all this while in her life. And when God didn't give her that one thing why God had become bad now?

I sympathize Maya instead in all this.

She hasn't known the true love & care from her childhood.

Childhood is known the very sensitive age of everyone. Bcoz that's the time where minds are impressioned with what they feel, see & experience & get wounded like there's no return.

That's why we mould children carefully.

Maya never had anyone to take care of her. She wasn't known a path by anyone & taught how to walk on that path.

She was beaten & tortured instead in most horrific way.

She never known what's even a mother's love.

Bcoz her mother is herself one needy & not a strong woman.

She had to all by herself stand alone strong.

She had to maintain herself in balance that she not get lost in the darkness of her life terrific incidents & fears.

She had known only fear. Craved for a security.

Never can completely trust a person bcoz of her past incidents in life.

She has a child in her who craves & feels for love & care . But she was always in reality to be not going close to someone or not getting someone close to her bcoz of her demons.

She faced, facing all alone. But arjun pushed that reservations forcedly & made her feel secure, happy & brought that child who was kept forcefully under wraps.

She is feared from start always that her weak will mom will be taken away by her father who is her only source to call a family. And she holder her tight. And she knows to love only by rewarding if u ask about her arjun promotion & all.. u can see in her mom case also she took her mom out when she expressed her bore feeling. Maya is someone who knows to love by making people she loves happy by all means. And she genuinely cares & possessive bcoz of her fear of father. She fears that one thing also will be snatched. Always she hurts herself in all her sadness & extremes but never she will hurt anyone. Bcoz if u observe in today's episode also u will know her blood oozing out from her knuckle but she didn't care.

Maya actually needs a love which is only for her & a loyalty that's never shaken.Who can love her as much as she loves them.

I instead applaud maya for making her career like a real lady & established a life of royalty for herself in all this chaos.

But today seeing arjun I don't think he's capable of handling maya. He runs for saanjh & stops her from going bcoz he needs her.

The man himself needs someone and what will he give love for Maya.

Why to share that love btwn both ladies. Let this arjun go with saanjh. It would be better to see ayan with Maya may be... He is not a duffer like arjun atleast or else someone who's equal in her maturity & elegance.

I'm seriously frustrated guys... they are playing scenes of saanjh like she's the lead of this show. i don't know how many of you will agree with me. And believe it or not many people are watching this show for maya & Jennifer's performance & for the lead who's new in all ways with her story & stellar performance.

I thought this is Mays's story. But here they are showing saanjh story I felt.

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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naaznin

@naaznin

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Posted: 8 years ago

nyc post..

even i cant sympathise wid saanjh..nothing has happened to saanjh wat has not happened to someone b4.Heartbreaks r a common thing..

N she has not given anything to maya becos Arjun was never hers..

Gud dat she composed herself n chose to move on rather den freaking out...

ArYa luv each other so dey shud b together

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Yeh achcha hai. What exactly do u all want Saanjh to do?

When Saanjh drops everything the minute arjun calls her she's clingy.

If she goes to Mauritius she's a stalker.

If she cries because the person she loves doesn't love her back she is a cry baby. If the same Saanjh gives fitting replies to Maya she becomes rude and the hidden psycho.

Saanjh finds the earring, some viewers conclude:Saanjh has killed the priest.🤣

If she prays for Maya in the hospital she's just being supportive and human. Where was this human wala angle to her character when u all thought she was a psycho for telling Arjun that he should have allowed maya to jump off the balloon? Or when she delivered that dialogue of lost saamaan to Maya.

I think the fact that Saanjh is being given more importance in the recent episodes is not being digested by some people here. But it's their problem, they will have to deal with it.

I'm sorry but u guys are highly hypocritical of ur own words.

Dont sympathise with Saanjh, she doesn't need any sympathy. But I think ppl should tone down the bias against her, coz it only makes them look bad...doesn't demean Saanjh's character.

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

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Posted: 8 years ago

@TM what is this logic that Saanjh has a loving family and doesn't need Arjun? She has loved him since she was a kid, will and can the loving family replace Arjun in her life? And if yes,how?

That way Maya has all the comforts in the world, why does she need a guy in her life? She can easily go out and date ppl to wade off her loneliness. Why Arjun the duffer? 😆

Yes I know now u will say Arjun is her strength, saved her from Ashwin n all. Now pls tell me, which guy wouldn't save Maya from Ashwin seeing how he advanced towards her.

I do not really mean my point about Maya, but if ur logic is applicable to Saanjh, it's applicable to Maya as well.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: lumos_31
Yeh achcha hai. What exactly do u all want Saanjh to do?
When Saanjh drops everything the minute arjun calls her she's clingy.
If she goes to Mauritius she's a stalker.
If she cries because the person she loves doesn't love her back she is a cry baby. If the same Saanjh gives fitting replies to Maya she becomes rude and the hidden psycho.
Saanjh finds the earring, some viewers conclude:Saanjh has killed the priest.🤣
If she prays for Maya in the hospital she's just being supportive and human. Where was this human wala angle to her character when u all thought she was a psycho for telling Arjun that he should have allowed maya to jump off the balloon? Or when she delivered that dialogue of lost saamaan to Maya.
I think the fact that Saanjh is being given more importance in the recent episodes is not being digested by some people here. But it's their problem, they will have to deal with it.
I'm sorry but u guys are highly hypocritical of ur own words.
Dont sympathise with Saanjh, she doesn't need any sympathy. But I think ppl should tone down the bias against her, coz it only makes them look bad...doesn't demean Saanjh's character.

I'm sorry but u guys are highly hypocritical of ur own words.

