The Heart wants what it wants!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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For the Heart knows no reason and sees no boundaries. It is undaunted by hurdles; recognises no rules and holds the belief that it can scale the highest peak. The Heart is irrational and rational at the same time. It does not need a crutch and can hold its own. It is a weak heart that bends down to societal norms.

Of the Heart and the Brain, one would think that the Brain is the smarter, more logical. But infact, the heart KNOWS and comprehends. Ofcourse, it can miscalculate but some decisions taken with logic and reasoning turn out to be wrong too.

So in Vividha's case, she knows that she would be unhappy and make others unhappy, if her heart remains unfulfilled. And that does not mean having Atharv with her- ofcourse that is what she would obviously prefer. She is not ready, and possibly would never be ready, to offer his place in her heart to anyone else. The Heart wants what it wants. It is stubborn and cannot be forced.

In Atharv's case, his heart knew and so it waited patiently for Vividha. And it pursued dreams because she was not bound to anyone else- there was still a chance that her affinity towards him was love. Often she showed signs of falling in love and being in love. And in love, she was indeed. If she did not exhibit those feelings, his heart would have taken a step back. His heart wanted what it wanted but would not have accepted a compromise and could never have been satisfied with half measures. He loved with a boundless passion and anything less from his partner would not have been acceptable to him.


In Ravish's case, his heart wants what it wants, but Vividha is not unattached and is bound by love and promises to another man. She will not love Ravish totally and completely. And so it would be prudent to let her go. It remains to be seen if Ravish's heart really DOES want what it wants that it settles for less than half measures. Where Atharv always wanted to be the priority in Vividha's life, Ravish seems to be content being the compromise. No man should feel that way and it is best he moves on.

I still maintain that the concept of Ulta Phera is rubbish. And the importance on the MS is equally so. Should Atharv be insecure in Vividha's love for him? Not at all. Because she stood up to the highest echelons of society and proclaimed her love and devotion for him. When he was not there. He did not need to be there, with her, in person. He has always been there in spirit. Atharv was always there between Ravish and Vividha, but Ravish cannot come between Atharv and Vividha - that is a non equation. So any insecurity would be baseless. But ofcourse it would depend on who he is when he returns. The same Atharv who stood up for what is right; or another Atharv, indebted to others who bends under the pressure of gratitude and false values that please society.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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That's another beautiful post by you. Well written and loved all your points. I agree with everything you said. Your heart and feelings cannot be helped. With Ravish, I can't connect with him when he says that he loves Vividha, cause I never understood how/why he fell in love with Vividha. Nevertheless I can respect that as it brings us back to your point. 'The heart wants what it wants.' And for Ravish that is Vividha. But what I cannot respect nor understand is that he is willing to compromise to a marriage despite knowing that Vividha will never be able to love him the way one deserves to be loved by their other half. He very well knows that Vividha will not be able to reciprocate his feelings. So why not at least TRY to move on.

To the world it may have looked like that Atharv was stalking or forcing Vividha to fall in love with him, but only he knew that Vividha was already in love with him and all he wanted was for Vividha to acknowledge her feelings for him rather than suppressing them. He made it clear more than once that if he had felt Vividha didn't love him, he would have never pursued her. Which is fair enough. Ravish here knows Vividha does not love him and maybe never will be able to in the future either. He has seen the bond between Atharv & Vividha. He's has firsthandedly witnessed Vividha's passion and madness for Atharv. Yet he is still willing to compromise as long as Vividha stays with him. THAT is the difference between Atharv & Ravish.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why it should be about whether vivi loves or will ever fall in love with ravish
Why does it even matter he would adjust or compromise with a girl who wil never love him
I think its more thn that
How does anyone have any right on other human being to force,chain and cut there wings to keep them or hold them to them
Isnt it just like caging a bird
Hez just snatching her freedom,individuality,choice,her will,her wishes,her life everything
Who gave him that right on other human being.whoz he god
I can see it nothing more than a kidnapping
Forcing someone and holding someone against there will
Atharv would never even do this with animals forget abt doing with an other human being
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

