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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Rhy2015





Haan waise fayda to koi nahi hai...
They are hypocrites


where is ur one Question to the trio and their responses...and ur responses...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: sajinifaby



<font color="#ff0066" size="4">where is ur one Question to the trio and their responses...and ur responses...</font>





I was Deliberately ignoring ur response par Apne pakad liya 😆 😆 😆

Acha soch k I will pakka write.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Rhy2015



i got bz then Sneha.. maaf karo..
abb koi faida hai kya?



Haan waise fayda to koi nahi hai...
<font size="6">They are hypocrites </font>

<font color="#ff0066" size="4">where is ur one Question to the trio and their responses...and ur responses...</font>



I was Deliberately ignoring ur response par Apne pakad liya 😆 😆 😆

Acha soch k I will pakka write.

Yea I am too good an observer... lol...
will wait for urs sooon...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhank

U answrd it best sajini😃


thanks dear..

now wanna hear urs...😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Unable to think of any questions! I am dumb and numb... maaf Kar do! These rumours of leap, daughter reuniting Devakshi has messed me up completely.. lost interest..
Edited by pkbdas61 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Unable to think of any questions! I am dumb and numb... maaf Kar do! These rumours of leap, daughter reuniting Devakshi has messed me up completely.. lost interest..


So then u can ask questions to your own self...

Why am i watching it then..?😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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MY QUESTION: Do you think Relationships are a joke? Jab chaaha jodd liya, jab chaaha chodh liya?
Ishwari's response: Mera sabse pehla rishta apne bete se bana tha, aur maine wo rishta kabhi nahi toda, phir chaahe usne mujhe bhulaana chaaha ho ya na ho...

My response: Lady, why don't you test the waters? I mean just check out the limits and see if your Son has ever even thought to leave you? You will get the answers, "never"... Stop being a brat and insecured little mouse you pretend to be...

Dev's Reseponse: Maine humesha pyaar ko hi priority di hai... Par mere ye samajh nahi aata, ki main har baar aisi situation mein kyu phans jaata hoon jahan main agar maa ko na chunu toh bhi bura banta hoon, aur Sona na chunu toh aur bhi bura banta hoon... Aur dono ek saath reh nahi sakte... Meri hi situation aisi hai...

My response: Boy, to give priority to love is done, but to set the limit to it is also a vital... If you don't limit the access of love by your loved ones, they are bound to overstep into your privacy and misuse your love... Just the way your mother is doing... All you need to do is to divide regions of accessibility to each loved ones, your mother will not speak in matters pertaining to anything related to your wife, and your wife is not going to hold you for your equations with your mom. PLUS!!! the REAL OUTSIDERS like your Maami are not supposed to speak in your family matters, just the way you guys don't do in their matters... "The dogs in the street make the loudest noises"... You will have lesser situations to choose among your mother and wife.

Sonakshi's response: It has never been me who has broken the relationships... I have always given my hundred percent to the relationships with Dev and Ishwari maa... Yet I have been thrown out of his life and house twice... It has always been Mr. Dixit's fault... I don't need anybody, I am a fiercely independent woman...

My response: Girl, tell me one thing... He says- Tum jaao Sonakshi/ Get out Sonakshi...
And you leave? Self respect, it seems to you, and you cannot stay there anymore, because your partner asked you to leave the house...
Suppose, you are still unmarried, and your baba in his anger said to you- Get out of my house...
What would you have done? Said goodbye baba, and left? Would you ever do that? No? Why? Because that is your house too? Because it's YOUR baba, and he is angry, and will be fine once his temper cools down?
So why not apply this to Dev? He said get out, and you left?Why? Isn't that your house? No matter wht the in-house members say Sonakshi, the matter of fact doesn't change that this IS your house, your home... You have been lawfully, socially and emotionally been married to this guy, and no matter what his mother, aunt or sister has to say, he is YOUR husband Sonakshi, and just like you wouldn't have left your Baba's house when you were unmarried, you DON'T HAVE TO leave your husband's house no matter what they say... Remember my words dear Sonakshi- Unless you believe that this house is your HOME, nobody on earth can make it your home; no matter how caring your husband gets towards you, you will find some other reason that this house is not your home...
This happens basically because you believe that your baba's home is always open for you, and that is why you find an optional place to live in, and is an escape for you. THE DAY YOU SET PUT YOUR FEET IN THE DIXIT MANSION; no RR, no Ishwari and No Dev can ever ask you to leave, because they have no right to literally push and throw you out of that house, REMEMBER!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aazeen02

<font color="#ff0000">MY QUESTION: Do you think Relationships are a joke? Jab chaaha jodd liya, jab chaaha chodh liya?</font>

<font color="#006600">Ishwari's response: Mera sabse pehla rishta apne bete se bana tha, aur maine wo rishta kabhi nahi toda, phir chaahe usne mujhe bhulaana chaaha ho ya na ho...</font>

<font color="#ff0000">My response: Lady, why don't you test the waters? I mean just check out the limits and see if your Son has ever even thought to leave you? You will get the answers, "never"... Stop being a brat and insecured little mouse you pretend to be...</font>

<font color="#6600ff">Dev's Reseponse: Maine humesha pyaar ko hi priority di hai... Par mere ye samajh nahi aata, ki main har baar aisi situation mein kyu phans jaata hoon jahan main agar maa ko na chunu toh bhi bura banta hoon, aur Sona na chunu toh aur bhi bura banta hoon... Aur dono ek saath reh nahi sakte... Meri hi situation aisi hai...</font>

