Vividha ..... and her free will

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Posted: 8 years ago
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' I am yours ...Dont give myself back to me' -Rumi


We have reached a certain point of closure wrt Vividha and her love ... Her choice has been voiced in her own words and her journey from I to WE is all that matters to her and stays at WE...

Her life ... Her choice ... her decision ...


to be with the man she loves in whatever condition




Free Will
the power to act without the constraint of necessity or fate; the ability to act at one's own discretion.

Free will is everybody's right ... It is something everybody is born with ---------------Its a different story that a lot of people especially women are placed under so much societal obligation' that 'so called duty ' or 'expectation' overrules what a person really wants .

Having said that dosen' t every one of us really want to live a life of happiness and freedom ? Dosent everyone want a life they can choose?... rather than live a life somebody else choose for them ?

Vividha has done exactly this ...She has made a choice of the life she wants
What makes me proud of her today is that she chose that life even when Sujatha had not given her a choice...She chose to rectify a mistake that has happened because of her father rather continue to live the mistake and make it miserable for everybody ...Apologies and regrets have have been expressed ... It kind of makes me feel proud that circumstances haven't weighed her down when it came to making her choices ...

She has truly exercised her free will and a right to live her life of happiness 😳...
Then why is it so difficult to accept this ?

I connected to vividhas journey more thru her pain than happiness ...It makes me proud today to see her exercising her rights to live a life she truly wants ...

This post ( my first post ) I dedicate to a special someone who was my first point of contact here on the forum...Somebody who listened ...who replied and made me come back again to write ... Somebody who reviews every episode however difficult it may be ... somebody who makes everybody feel special on her review tread by replying to them every day without fail with so much patience ...Somebody because of whom I came back to write and was able to connect to all you beautiful Vitharvians ...Thank you Whispa 🤗 ...Love you ...This one is for you.😳

Wishing every Vitharvian a beautiful year with loads of happiness and love ❤️ and a free life 🤗 ...You guys are fun and a wonderful fandom 😛


PS: Please do not bother to even read or reply if you are busy bashing Vividha on another Tread... This post is about free will and its appreciation



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cool_kriti thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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ARCHRE. Congrats on first post. You should be making more such posts pls!

And this post seems like an extension to my 'gender equality' post and so well written. Every individual is free to take up their own decisions and lead the life of their own. I agree at times we do hv to make compromises in a relationship but if that compromise completely wipes one of what that person believes in then its not compromise, its a suicide mission.

A woman from eons hv been treated as second class citizens. Always following man and agreeing to whatever he says. I still remember when I was young I was taught in school 'Father is the head of the family' and I always wondered why? A mother has given herself more to a family , to their childern. Why is this bias?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow , ARCHRE...you are really a great writer...
Please do write more...I have noticed you in Whispa' review...I also loved your writings...
From the first day you join itself...😳
keep writing 🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Archre congratulations on your first post. U r really good writer u should write more. I love reading ur views on whispa's thread too.
I appreciate vividha has taken a bold step. In this society it's not easy to go back to a lover after marriage. Have to give little credit to ravish too without his consent it would have been difficult.

Vividha has been once taught by atharv to follow her heart no matter what. Stand by the truth no matter what. Looks like his girl has learnt the lesson well.

And coming to the forum we live in a world who asked daughters rights for aditi coz she wasn't given share in the property has failed to see another daughter (vivi) needs to be given her rights too(freedom to choose). Sad.

I think the bashing should stop now. Ravish agreed to free her. Then I don't understand his fans aren't ready to leave her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful thread !!! And Congrats for it being First 👏Archie I have nothing to add except .. Yes whispa is one such oerson who encourages people to write.. She keeps doing that to me too from time to time .. 😃 And all Vitharvias are superb here in this fandom.
Everyone is unique ⭐️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Is this your first post? Nicely written.

Free Will does not exist for a woman in the JNDSD LAND, because if it did, how would the male be worshiped? Vividha has chosen her path, in fact she had made her decision the day her heart started beating for Atharva, she did not have think again post her confession. Of course the circumstances were not in their favor, but it still did not stop her from loving him. Like she said, they tried to make her Vividha again, but naseeb has refused to separate VITHARV.

She has chosen Atharva, they are going to be together, those who cannot digest that, tough luck!😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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'Her free will' - Isn't it the core reason she gets bashed everyday in this forum?

Original couple always reunites in every show by ML effort or third angle karma. Both male gets to be Mahan. They keep saying you are good so keep her, vice versa.

Here, FL chose for herself without no nonsense. Male's failed to use the FL like a commodity. Isn't it the core problem for a certain fanbase that Vivi thought she is flesh and blood human and chose the right thing for herself without anyone's help?


Make thread more often. Nice post :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Archie first many congratulations on your first post👏 & you have written it very beautifully. ❤️

Free will it's the basic fundamental right of every individual to live life according to their ways.

In country like india where men are still worshipped like God & have given the right to take the decisions especially if they are head of the family & women's are not allowed to take their decision own. But Vividha become first FL who has taken a bolder step to go back to Atharav & live with him inspite she still married to Ravish.

In real sense this is Women empowerment Vividha takes decision for herself & shan this marriage.

Do keep making post Archie , you are a good writer. I loved your unique way of expressing your thoughts.👍🏼






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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think JNDSD is beautiful in terms of the fact that the leads of the show believe in free will.The mistakes done parents are the consequences of it wil be suffered by Children and all three of them with their free and correct thoughts will make things clear soughted.Atharv made Vividha a strong Woman ans supported her.Now its time for Vividha to take correct decision and instead of showing Ravish as a evil Negative Character to make things crisp they are showing him a Man of this generation who will support the Girl or Friend in her wish and thoughts.This is the beauty of story.Their parents suffered compromised but they did not stand up for Right but the Children will nlt suffer.They will do what is right and will stand for each Other.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post Archie and congratulations on your first post.
I can't believe it is your first though, I have read your words in Whispas post and can't believe you have not written a post before.
I completely adore Vivi for her free will and open thinking, if it wasn't for that she wouldn't be some one I admire.

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