justifying Vividha???

There is NO justification to what Vividha has done with Ravish and his family.

Tia I Have Noticed Her One Characteristics Trait. SELFISH.

There is no justification for Vivi's actions. She is a cheater. She married to Ravish to save her boyfriend's life but what was the fault of Ravish? He was an innocent guy. His family had no fault because before marriage Suman asked Vivi's father if she is happy with this marriage and her father ensured her that Vivi was very happy about this marriage. So KK and Vivi both cheated Ravish and his family. After marriage Ravish has asked her several times if she was happy with that marriage but she never revealed the truth infront of him. It was Sujata who revealed the truth to Ravish but at the moment he had fallen in love with this selfish lady. Vivi has no guilty feelings for what she has done with innocent Ravish and his family. She has ruined Ravish's life but still no guilty feelings. She is as selfish as her father both can do anything to fulfill their selfish desire. They can't see anything beyond their own happiness. There is a term that if you hurt somebody then you will never be happy. Karma will bite back yourself. Nobody can escape from their Karma. She can never be happy in her life by hurting others. Once Sujata has cursed her that she will never get peace in her life for destroying other's life. Every action has similar reaction and Vivi will surely get it.

Originally posted by: Shanky-Ki-Biwi.

Tia I Have Noticed Her One Characteristics Trait. SELFISH.

She Has Always Been Selfish. But At The Same Time I Wont Say Being Selfish Is Bad. No Its Not. You Can Be Selfish For Yourself. Its One's Right. But That Doesnt Mean Everytime You Will Be About Me , Me And Me. I Am Selfish Too. Its A Human Nature. But I Dont go On Saying Me Me Me Every Single Day Or In Every Situations. That Will Make Feel Pathetic.

You Know I Am Happy That Vividha Stated What She Wanted. Good. Its Her Right. And I Am Glad She Did. But The Way She Goes On Ignoring That One Person Who Has Done So Much. That Thing Irks Me. She Is Sorry For Hurting Suman. Which She Should Be. But When It Comes To Ravish I Dont Understand Her. She Is Grateful To Him. But She Isnt Guilty About Ravish. I Mean I Am Not Saying Sacrifice Herself Or Her Happiness For Hurting Him Or Something. All I Asked For A Little Consideration Towards Ravish And His Feelings. Just Tell Him That She Did Wrong To Him Or His Feelings. Thats It. Atleast Show That To Him. She Is Not Heartless. And I Realised If She Cares It Is Genuine For Example

I Remember That Scene Where Atharv Mistakenly Fired Ravish And She Looked At Atharv Saying What Have You Done? Then That Scene Where She Takes Care Of Him. That Scene Where She Stops Him Twice. It Looked Genuine. No Fake Concern. And I Was Happy.

But Suddenly It Changed And I Am Back To Square 1.

I Really Dont Know Whats Wrong With CVS. They Should Have Sticked To One Vividha Only. She Changes And After Few Days She Is Back To Square 1.

I Am Confused. I Feel So Horrible Because I Am Not Feeling Anything Towards Her. So Have I Become A Bad Person?

Since Starting She Has Been Rude/Nice/Rude/Nice/Rude Towards Him. It Keeps On Going Like This.

But One Thing She Stood Clear Was Her Loving Atharv But Again Dialogue Writer Shows Her Different Infront Of Suji And Suman.

I Understood Her Marrying Ravish. Ek Hadd Tak I Understood. If I Will See My Love Getting Hurt I Will Lose My Sense But I Will Do Everything In My Power To Save Him. I Would Have Told Vashishts The Truth. But Again Why Should I Trust Vashisht When My Dad Broke My Trust. So I Understand That Feeling.Islye I Said Ek Hadd Tak I Understand Her. But After What She Did I Dont Support Her. NO I DONT!

But I Started Melting Towards Her. Then Again I Am Lost.

Its All CVS Fault. She Doesnt Thank Him Nor Say Sorry To Him. Anyways Tia I Am Still Confused And I Dunno Whether I Made Sense In My Post Or Not. I Just Poured My Heart.

No Offence To Anyone.

I think vividha's interaction with ravish could be a little complicated. She was uncomfortable and felt guilty almost every time She sees ravish when she is with Atharva. Only time she doesn't care about Ravish feelings concerning her relationship with Atharva is when her feelings are overwhelmed by her concern to Atharva. Can't blame her there because her guilt outweighed her love for Atharva then she would have never gone through the marriage in the first place. She is not doing THE right thing here but neither could be constructed as completely wrong. Even if they agree to remain as friends there still remains a fact that they are married. In this awkward situation she can't neither behave really friendly nor rudely as she would seen as either leading him on or being ungrateful.

Originally posted by: Shanky-Ki-Biwi.

Tia I Have Noticed Her One Characteristics Trait. SELFISH.

She Has Always Been Selfish. But At The Same Time I Wont Say Being Selfish Is Bad. No Its Not. You Can Be Selfish For Yourself. Its One's Right. But That Doesnt Mean Everytime You Will Be About Me , Me And Me. I Am Selfish Too. Its A Human Nature. But I Dont go On Saying Me Me Me Every Single Day Or In Every Situations. That Will Make Feel Pathetic.

