I am feeling so sad because of vividha bashing

I am really feeling bad when people are bashing vividha and tagging her as a selfish and double standard and what not . Vividha from the starting shown as pure hearted girl she genuinely helped and respected every one and after marriage also is respected everyone even ravish that's the reason she is not with ravish . vividha is the first genuine female lead I have ever seen in Indian television she is purely loved Atharv and did not put ravish in dark and told him cliche dialogues to him and move on with him after marriage .hats off to vividha for her genuine love which doesn't change as per the situation and condition

she DID keep ravish in dark, munh dikhai ki rasm ke time wen all d army wives gathered, ravish asked her clear cut if their marriage happened with her approval or not and even after that he asked her repeatedly but she remained silent and did not tell him d truth, the truth came out wen ravish had already fallen in luv wid her, she shud've told him wen he asked her for the truth so yes she kept him in dark

I know what you are saying. Vividha took a decision and decided to get married to anyone to anyone whose father told her to save Atharva's life. She ruined (like some people claim to be) Ravish's life unintentionally, but she wasn't happy about it. She has carried that guilt of hurting them ever since.

When Ravish asked about marriage decision to Vividha she wasn't ready to trust anyone after what KK did to her. And, also Atharva's life was still in danger. But after when she came to know that Atharva was safe, she tried to tell him, but he was busy with his personal problem (Atharva). Also, she has never lead Ravish, it was always Suman who kept telling him that how much Vividha loves Ravish. She even flinches when he touches her. She was just doing her Duty of what good bahu does since Ravish has asked her to make sure his mother is always happy. After, KC when she came to know that Atharva is living in the same house, she started doubting him because he was constantly lying to her. I wouldn't say she was wrong at that time. She told the truth to Ravish within one month of their marriage & had been grateful to him for taking care of Atharva and as a friend. She has always clarified to him that she loves Atharva and will not be able to move on from him.

I feel really sad for her that people say that Vividha is selfish, loud and very rude to vashishth family, but they never see the reason behind this behavior of her. Now she follows her heart and decides not to move on from Atharva and doesn't want to compromise in this marriage they are calling her different names.

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Ehh dont worry about the bashing part..She will be bashed anyhow coz she didnt fall for Ravish.

Your action has always a opposite reaction. Vividha was the girl who wanted the groom to die in war in her marriage date which shows her selfish character. Vividha was the girl who never thought twice before marrying Ravish that she is going to ruin someone's life by getting married to him. Marriage has a greater impact on human life its not only two persons but two families involves in that. It shows the selfcentered and selfish character of Vividha. What was Vividha's problem if Guddi wanted to marry Ravish if she had no relationship with him? She was ready to punish every person of Vasisht family for Guddi's murder but when it comes to her boyfriend she was Ready to withdraw the case. She forgot her own sister it shows how selfish she is. She has no guilt feelings about what she has done with Ravish it again shows her selfishness. She has proved she is the perfect daughter of KK . Same blood. Like father like daughter.No sympathy for her. She is getting what she deserved.

Originally posted by: moushyama

Your action has always a opposite reaction. Vividha was the girl who wanted the groom to die in war in her marriage date which shows her selfish character. Vividha was the girl who never thought twice before marrying Ravish that she is going to ruin someone's life by getting married to him. Marriage has a greater impact on human life its not only two persons but two families involves in that. It shows the selfcentered and selfish character of Vividha. What was Vividha's problem if Guddi wanted to marry Ravish if she had no relationship with him? She was ready to punish every person of Vasisht family for Guddi's murder but when it comes to her boyfriend she was Ready to withdraw the case. She forgot her own sister it shows how selfish she is. She has no guilt feelings about what she has done with Ravish it again shows her selfishness. She has proved she is the perfect daughter of KK . Same blood. Like father like daughter.No sympathy for her. She is getting what she deserved.

@TM I think you are not a blind Vividha fan so I am writing to you. I don't want to argue with blind ViTharv fans so don't try to quote me.

I don't know why people only see the fact that she wished for her grooms death and her as her father's daughter. They never see the fact that she was betrayed and broken beyond limits that resulted in her wishing for Ravish's death. She would never in her right mind wish for an innocent man's death. For heaven's sake, she was ready to sacrifice herself in the place of bhoomi during terrorist track. What everyone saw was the CV's attempt to show woman empowerment and failed to see the kind of girl she is in her right. Nobody thinks how broken she might have been to wish death on a stranger but keep on blaming her wrong deeds. And about guddi's death, the reason she wanted to withdraw the case when Atharva was accused was that she knew he could never commit murder and does not wish to see him suffer further. she knew his true self and was confident enough to claim that he could not commit murder in any state but she can't say same about the vashisht clan

Originally posted by: jonjimmy

I don't know why people only see the fact that she wished for her grooms death and her as her father's daughter. They never see the fact that she was betrayed and broken beyond limits that resulted in her wishing for Ravish's death. She would never in her right mind wish for an innocent man's death. For heaven's sake, she was ready to sacrifice herself in the place of bhoomi during terrorist track. What everyone saw was the CV's attempt to show woman empowerment and failed to see the kind of girl she is in her right. Nobody thinks how broken she might have been to wish death on a stranger but keep on blaming her wrong deeds. And about guddi's death, the reason she wanted to withdraw the case when Atharva was accused was that she knew he could never commit murder and does not wish to see him suffer further. she knew his true self and was confident enough to claim that he could not commit murder in any state but she can't say same about the vashisht clan

vitharv fans r not bashing vv dats wat matters...she is selfish for her love...n v love that...vividha is best FL on tv who is not mahaan tyaagi...she lives for her...

Vividha is going to get bash bcoz she is different from other daily soap female leads .She is not jagat Mata .she is not mahaan.She is a girl with geninue heart .She thinks for others but she also think for her love .She is A real human with a lot of qualities and flaws as well.