What it takes to forgive ....

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Mahatma Gandhi.

I don't like Ravish very much, but I do give credit where its due ^^ and this certain quality mentioned above Ravish does possess.

I'll overlook all other circumstances and accept that Vividha has hurt R and V family a lot. What I want to know is Ravish fans, what does Vividha have to do to redeem herself in your eyes?

She's apologised, she feels guilty. It's all done now. The characters have accepted it. They are all trying to move on. When will the fans move on?

Or is forgiving not an option in your book? And Vividha will always be bashed and criticised on this forum for the past that she can't change now?

PS . I want a genuine discussion please. I'm very much open to opposing views as long as they make sense and have logic to them. Otherwise don't bother commenting as your comments will not be entertained thanks!

It'll take Ravidha to happen for Vividha to be forgiven I guess😛

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

It'll take Ravidha to happen for Vividha to be forgiven I guess😛

+1 ... Exactly my thoughts ... She stays unforgiven

Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Mahatma Gandhi.

I don't like Ravish very much, but I do give credit where its due ^^ and this certain quality mentioned above Ravish does possess.

I'll overlook all other circumstances and accept that Vividha has hurt R and V family a lot. What I want to know is Ravish fans, what does Vividha have to do to redeem herself in your eyes?

She's apologised, she feels guilty. It's all done now. The characters have accepted it. They are all trying to move on. When will the fans move on?

Or is forgiving not an option in your book? And Vividha will always be bashed and criticised on this forum for the past that she can't change now?

PS . I want a genuine discussion please. I'm very much open to opposing views as long as they make sense and have logic to them. Otherwise don't bother commenting as your comments will not be entertained thanks!

I got ur point that now Cvs are trying to wrap up R-V marriage plot, very thing is crystal clear now so why Ravish fans are finding difficultly in forgiving her specially when they don't want Vv for Ravish. In my pov difficulty lie in what they hv shown earlier. That marriage track, in urge of showing that marriage track differently, makers shown Vividha in ruthless way of extreme degrees that she is ready to sacrifice someone's life to safeguard her lover. That marriage track n dialogues of Vv were of extreme degrees n when we comes to showing her redemption there is nothing to compare. She said twice she is guilty, some tears, some half hearted dialogues n that's done. About her crying of buckets n buckets, that happened even at Avinash death so how come bucket cry would make a difference here. Her love for Atharv can come so strong with dialogues but when it comes to redemption for Ravish, it widely fail. That's what I think. People want some extreme degree of redemption as marriage track was an extreme too.
The height of hatred wall is nothing cuz even two tears of true redemption can break it into pieces. But I guess it's high time people should satisfy themselves with that bucket crying as redemption cuz makers are not interested in showing that.

For them I think vividha has not suffered enough for her wrong doings. The injured party ravish just rolled over and did not blame her for her mistakes. I think this is the reason they had party when suman slapped her. They overlooked the fact that when the divorce actually takes place vividha has face the backlash of the society for being 'that's woman. The society is never look the issue from her POV. They will bash her just like Some people of this fandom . When that happens vividha will be kicked into the forgiven and tolerating box by them

Its just a character.. just like a few feel bad for catherine of wuthering heights and few despise her for marrying linton..

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

It'll take Ravidha to happen for Vividha to be forgiven I guess😛

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

Well said vaishali .she ll not be forgiven until she falls for ravish. Coz more than anything this has become kinda ego issue for few.

How dare she not fall for such a nice man? And they keep on bringing the marriage card. Coz they don't have any other card.period

Well the answer is obvious Mcdreamy,