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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: -smolderhalder.



Exactly..both!

But you can't compare cancer with pocket money man. I too still take pocket money from my dad and I'm 19 lol if someone tries to use this to irritate me I'd be chill cuz it's the truth and even if it wasn't it isn't a big deal.

While someone's illness is a big deal.



Was cancer brought up? I don't think, I feel Bani's emotional quotient is high and just a Q like do u use it as an excuse got the worst of her...it shudnt have been asked and her reaction was despicable...
Also one shudnt dish what they can't take...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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back at ya πŸ˜‰ LOL
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You know why it seems like Bani uses it as a tool to gain sympathy...its because Bani repeats the sentence whenever its brought up by anyone...
If anyone said that about my mother what Om said, I would never ever bring it to my lips again...here Bani repeats the whole sentence whenever shes reminded of it, i find it disturbing...why would you want to utter those disgusting words all over again...I firmly believe that theres an hour during the day when whatever you say is accepted...thats why i never ever say anything for myself or my loved ones even jokingly, like mar jao ya go to hell...this is just me...you might not believe in it...therefore to me it does look like sympathy gathering tactic, just bring it up and keep reminding the audience that here what was said to me.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -shabz-

You know why it seems like Bani uses it as a tool to gain sympathy...its because Bani repeats the sentence whenever its brought up by anyone...

If anyone said that about my mother what Om said, I would never ever bring it to my lips again...here Bani repeats the whole sentence whenever shes reminded of it, i find it disturbing...why would you want to utter those disgusting words all over again...I firmly believe that theres an hour during the day when whatever you say is accepted...thats why i never ever say anything for myself or my loved ones even jokingly, like mar jao ya go to hell...this is just me...you might not believe in it...therefore to me it does look like sympathy gathering tactic, just bring it up and keep reminding the audience that here what was said to me.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lopa did not say anything nasty about Bani's mom. She only pointed out that Bani is using her mom's health situation to gain sympathy, which even Manu had pointed out in the court room task (which according to me was not needed in that task as that task was not to agitate anyone, it was to get one Gaurav or Om out of jail) and Salman Khan approved of it.
Lopa DID NOT say any mean thing about Bani's mother.
It is wrong if people use their personal problems to garner public sympathy, but you cannot deny that there are people who do it. Who knows if Bani is one of them??? Now thats what Lopa felt about her and said it.
Morereover, this same Bani was telling Lopa when Priyanka said nasty things to Lopa, that ignore Priyanka, uske bolne se tum ho thori jaogi. When will Bani practice what she preaches? If Bani is not using her mom's illness to gain audience sympathy then why did she react this way?

Someone please tell Bani that reacting OTT is not the way to show the audience how much you love your mother.It only shows us how much Bani hates Lopa.
Edited by denver_diva - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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talking about pocket money will hurt my ego but talking about mother illness my sentiments. between the two the latter is more hurtful.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: denver_diva

Lopa did not say anything nasty about Bani's mom. She only pointed out that Bani is using her mom's health situation to gain sympathy, which even Manu had pointed out in the court room task (which according to me was not needed in that task as that task was not to agitate anyone, it was to get one Gaurav or Om out of jail) and Salman Khan approved of it.

Lopa DID NOT say any mean thing about Bani's mother.
It is wrong if people use their personal problems to garner public sympathy, but you cannot deny that there are people who do it. Who knows if Bani is one of them??? Now thats what Lopa felt about her and said it.
Morereover, this same Bani was telling Lopa when Priyanka said nasty things to Lopa, that ignore Priyanka, uske bolne se tum ho thori jaogi. When will Bani practice what she preaches? If Bani is not using her mom's illness to gain audience sympathy then why did she react this way?

Someone please tell Bani that reacting OTT is not the way to show the audience how much you love your mother.It only shows us how much Bani hates Lopa.



Manu never talked abt her mother's sickness, he spoke of her reaction to the incident when Om cursed death on her mother to prove that when a person is hurt physically or mentally they react violently. Which was his case needed to prove Om behavior of violence upon instigation. Bcoz of which Salman approved that he didn't try to hurt Bani & that she misunderstood it.


But Lopa directly accused her of using her mother's condition as a tool to gain sympathy which was outright wrong & disgusting coz not once has Bani spoken to any HM's of her mother's health condition. If she had been seeing crying day & night about how her mother is suffering you can then say she is playing a victim card to gain sympathy. It is others who bring up her mother's case to rile her which is vicious.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: melfns



Manu never talked abt her mother's sickness, he spoke of her reaction to the incident when Om cursed death on her mother to prove that when a person is hurt physically or mentally they react violently. Which was his case needed to prove Om behavior of violence upon instigation. Bcoz of which Salman approved that he didn't try to hurt Bani & that she misunderstood it.


But Lopa directly accused her of using her mother's condition as a tool to gain sympathy which was outright wrong & disgusting coz not once has Bani spoken to any HM's of her mother's health condition. If she had been seeing crying day & night about how her mother is suffering you can then say she is playing a victim card to gain sympathy. It is others who bring up her mother's case to rile her which is vicious.


But Gaurav said Bani had been mentioning about her mom's illness...which is why they all knew about it when the OM incident happened.
Lopa did not say anything bad about Bani's mom. She just felt Bani is using her personal issue to gain sympathy in the game. There was absolutely no need for all that yelling screaming. Her OTT made me doubt her too or she had my support. But I hate people who use such issues just for sympathy.
Also, who decides what hurts more...telling a girl that she lives off her dad's money as she doesnt make enough and needs a guy just for monetary reasons or telling a girl that she uses her personal issues to gather public sympathy
Edited by denver_diva - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I would defo smack that someone so hard that her fake silicone boobs falls off her chest if they spoke about my mother's illness.

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