That's another beautiful post by you. Well written and loved all your points. I agree with everything you said. Your heart and feelings cannot be helped. With Ravish, I can't connect with him when he says that he loves Vividha, cause I never understood how/why he fell in love with Vividha. Nevertheless I can respect that as it brings us back to your point. 'The heart wants what it wants.' And for Ravish that is Vividha. But what I cannot respect nor understand is that he is willing to compromise to a marriage despite knowing that Vividha will never be able to love him the way one deserves to be loved by their other half. He very well knows that Vividha will not be able to reciprocate his feelings. So why not at least TRY to move on.

To the world it may have looked like that Atharv was stalking or forcing Vividha to fall in love with him, but only he knew that Vividha was already in love with him and all he wanted was for Vividha to acknowledge her feelings for him rather than suppressing them. He made it clear more than once that if he had felt Vividha didn't love him, he would have never pursued her. Which is fair enough. Ravish here knows Vividha does not love him and maybe never will be able to in the future either. He has seen the bond between Atharv & Vividha. He's has firsthandedly witnessed Vividha's passion and madness for Atharv. Yet he is still willing to compromise as long as Vividha stays with him. THAT is the difference between Atharv & Ravish.


Thank you! I think the reason most of us are unable to relate to Ravish and his love is because it happened overnight and just because he married her. The thing is, Love happens slowly, over time. And love happens as you get to know a person, and when you realise that these qualities make the person best suited to be your life partner. Atharv fell in love with Vividha slowly as he got to know her and over time that love grew along with respect and admiration. Vividha has not been herself since she married Ravish and so he does not know the REAL vividha - who is he in love with then? She has not been herself ;and she has been short and rude with him. So he seems to have fallen in love with the idea of being in love, for the sake of being in love.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is so well written !!
Yes Atharva wanted Vividha because he was sure she loved him, he so clearly mentioned to Vividha that if he even has a doubt he will just leave her and yes as others mentioned too that Atharva only wanted Vivi to stand up for herself and her love.

Vividha has so much love for Atharva Sujata, Baby A and so much devotion, Her heart never diverted even after so much pressure from everyone, Only purpose she can live for is ATHARVA.

Ravish did fall for Vividha but I must say Vividha gave him closure by not wavering a bit while unwedding and her convo with him, He shall stop hoping for her and just initiate Divorce. He also committed that he will get them married so now its time to fulfill it.

All others whose heart wanted Vividha to stay with Ravish, I would love to see those as shattered ones and shall remain so.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey! U write so well😊
Here we got to see three different kind of love!
Three diff take on Heart wants what it wants!

First we saw Atharv's love!
Atharv was a person who always knew what he wants and he always wanted people around him to make their own choices!
He always knew that Vivdha loves him too but he also knew that vividha's feelings are always suppressed by her father! He made her realise that love doesn't require any approval!
He believed in strength of love above societal norms!
His love inspired vivdha to become who she is today!

Vivdha's love!
We get to see a different kind of love here! Love beyond comprehension! A true form of devotion that not even requires Atharv's presence! Her devotion continued even wen he was gone!

Ravish's love!
I don't mind him falling for vividha overnight! That's OK! It happens!
But wat disconnects me with his love is that even after knowing that vividha can never love him back, he still wants her to stay! This is what u call a selfish love!
I see some people saying that he loved her enough to let her go!! But no.. he never wanted her to go.. he was still hoping her to stay!
He gave in at last coz vivdha was crystal clear.. she was literally begging him to let her go..i wud have respected him if he himself had initiated for divorce!

Ravish is neither selfish nor selfless.. he is just like everyone else!
Makers always wanted to show him selfless.. but they never succeeded in making him selfless! Her character doesn't outshine in any aspect! Plain Normal!

I am really looking forward to Atharv's reaction to everything and really think we will get our old Atharv Sujata coz he is an extraordinary character with so much sense of right and wrong!

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