Why Chakor 'needs' Suraj.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is me copy-pasting from the AT.
So a discussion began about why exactly our boy deserves our girl. I'm not too great at these analytical posts and I mostly paraphrase dialogues instead of quoting them, but here's my take on it.

Why does Chakor need Suraj?

Surely she could find someone closer to her idea of the perfect man, someone with whom she doesn't have a horrible history, someone with whom she can begin anew.

Why then should she settle for a former typical UP ka gunda and her childhood tormentor?

Maybe because he understands her so well. Back when they hated each other and she was trying to get out of the Lucknow trip and faked illness, he knew immediately what exactly she'd done.
Unlike everyone else in her life, everyone who's claimed to love her and happily joined in her plans and who ultimately had nothing but accusations to throw at her scheming when it didn't exactly benefit them, he knows that is who she is and he admires her for it.
"Kaash Chakor yahan hoti. Uska dimaag bohot chalta hai aisi baaton mein."

Maybe because he has zero effs to spare for the world in general. After the whole bride swap her own parents did her antim sanskaar in front of her eyes. Why? Because she broke Vivaan's heart. And who exactly is Vivaan to them? What has he even done for them? The kind of career Chakor has, she's constantly under the scrutiny of so many people. What people are saying/thinking of her could really get to her. What does she need in all this? Someone who will tell her
"Log kya sochte hai, kehte hain koi farq nahin padta. Tum sacchi ho, sach bolo."

Maybe because it is so easy for a man's ego to get in the way of her udaan. To be insecure and jealous because of her fame. To ask her to sacrifice her career because he doesn't want the world to know him as "Mr. Chakor". Suraj on the other hand memorized the details of all her achievements. That is just how proud he is of her. He has zero qualms admitting
"Ismein nayi baat kya hai? Tum humesha se hi humse aage rahi ho."

Maybe because she needs someone with a backbone of steel like she does. He may stand aside and watch half amused when she picks fights, but he will tear the hide off the person who dares to harm her. He's not the kind who will run at the first sign of trouble. He's the guy who will stay by someone he loves, no matter what because,
"Hum jaise bhi hain tumhare saath hain. Yeh jo musibat aayi hai, uska hum mil kar saamna karenge."

And most of all maybe it's because he has the capacity to love like she does. Selflessly, unconditionally and intensely.

Oh and it's definitely because she's already in love with him.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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All of your statements are true of the current Suraj - one who has self proclaimed he is now this way because of Chakor's inherent goodness. What did VJ say in an interview...when someone keeps getting goodness from someone else - they cannot help but respond to it and become that way. It's to his credit that he has changed...not easy...that's why we have high expectations from him...that are slowly being met. Yes - Suraj is perfect for Chakor - she does not need any other with zero baggage.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aradhna, this is an awesome post. That's exactly how I felt. Why Chakor needs Suraj!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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beautiful post. loved the dialogues you quoted to prove your point!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes,darling.A fabulous post that you made.👏Re-watched the previous epi on tv a while ago and by "Suraj,tum bohut badal gaye ho aur hume ye badla hua Suraj bohut pasand hai" Chakor actually meant this- the way he's standing by her for her.Something else that nobody had done for her and nobody else will do or she can expect to do,not even her parents.Its not about 'getting a yes man' or 'getting another Vivaan',its about getting that anchor that an ordinary girl can expect to stick to when she's on the verge of collapsing.
You said all,not adding anymore.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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BANG ON post dear!!
Each and every point you described goes perfect with SuKor 👏


Chakor is a strong girl with no limits and boundaries...she doesn't think twice before helping someone( including her childhood enemy) and sacrificing for the ones she loves, ignoring the pain those so-called loved ones have given her. So she definitely needs a man who won't cage her within the boundaries of social norms and expectations, who won't judge her on the parameters that the society has decided., who would be happy and proud seeing her reaching new heights and accomplishing greater records in her career. And all these qualities are not very much likely to be found in a man like Vivaan who wants to mould his life-partner in his ways. So yes, she NEEDS Suraj .


Like Suraj says, "Ye ek azaad panchhi hei aur inhe humesha azaad hi rehna chahiye"

--Pari--
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Such a beautiful, well thought out post Aru!
Nothing to add.. you have said it all ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Such a beautiful post. Well thought out and even better written and described. Makes sense, everything you've written.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aradhana, beautiful post!
Totally agree with you.

Now I am coming back to his father, but from the way he helped him to be successful and to keep his respect in society, I always knew that he was strong enough to help someone whom he loves to succeed in life and was confident enough to stay in his/her shadow.

That's what I liked about him. He was genuinely happy when his father won something like he is now happy if Chakor succeeds.

You need to have a special heart to be joyful like this for the triumphs of some other persons. Also he took his father's failures as his own. Once he refused to eat because he couldn't help his father, just like he is now worried for Chakor.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aradhna, ..this is exactly amazing post..ur points are very true& every points are very acceptable.👏that's exactly how i feel why sukor need together. In their life?😛now i understood why did cv make sukor in their relationship..?.but u are really true chakor allready loves suraj..but she couldn't accept reality & as well as not changed suraj is her husband becoz she has gotten love pain from vivan.but reality is chakor allready came out from vivan's pain .but she couldn't realize what is she acutal has been doing for suraj?...so sukor will feel soon realize their true love feelings for each other..😛
Sukor have great sizzling chemistry 👍🏼



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