<font color="#ff0000">My response: Boy, to give priority to love is done, but to set the limit to it is also a vital... If you don't limit the access of love by your loved ones, they are bound to overstep into your privacy and misuse your love... Just the way your mother is doing... All you need to do is to divide regions of accessibility to each loved ones, your mother will not speak in matters pertaining to anything related to your wife, and your wife is not going to hold youfor your equations with your mom. PLUS!!! the REAL OUTSIDERS like your Maami are not supposed to speak in your family matters, just the way you guys don't do in their matters... "The dogs in the street make the loudest noises"... You will have lesser situations to choose among your mother and wife.</font>

<font color="#990066">Sonakshi's response: It has never been me who has broken the relationships... I have always given my hundred percent to the relationships with Dev and Ishwari maa... Yet I have been thrown out of his life and house twice... It has always been Mr. Dixit's fault... I don't need anybody, I am a fiercely independent woman...</font>

<font color="#ff0000">My response: Girl, tell me one thing... He says- Tum jaao Sonakshi/ Get out Sonakshi...</font>
<font color="#ff0000">And you leave? Self respect, it seems to you, and you cannot stay there anymore, because your partner asked you to leave the house...</font>
<font color="#ff0000">Suppose, you are still unmarried, and your baba in his anger said to you- Get out of my house...</font>
<font color="#ff0000">What would you have done? Said goodbye baba, and left? Would you ever do that? No? Why? Because that is your house too? Because it's YOUR baba, and he is angry, and will be fine once his temper cools down?</font>
<font color="#ff0000">So why not apply this to Dev? He said get out, and you left?Why? Isn't that your house? No matter wht the in-house members say Sonakshi, the matter of fact doesn't change that this IS your house, your home... You have been lawfully, socially and emotionally been married to this guy, and no matter what his mother, aunt or sister has to say, he is YOUR husband Sonakshi, and just like you wouldn't have left your Baba's house when you were unmarried, you DON'T HAVE TO leave your husband's house no matter what they say... Remember my words dear Sonakshi- Unless you believe that this house is your HOME, nobody on earth can make it your home; no matter how caring your husband gets towards you, you will find some other reason that this house is not your home...</font>
<font color="#ff0000">This happens basically because you believe that your baba's home is always open for you, and that is why you find an optional place to live in, and is an escape for you. THE DAY YOU SET PUT YOUR FEET IN THE DIXIT MANSION; no RR, no Ishwari and No Dev can ever ask you to leave, because they have no right to literally push and throw you out of that house, REMEMBER!</font>



Aazeen pls take a bow
Ur Q
Their responses n
Ur response is too fab!!! 👏

Thanks a ton ya 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome question , thoughts and answers

I just want to know when will Ishwari and Dev grow up
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: sajinifaby



Aazeen pls take a bow
Ur Q
Their responses n
Ur response is too fab!!! 👏

Thanks a ton ya 😃

Thank you di...
Though I am still unmarried, but this thing is still cemented in my mind that no house in the world can become your home until you consider it one...
I feel a certain anguish when girls leave their husband's place for the household issues and they consider their husbands not supporting them against their mother in law... And what do they think, they will forever be considered as a princess and queen in their parents' home? Even when their brother brings in his wife? Will that new girl let them be the princess for say two decades down the line? They will be considered a burden and no more, no matter someone utters or not, until you are filling their mouths with the money you are earning hard...

I will give you an example from my personal life, where my same thoughts actually saved someone's marriage.

These are my two cousin brothers, whose mothers are real sisters. Both lived in different cities.
The elder sister got her son married and after some three four years his wife left the home in a pregnant state to deliver her twins at her mother's place, and never returned her sasural after that even after several requests and cajoling... My brother tried various ways to be with her, he left for a different city, he stayed in the city with her where her maaika was, and loads of things, but she would never return to his house... Brother, finally giving up after a few years came back home to his parents' place... His cheerfulness was gone, he was a quiet man... And a year later he was diagnosed of Cancer that was in a grown state. This guy knew of his medical condition, but chose not to get his treatment done for a long period and came to others notice when the symptoms became so obvious. He was battling in the last stages of cancer and was getting treated in my city, where this second cousin lived too...

This first cousin's wife was called to meet him one last time and the two kids also to meet their father before it gets too late... She came for a day, met him, stayed here at my second cousin's house and then left. Obviously, nobody was happy with her, and treated her like an outsider for being so insensitive even though knowing that her husband is on a death bed.

A few days later this second brother's wife was sharing her marital woes with me and told that she wants to go back to her mother and she will never return here because she is not happy. They don't treat her very nicely...
And I just asked her, if she thinks she will be treated like a princess at her parents' place?
Giving reference of the elder bhabhi I asked my younger bhabhi how did she threat her when she came here to see her husband? She accepted that they all didn't treat her good because she left her husband in such a sorry state.
And I answered my younger bhabhi that when the elder bhabhi came to her own sasural, and wasn't treated good by her own sister in law, do you expect you are going to be crowned as a princess at your mother's place by your brothers' wives? Are you going to get even this ounce of respect you get living in your husband's place?
Bhabhi understood what I meant to explain it to her, and she promised me that come what may she will try living in her sasural only...
Those were the initial hitches of the marriage everyone gets, and now a few years down the line, she is absolutely happy and blissful in her sasural... She tells me that it was you Aazeen, many years younger to me, helped me save my marriage.
And I ruefully wish that if other girls could understand the same.😊

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