Dont sympathise with Saanjh, she doesn't need any sympathy. But I think ppl should tone down the bias against her, coz it only makes them look bad...doesn't demean Saanjh's character.

Ofcourse yes she doesn't need any sympathy. Wasn't it same I was saying ?😆

Why does it make ppl look bad when they can't sympathize her? Oh ! If we all aren't sympathizing mahaan ki murthi then ppl are bad. I think that's fine by me. Bcoz no one is flawless in this world. We live in reality not in la la land like saanjh for being so flawless like her. 😆

And if u don't know this is maya's story not "saanjh ki bachpan ka pyaar"

If I have to see that I wud have seen a kuch kuch hota hain instead in YouTube. LOL

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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Jane

@janecastle

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said buddy. Even I don't understand what's so mahan about Saanjh. If it is about letting Arjun go then he was never her's(in a romantic sort of way). And why everyone keep on blaming Maya for all the mess I don't understand.

If anyone is responsible for Saanjh's condition is then it she herself and also both the families.

If she loved him so much she should have told him long time ago. But no she kept stalling it. What did she expect, Arjun will remain single forever waiting for Her Highness Saanjh to confess her feelings?

I used to like Saanjh's character very much during the initial episodes and now when I see her I'm like 'just snap out of it lady and move on in your life'. Life is not just about love, romance blah blah. It's about fulfilling your ambitions, getting a job, making your parents proud and in the end making a difference. And what did Sannjh do all her life? Run behind Arjun and pamper him. Girl get a life and do something with your life.

People might ask 'Isn't Maya doing the same?' The answer is that Maya built a business empire with her own efforts and hard work and is quite successful. Even after surgery the girl was ready to go to office and work. That's called devotion for your work.

But that word don't seem to exist in Saanjh's dictionary. I rambled all this because I'm clearly frustrated with Saanjh and her melodrama. I always thought her character will be different but like other FLs only thing Saanjh doing these days is rona-dhona and that's irritating me a lot.

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

I'm sorry but u guys are highly hypocritical of ur own words.
Dont sympathise with Saanjh, she doesn't need any sympathy. But I think ppl should tone down the bias against her, coz it only makes them look bad...doesn't demean Saanjh's character.

Ofcourse yes she doesn't need any sympathy. Wasn't it same I was saying ?😆
Why does it make ppl look bad when they can't sympathize her? Oh ! If we all aren't sympathizing mahaan ki murthi then ppl are bad. I think that's fine by me. Bcoz no one is flawless in this world. We live in reality not in la la land like saanjh for being so flawless like her. 😆
And if u don't know this is maya's story not "saanjh is bachpan ka pyaar"
If I have to see that I wud have seen a kuch kuch hota hain instead in YouTube. LOL

Nope, it wasn't the same thing u were saying. And nope, constant hypocritical comments make the comment makers look bad 😆

Im sorry, but a few days ago, weren't they a few of u who wanted Saanjh to be flawless? Ab kya hua? We living in the real world suddenly? Lol. Aur Saanjh ka flawless hona is hurting ppl suddenly now? **cough hypocrisy cough**

@bold, maybe u don't know but this is a story of Maya AND Arjun AND Saanjh. If u want to watch only Maya then pray that a movie or show comes up to suit ur preferences 😆

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

@TM what is this logic that Saanjh has a loving family and doesn't need Arjun? She has loved him since she was a kid, will and can the loving family replace Arjun in her life? And if yes,how?

That way Maya has all the comforts in the world, why does she need a guy in her life? She can easily go out and date ppl to wade off her loneliness. Why Arjun the duffer? 😆

Yes I know now u will say Arjun is her strength, saved her from Ashwin n all. Now pls tell me, which guy wouldn't save Maya from Ashwin seeing how he advanced towards her.

I do not really mean my point about Maya, but if ur logic is applicable to Saanjh, it's applicable to Maya as well.

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If u have all comforts in the world that's not called satisfaction. Love is above everything. She never needed a guy in life like that dusky who doesn't have a life of her own & always needy kinda girl with no aim in life. For her status guys will fall on her feet but she's not a cheap woman to go around and sleep with all like u r saying.

U can't understand reality & logical things so don't ask questions like y saanjh doesnt need arjun? Arjun isn't in her fate & I never told she doesn't need arjun. Arjun isn't in her fate. Things won't go as we like in our life that's what I'm saying.

Now tell me who's looking bad here if u tell someone to ward off loneliness to go around and date with all the guys available. U r the big duffer to give such suggestions I guess. ROFL

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Maya didnt need a guy in her life? Are u seriously telling me that Maya didnt want a guy in her life? Yeah, thats why she jumped at Arjun after just one instance of him saving her. As for saanjh, u really can't compare Maya ka do din ka pyaar to Saanjh's love which dates back to so many years. Nope, I'm sorry but u can't.

So saanjh has accepted her fate, what problem do u have now? If ur suggesting that this phase is gonna be easier for her, then I strongly disagree.

I hope u could read that I did not mean this point abt maya. If u didnt, or read and didnt undestand or overlooked, then maybe u should introspect as to who actually becomes the duffer in this case. lol 😆

PS: even if i had meant it, then there's nothing wrong in dating guys and looking out for good guys to ward off loneliness in ur life. Dating means sleeping with random guys? Since when? Anyway , that's really not the point lol.

Edited by lumos_31 - 8 years ago

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Naam mein kya rakha hai

@TheUnique

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Agree yaar ! Saanjh jaise log se pata nai kyu mujhe allergy hai 😆 itni mahaanta shayad humlog real world main nahi dekhte isliye 😆 I cannot connect to Saanjh the mahaan !
Todays episode was totes boring 🥱

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