Protecting yourself is also a form of selfishness..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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A thought just occured to me that would make some of you want to throw a stone at me ..

Be nice bi-cha-chas 😉

Okay , it occurred that atharva is holding back , he is holding back , NOT PRETENDING ...

And we could get into this , but I think , its the pain , Not the pain now but the pain that is to come , when he is no longer a care free child ... The pain that will come when he sees sujata's state , the pain he has unintentionally put vv through , RK and guddi , and so much more ...


Humans protect themselves instinctively from pain , and ravish in a way represents the pain ...

NO , ravish isn't the pain , NO ravish isn't the cause of the pain , but ravish is a connection or let's say , a representative of RK , who has caused atharva and us majority of our pain ...


And since protecting our selves is sometimes instinctive , atharva isn't conscious that is what he is doing , his subconscious has taken the power to protect without his will... And especially when he sees pain...

How can I explain this ...

Okay let me use the hot coal analogy ...

So in indian serials they are all about walking on hot coal to save someone and blah blah blah ...


If you put your foot on hot coal , on reflex or instinct you pull back immediately there is pain ...

But is you are aware and know that , walking on that coal will take you to someone who needs you badly , you will force your self to walk and go to that person no matter the pain ...

But if you are disoriented and not sure what you are doing or can't even figure out why , every time you tell your self to step on that coal , your instinct will take over immediately as it feels the pain , and you are back to protecting your self by pulling back...

You want to go but everytime the pain stops you , but the reason you keep on trying over and over is because deep down you know something is not right ...

...

I hope that makes sense😵 ... And I got sidetracked the main reason for this post , wasn't even about my about blabbering , it was about the fact that ,


Maybe just maybe , the cvs will pull a "screw them🤬" on us and make ravish be the one or reason for atharva coming back ... Don't kill me its jst a theory ... *runs for cover * 😃

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Baby Athu senses that something is not right.
Something has changed.
It's not how it used to be like.


I kinda feel why he backed away. All that matters is that Vividha will be there to reassure him cause her clarity & her stance when it comes to Atharva is unfaltering & shall remain to be so :)

Her internal monologue was brilliant today, she is Ravish Vashisht's wife in the eyes of the samaaj. But does that matter to her? NO.

She is married to Atharva Sujata, from her heart & soul. The only thing that keeps her going seems to be the drive to bring him back. That's the only thing that seems to be keeping her sanity intact.

God, it scares me to think how she'd react when she finds out Atharva is no more. But her stance should be crystal clear as it has always been :)

Waiting for more delusional bubbles to be broken.

Missed ya Kells, love the post! ❤️
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The human brain has weird things to protect the body from pain. In his subconscious mind he knows he ll have to face the harsh reality that his vividha was taken away from him.
He still lives in that temple separation episode. He doesn't remember anything which happened after that. So when he sees ravish he feels a disconnect between the past and present. He feels confused and his brain protects him from pain.

And no ravish is not the trigger. I think kk will be the trigger.

I won't throw stones at you .come out now 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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While reliving his past moments with Vividha is triggering all the memories, looking at Ravish is bringing back Baby Atharv.
It's like Baby Atharv is his mind's comfort zone.
Like someone has already pointed out, he feels a disconnection when he sees Ravish, for example let us think of Atharv & Baby Atharv as two different people with the same host body, one Atharv is familiar with everyone except Ravish & another Atharv is familiar with everyone including Ravish, so when Atharv Sujatha sees Ravish, Baby Atharv takes over as it is less confusing and easier for his brain to identify with.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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guys i'm seriously confused 😕 i dont even want to predict anything. Atharv;s behavior after seeing d mirror was so confusing I just dont trust CVs hopin for d best and no sacrificing drama .
i wish CVs had so much brain in projecting medical conditions right like the way u hv explained here Kel, We hv already seen them not handling medical conditions .. I'm nt hving high hopes
Edited by cool_kriti - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very interesting analogy. We can always depend on u for this.
Even i was thinking why would Atharv recoil after seeing Ravish? We know he cannot lie , he will not run away from circumstances, he doesnt need to cause pain to Vv and Sujata by acting disoriented. This might be the case, that looking at unknown ravish Atharv may get confused and cant join the dots. Coz if he is alright then he doesnt know Ravish and if he isnt alright then he loves his captain cool. This may confuse and get him to recoil back to his state.

This may not be his conscious reaction. Like imagine u are about to have an accident, ur mind is numb seeing wats gonna hit you but ur feet suddenly goes n applies the brakes. U didnt think if applying the brakes while u were going to hit the car ahead but ur subconscious mind still made u do it thus protecting u.
Edited by monu_tan - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nobody is gonna throw stones at u kells... we all love u😛
U voice out most people's thought! I am one of them😃

I too feel that subconsciously Atharv is holding back or there's some conflict going on in his head that is restricting his come back!

I am not sure whether its bcoz his mind is subconsciously protecting himself from the pain or is it bcoz he is unable to connect his present with his past as ravish was not a part of his past and seeing him in the process of remembering his past just make him confused n pulls him back to reality!

Whenever he's reminded of his past, he tries to connect but the moment he sees ravish he's mind drags him to present and he unknowingly dismiss himself from his past!
Just as we saw yesterday, he was confused & a bit scared after seeing ravish as if he's mind just did a somersault at that moment...!

This is the only analogy i can accept for Atharv's behaviour coz Atharv pretending or faking his illness is something i will never agree to! No reason big enough can make Atharv do that!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..HowRude..

Baby Athu senses that something is not right.

Something has changed.
It's not how it used to be like.




On point 👍🏼 ... that reluctance to go into the unknown and the fact that he is mentally a child too...


I kinda feel why he backed away. All that matters is that Vividha will be there to reassure him cause her clarity & her stance when it comes to Atharva is unfaltering & shall remain to be so :)




This fact lightens my heart ... The fact that , she keeps on reinding him , AM here AM waiting ...



Her internal monologue was brilliant today, she is Ravish Vashisht's wife in the eyes of the samaaj. But does that matter to her? NO.

She is married to Atharva Sujata, from her heart & soul. The only thing that keeps her going seems to be the drive to bring him back. That's the only thing that seems to be keeping her sanity intact.



Vividha Atharva Sujata ... Is what she is called and who she is ... And today again she reminded us all ... That no she hasn't forgotten and she never will ... That drive keeps herself , then for him



God, it scares me to think how she'd react when she finds out Atharva is no more. But her stance should be crystal clear as it has always been :)




Me too , I kills me to think what more will this girl have to go through , what more will sujata have to go through


Waiting for more delusional bubbles to be broken.


One bubble at a time


Missed ya Kells, love the post! ❤️



Missed you more stephoo 😭...I hope with Atharva coming back , I can see you often over here , its no fun without you ...

And thank you 😳❤️



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

The human brain has weird things to protect the body from pain. In his subconscious mind he knows he ll have to face the harsh reality that his vividha was taken away from him.

He still lives in that temple separation episode. He doesn't remember anything which happened after that. So when he sees ravish he feels a disconnect between the past and present. He feels confused and his brain protects him from pain.

And no ravish is not the trigger. I think kk will be the trigger.

I won't throw stones at you .come out now😆



The brain is an amazing thing ...

I too feel , that he won't remember ravish , or anybody after the assault ... And the disconnect between past and present makes sense ..


And yes KK makes better sense , but you forgot ravish needs to look good...

*peeks out * you might not but what about others *looks around*
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The one think I love about you guys is that ypu all just get on my crazy wagon and add onto what I already have ... ❤️🤗...😆
Edited by Africanqueenkel - 9 years ago

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