All for one ; one for all

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay if I was in vv's place right , after receiving that sap I would have slapped ravish ...

Okay before we start with our how dare she even or how dare I even ...

This is what I believe , suman should have slapped both or none ...

Ravish deserved a slap just as vv got one , but when it came to ravish's truth instead of slapping too suman walked away ...

So because am a bitch , I don't want you to imagine being in my shoe , I want you to BE in my shoe , I would have turned and given ravish a sound enough slap too ... Why ? You ask ... Well because they were more or less in "this" together ... So one for all and all for one ...


And why does the female always have to suffer when thee male is equally to blame ...

As friends in vv's place I would have slapped my friend too ... But then knowing the type of friends I have I would have ran for my life 🤣, because the eye for an eye thing gets complicated ...


Remember this post is all about ME 😉... Am that conceited and a fun way to say , the discrimination and gender biased still exist and how I could have. Made everyone equal if I where the writer , you could always give me better options ...


Females tend to blame other females and males go scot free ... 😃

This is a how would you have made that situation EQUAL, forget technicalities I want equality ...

All are welcomed , please its a new year try not to chew each other's heads off and remember to gain respect you have to give it ...

Happy new year ...


Ps: while most people saw , a mother son , mother vv dynamic , I saw a message , that message like I said was that only girls should get slapped , its always the ladies fault and the men are never to blame ... Do you think what message do those young girls get at home?? ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Happy new year Kelly.
I love your post. But Wat can u expect from suman? The lady asked vivi arent u supposed to love ur husband? The lady who never questioned her husband about cheating on her.

It only shows she thinks males of the house are equal to god they cannot be questioned. It's always the female who bear the brunt.

Anyway I'm happy vivi made her stance clear and atharv will soon be with her . They can at least now be together without hiding from anyone or feeling guilty
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I disagree.
I don't think there was a true gender bias there. I believe that if the roles were reversed and Ravish was found to have "Cheated" on Vividha Suman would have slapped Ravish too.

I think Suman was impulsive in blaming and getting violent with Vividha because of her own history with Ramakanth and the extent of her anxiety and paranoia related to her children's future. But Ravish clarifying the matter took the steam out of that rage she was feeling.

What i don't understand is why Ravish stood like a statue next to his mom for the full 10 minutes where she was going crazy. Why he didn't clear things when she started her rant against Vivs and why it took a Second attempt at getting violent for him to step in.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JC-

I disagree.

I don't think there was a true gender bias there. I believe that if the roles were reversed and Ravish was found to have "Cheated" on Vividha Suman would have slapped Ravish too.

I think Suman was impulsive in blaming and getting violent with Vividha because of her own history with Ramakanth and the extent of her anxiety and paranoia related to her children's future. But Ravish clarifying the matter took the steam out of that rage she was feeling.

What i don't understand is why Ravish stood like a statue next to his mom for the full 10 minutes where she was going crazy. Why he didn't clear things when she started her rant against Vivs and why it took a Second attempt at getting violent for him to step in.



He did try to stop her on more than one occasion. It was Suman who's rage did not give Ravish any chance to explain anything until he had to drastically come between her and Vividha before a second slap.

Nonetheless, respect to him for trying to get Vividha in the clear by telling his mother about his own involvement as soon as possible after she found out the the truth.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is how Cap Ravish manages all his secrets from Mom. Blow it out in open , let her react in the most violent way and THEN go and clarify. Like the Sujata one and Vv one. He hardly had any plans of preparing his mum to face the secret truths he had. Mann if u cant keep a secret and dont have a plan then atleast dun lie to ur hypersensitive mum.
And why didnt Suman get mad on hiding the truth of his marriage? Her son lied and made the girl lied too. But she would only show her anger on Vv.

If Suman n Ravish has suffered so has Vv suffered. And Vv suffered much more than the combined sadness of Suman Ravish. Do they even thonk of others, have they even reacted once on Vv getting betrayed, atharv getting almost killed, sujata losing everything they had.

And why are they even accusing Vv of cheating when they very well know its Kk who is the root cause of all.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ST4RP1U5



He did try to stop her on more than one occasion. It was Suman who's rage did not give Ravish any chance to explain anything until he had to drastically come between her and Vividha before a second slap.

Nonetheless, respect to him for trying to get Vividha in the clear by telling his mother about his own involvement as soon as possible after she found out the the truth.


And he is supposed to be an army captain who catches terrorist every other day. His efforts of trying to speak to his enraged mom were so lame. He could let her speak bullshit to Vv and while just standing there and making faces on it.. A commanding officer couldnt interrupt his mommy coz she was angry.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: monu_tan


And he is supposed to be an army captain who catches terrorist every other day. His efforts of trying to speak to his enraged mom were so lame. He could let her speak bullshit to Vv and while just standing there and making faces on it.. A commanding officer couldnt interrupt his mommy coz she was angry.



I know you are not a fan of him, but I don't think it's right that you should blame him for everything!
What if Ravish was not there at all? No one else could have made Suman calm down at that moment. Relax.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ST4RP1U5



I know you are not a fan of him, but I don't think it's right that you should blame him for everything!
What if Ravish was not there at all? No one else could have made Suman calm down at that moment. Relax.


No one is blaming Ravish for everything. But this whole drama of being happy hubby wife was put up by him and he also should have borne the consequences with Vv. It was unfair that while Suman gave an earful to Vv and even went on to slap her, when Ravish owns up she just chooses to walk away. Thats all this topic says.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: monu_tan


No one is blaming Ravish for everything. But this whole drama of being happy hubby wife was put up by him and he also should have borne the consequences with Vv. It was unfair that while Suman gave an earful to Vv and even went on to slap her, when Ravish owns up she just chooses to walk away. Thats all this topic says.



Yeah it is unfair.

But it's obvious that Suman will be biased towards her own son over a girl who she has no 'real' relationship with right? Knowing how angry/short tempered she is, there isn't a lot you'd expect from her in that situation.
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