You Know I Am Happy That Vividha Stated What She Wanted. Good. Its Her Right. And I Am Glad She Did. But The Way She Goes On Ignoring That One Person Who Has Done So Much. That Thing Irks Me. She Is Sorry For Hurting Suman. Which She Should Be. But When It Comes To Ravish I Dont Understand Her. She Is Grateful To Him. But She Isnt Guilty About Ravish. I Mean I Am Not Saying Sacrifice Herself Or Her Happiness For Hurting Him Or Something. All I Asked For A Little Consideration Towards Ravish And His Feelings. Just Tell Him That She Did Wrong To Him Or His Feelings. Thats It. Atleast Show That To Him. She Is Not Heartless. And I Realised If She Cares It Is Genuine For Example

I Remember That Scene Where Atharv Mistakenly Fired Ravish And She Looked At Atharv Saying What Have You Done? Then That Scene Where She Takes Care Of Him. That Scene Where She Stops Him Twice. It Looked Genuine. No Fake Concern. And I Was Happy.

But Suddenly It Changed And I Am Back To Square 1.

I Really Dont Know Whats Wrong With CVS. They Should Have Sticked To One Vividha Only. She Changes And After Few Days She Is Back To Square 1.

I Am Confused. I Feel So Horrible Because I Am Not Feeling Anything Towards Her. So Have I Become A Bad Person?

Since Starting She Has Been Rude/Nice/Rude/Nice/Rude Towards Him. It Keeps On Going Like This.

But One Thing She Stood Clear Was Her Loving Atharv But Again Dialogue Writer Shows Her Different Infront Of Suji And Suman.

I Understood Her Marrying Ravish. Ek Hadd Tak I Understood. If I Will See My Love Getting Hurt I Will Lose My Sense But I Will Do Everything In My Power To Save Him. I Would Have Told Vashishts The Truth. But Again Why Should I Trust Vashisht When My Dad Broke My Trust. So I Understand That Feeling.Islye I Said Ek Hadd Tak I Understand Her. But After What She Did I Dont Support Her. NO I DONT!

But I Started Melting Towards Her. Then Again I Am Lost.

Its All CVS Fault. She Doesnt Thank Him Nor Say Sorry To Him. Anyways Tia I Am Still Confused And I Dunno Whether I Made Sense In My Post Or Not. I Just Poured My Heart.

No Offence To Anyone.

no dear i completely undrstand...i also want her to be little more sensitive towards ravish like she use to...but cvs r just making her so self centered that her big big dialogues are lookimg like cr@p.

Originally posted by: moushyama

There is no justification for Vivi's actions. She is a cheater. She married to Ravish to save her boyfriend's life but what was the fault of Ravish? He was an innocent guy. His family had no fault because before marriage Suman asked Vivi's father if she is happy with this marriage and her father ensured her that Vivi was very happy about this marriage. So KK and Vivi both cheated Ravish and his family. After marriage Ravish has asked her several times if she was happy with that marriage but she never revealed the truth infront of him. It was Sujata who revealed the truth to Ravish but at the moment he had fallen in love with this selfish lady. Vivi has no guilty feelings for what she has done with innocent Ravish and his family. She has ruined Ravish's life but still no guilty feelings. She is as selfish as her father both can do anything to fulfill their selfish desire. They can't see anything beyond their own happiness. There is a term that if you hurt somebody then you will never be happy. Karma will bite back yourself. Nobody can escape from their Karma. She can never be happy in her life by hurting others. Once Sujata has cursed her that she will never get peace in her life for destroying other's life. Every action has similar reaction and Vivi will surely get it.

yes...about suji's curse...today she took 180 degree turn as she thinks VV saved her son life.

what about Doctore,medicines and ravish ka paisa and dedication for A...woh sab ka koi value nahi??

Originally posted by: jonjimmy

I think vividha's interaction with ravish could be a little complicated. She was uncomfortable and felt guilty almost every time She sees ravish when she is with Atharva. Only time she doesn't care about Ravish feelings concerning her relationship with Atharva is when her feelings are overwhelmed by her concern to Atharva. Can't blame her there because her guilt outweighed her love for Atharva then she would have never gone through the marriage in the first place. She is not doing THE right thing here but neither could be constructed as completely wrong. Even if they agree to remain as friends there still remains a fact that they are married. In this awkward situation she can't neither behave really friendly nor rudely as she would seen as either leading him on or being ungrateful.

i dontbreally want VV n ravish to be friends practically its not possible. but being sensitive about the whole mess that she n her father have created...is what i wnt from her.

Originally posted by: anjs

I dont grudge Vividha her feelings for Atharv. It wasnt in her hand. So its ok i guess.

But what i hate, is the way she married Ravish to save Atharva, knowing that she can never get over Atharva, meaning she can never love Ravish, so she knew that she was ruining his life as he would never get the love that he should from his wife.

Another thing, was her no-attempt to tell Suman before the wedding, that she was forced. So she willingly married him, that means she willingly ruined his life.

She even went on to wish him dead. Which is totally inhumane. Why didnt she will death for her own Father that day. If she is supposedly so strong. Then why didnt she kill her own Father that day. Even attempt to kill him or hurt him...she did none of these things. But wished death for an innocent guy, whose life she was gonna as it is ruin to save her lover boy.

After that too...day and night Ravish has been nothing but supportive and protective towards her, towards her lover boy. Also giving him his rightful share.

But we dont even see an ounce of guilt on Viv madam's face. whenever something goes wrong, she starts screaming at RAvish, insulting him. She mellows down only when Ravish proves that he cares for her and Atharva.

So there is no justification for vividha... even cv's cannot justify her. Others trying is lame efforts.

also her BIG BIG dialogues about love and all.

where was that love whn A was dying...instead of marrying someone to save his life...she should have fought for her love...jst like A told her to do so.