The Mystery behind Gaubani's dosti

Now that Gaurav(what a disappointment he has been)has shown his true colors, I wonder who was making a fool of who.

I feel they're just not on the same page when it comes to "expectation" in friendship. Bani - a right minded person will go out of her way to support Gaurav and it is not at all wrong to expect back too. Situation go haywire for her when she feels she is getting short end of stick and things are not reciprocated the way she wants and this lead to all of that snappy, whiny behavior from her. She needs to understand the people are different, they won't feel passionately about her, they all are in a game show which everyone wants to win, also she does have the choice to not to go way overboard in showing support, it could be done in subtle ways too. Its the same pattern with her, always the same thing, she do so much which leads to triggering her expectations button in her subconscious mind and it always get back fire.


Gaurav sits in complete opposite spectrum in contrast to bani. He is left minded person - calculative, analytical, rational, not let go things easily ( grudge holding ). He has this righteous need in him that he wants to be fair with everyone cuz he has this responsibility which comes with being a celebrity. And if somebody is unfair to him he won't mind doing justice with them in his way. He do realize that all are alone in this game and he should be playing it by his own without any interference unlike bani which can be extremely demanding and affects his plan. What he doesn't realize is by supporting his friend he won't become unfair or affect his image in a bad way.

On paper they can form symbiotic relationship and can help each other in the areas where they lack in but for that they have to listen and accept each other for who they're rather what they want from each other. No, i don't think they're fooling each other more like there thought process is so different, it becomes difficult in a situation of crisis to understand each other.

Also i feel its good idea they're giving each other space, they need that for themselves to think more objectively. They'll come around. 😳

Originally posted by: No2Pencil

I feel they're just not on the same page when it comes to "expectation" in friendship. Bani - a right minded person will go out of her way to support Gaurav and it is not at all wrong to expect back too. Situation go haywire for her when she feels she is getting short end of stick and things are not reciprocated the way she wants and this lead to all of that snappy, whiny behavior from her. She needs to understand the people are different, they won't feel passionately about her, they all are in a game show which everyone wants to win, also she does have the choice to not to go way overboard in showing support, it could be done in subtle ways too. Its the same pattern with her, always the same thing, she do so much which leads to triggering her expectations button in her subconscious mind and it always get back fire.


Gaurav sits in complete opposite spectrum in contrast to bani. He is left minded person - calculative, analytical, rational, not let go things easily ( grudge holding ). He has this righteous need in him that he wants to be fair with everyone cuz he has this responsibility which comes with being a celebrity. And if somebody is unfair to him he won't mind doing justice with them in his way. He do realize that all are alone in this game and he should be playing it by his own without any interference unlike bani which can be extremely demanding and affects his plan. What he doesn't realize is by supporting his friend he won't become unfair or affect his image in a bad way.

On paper they can form symbiotic relationship and can help each other in the areas where they lack in but for that they have to listen and accept each other for who they're rather what they want from each other. No, i don't think they're fooling each other more like there thought process is so different, it becomes difficult in a situation of crisis to understand each other.

Also i feel its good idea they're giving each other space, they need that for themselves to think more objectively. They'll come around. 😳

Originally posted by: No2Pencil

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I feel they're just not on the same page when it comes to "expectation" in friendship. Bani - a right minded person will go out of her way to support Gaurav and it is not at all wrong to expect back too. Situation go haywire for her when she feels she is getting short end of stick and things are not reciprocated the way she wants and this lead to all of that snappy, whiny behavior from her. She needs to understand the people are different, they won't feel passionately about her, they all are in a game show which everyone wants to win, also she does have the choice to not to go way overboard in showing support, it could be done in subtle ways too. Its the same pattern with her, always the same thing, she do so much which leads to triggering her expectations button in her subconscious mind and it always get back fire.


Gaurav sits in complete opposite spectrum in contrast to bani. He is left minded person - calculative, analytical, rational, not let go things easily ( grudge holding ). He has this righteousneed in him that he wants to be fair with everyone cuz he has this responsibilitywhich comes with being a celebrity. And if somebody is unfair to him he won't mind doing justice with them in his way. He do realize that all are alone in this game and he should be playing it by his own without any interference unlike bani which can be extremely demanding and affects his plan. What he doesn't realize is by supporting his friend he won't become unfair or affect his image in a bad way.

On paper they can form symbioticrelationship and can help each other in the areas where they lack in but for that they have to listen and accept each other for who they're rather what they want from each other. No, i don't think they're fooling each other more like there thought process is so different, it becomes difficult in a situation of crisis to understand each other.

Also i feel its good idea they're giving each other space, they need that for themselves to think more objectively. They'll come around.😳</font>

+1000

this is what I was thinking he is right minded and Bani left like me. Both need to balance it out..

and I love u. So nicely put


Edit- ulta likh diya.. got excited seeing an inactive member post

Originally posted by: No2Pencil

I feel they're just not on the same page when it comes to "expectation" in friendship. Bani - a right minded person will go out of her way to support Gaurav and it is not at all wrong to expect back too. Situation go haywire for her when she feels she is getting short end of stick and things are not reciprocated the way she wants and this lead to all of that snappy, whiny behavior from her. She needs to understand the people are different, they won't feel passionately about her, they all are in a game show which everyone wants to win, also she does have the choice to not to go way overboard in showing support, it could be done in subtle ways too. Its the same pattern with her, always the same thing, she do so much which leads to triggering her expectations button in her subconscious mind and it always get back fire.


Gaurav sits in complete opposite spectrum in contrast to bani. He is left minded person - calculative, analytical, rational, not let go things easily ( grudge holding ). He has this righteous need in him that he wants to be fair with everyone cuz he has this responsibility which comes with being a celebrity. And if somebody is unfair to him he won't mind doing justice with them in his way. He do realize that all are alone in this game and he should be playing it by his own without any interference unlike bani which can be extremely demanding and affects his plan. What he doesn't realize is by supporting his friend he won't become unfair or affect his image in a bad way.

On paper they can form symbiotic relationship and can help each other in the areas where they lack in but for that they have to listen and accept each other for who they're rather what they want from each other. No, i don't think they're fooling each other more like there thought process is so different, it becomes difficult in a situation of crisis to understand each other.

Also i feel its good idea they're giving each other space, they need that for themselves to think more objectively. They'll come around. 😳