Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 3

Originally posted by: RightWingTroll

Well

Yes

Pihu is making efforts

She will fall for ishita in no time

I guess it must be sohail only

Deliberately trying to destroy bhalla family

vyas this simmi wala mystery man is not sohail I guess .. Today they showed glimpse of his face it ws not gaurav wadhwa . plus sohail might b in aus bcs he will b back to india with ruhi as per seg both were at airport

Originally posted by: gargpoo

vyas this simmi wala mystery man is not sohail I guess .. Today they showed glimpse of his face it ws not gaurav wadhwa . plus sohail might b in aus bcs he will b back to india with ruhi as per seg both were at airport

Ok

Maybe this guy and vidyut have some connection

Well

Pihu did select ishita before Shagun refused to meet her

You can't expect pihu to love ishita immediately

She is slowly warming up to ishita

Shagun by ignoring pihu is slowly pushing pihu towards ishita

Pihu wanted ishita opinion how she looked and also wanted her hair combed by ishita I guess like how simmi did for ananya ie meaning sort of she is really considering her as her mom

Originally posted by: RightWingTroll

Well

Pihu did select ishita before Shagun refused to meet her

You can't expect pihu to love ishita immediately

She is slowly warming up to ishita

Shagun by ignoring pihu is slowly pushing pihu towards ishita

Originally posted by: gargpoo

vyas this simmi wala mystery man is not sohail I guess .. Today they showed glimpse of his face it ws not gaurav wadhwa . plus sohail might b in aus bcs he will b back to india with ruhi as per seg both were at airport

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Yup, agree completely Vyas. Pihu was the one, who first chose IshRa over shagun and shagun rejected her later because Pihu has already chosen Ishita and Raman over her. Atleast, that is how it was shown.😊

In my opinion, Pihu not accepting Ishita as her mother whole-heartedly, is not Pihu's fault at all, it is thecombined fault of Raman and Ishita as parents & the family :-

Ishita for leaving behind Pihu, 7 years back, without even thinking about the 1 day old premature kid, only bothering about Raman's words and the kid who was no longer in the world. No mother, I repeat, no mother, whether she is fertile or infertile, will do this and her not even thinking about the kid in these 7 years was completely unfair. No justifications can deny the fact that Ishita failed as a mother big time there.

Raman, for allowing shagun to be part of their lives again, relying on shagun to bring up Pihu and give her an false impression that he and shagun are her parents, and most importantly hiding the truth about her real mother. No justifications can deny the fact that Raman failed as a father big time there.

The family for letting the kid to be completely dependent on Shagun and for not bothering to impart the family values in the kids. No justifications to the fact that the family failed as a whole in these years.

When all of them are at fault, we cannot blame the kid and expect it to understand Ishita, the moment, Ishita & Ruhi says she is her biological mother and after knowing the truth from Ruhi.

I would say IshRa & family are paying back for the big blunder, they did over this 8 odd years and they are trying their best to rectify their mistakes. Fair enough and it is working. That is it.

All said and done, nothing can deny the fact that "Pihu is IshRa's flesh and blood" and she is their daughter, whoever can be the surrogate mother, be it shagun or XYZ.Pihu is IshRa's biological daughter. PERIOD.If at all someone is to be blamed for this :- it is Raman for surrogacy, Ishita for accepting the surrogacy happily and letting shagun to be part of their lives with her drama and then the child exchange kaand.

After all, we cannot keep holding on to the past and keep blaming the present and future based on past mistakes and experiences always. That would be so stupid.🥱

Also, given everything, the kid's love for shagun is not fake. She cannot immediately throw shagun out of her life, until she knows shagun's true colors. Now, Ruhi or Ishita or Raman, did they try making the kid see true colors of shagun?😕. No. Raman wanted to, the other day, but Ishita stopped him from doing so, as the kid would be hurt. So as long as she does not know the truth about shagun, it is completely unfair to expect the kid to not feel for shagun, the mother figure to her, all these years, just because Ishita came back and she is her real mother.

As far as Pihu not being able to see real colors of Shagun, well if adults like Ishita and Raman can be repeatedly dumb & idiotic enough to be thankful to shagun again and again😳, after all she is a 9 year old kid who was also made dumb for the sake of shagun and this kid isn't even aware of shagun's true colors till date. So it is only fair that, instead of constantly complaining about Pihu, given the fact that she is changing for good, we be considerate towards the kid. After all, if Raman and Ishita can be forgiven for their brainless & useless acts in the past, Pihu is after all a kid.😆

Sorry for the long post Vyas.😊

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Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Yup, agree completely Vyas. Pihu was the one, who first chose IshRa over shagun and shagun rejected her later because Pihu has already chosen Ishita and Raman over her. Atleast, that is how it was shown.😊

In my opinion, Pihu not accepting Ishita as her mother whole-heartedly, is not Pihu's fault at all, it is thecombined fault of Raman and Ishita as parents & the family :-

Ishita for leaving behind Pihu, 7 years back, without even thinking about the 1 day old premature kid, only bothering about Raman's words and the kid who was no longer in the world. No mother, I repeat, no mother, whether she is fertile or infertile, will do this and her not even thinking about the kid in these 7 years was completely unfair. No justifications can deny the fact that Ishita failed as a mother big time there.

Raman, for allowing shagun to be part of their lives again, relying on shagun to bring up Pihu and give her an false impression that he and shagun are her parents, and most importantly hiding the truth about her real mother. No justifications can deny the fact that Raman failed as a father big time there.

The family for letting the kid to be completely dependent on Shagun and for not bothering to impart the family values in the kids. No justifications to the fact that the family failed as a whole in these years.

When all of them are at fault, we cannot blame the kid and expect it to understand Ishita, the moment, Ishita & Ruhi says she is her biological mother and after knowing the truth from Ruhi.

I would say IshRa & family are paying back for the big blunder, they did over this 8 odd years and they are trying their best to rectify their mistakes. Fair enough and it is working. That is it.

All said and done, nothing can deny the fact that "Pihu is IshRa's flesh and blood" and she is their daughter, whoever can be the surrogate mother, be it shagun or XYZ.Pihu is IshRa's biological daughter. PERIOD.If at all someone is to be blamed for this :- it is Raman for surrogacy, Ishita for accepting the surrogacy happily and letting shagun to be part of their lives with her drama and then the child exchange kaand.

After all, we cannot keep holding on to the past and keep blaming the present and future based on past mistakes and experiences always. That would be so stupid.🥱

Also, given everything, the kid's love for shagun is not fake. She cannot immediately throw shagun out of her life, until she knows shagun's true colors. Now, Ruhi or Ishita or Raman, did they try making the kid see true colors of shagun?😕. No. Raman wanted to, the other day, but Ishita stopped him from doing so, as the kid would be hurt. So as long as she does not know the truth about shagun, it is completely unfair to expect the kid to not feel for shagun, the mother figure to her, all these years, just because Ishita came back and she is her real mother.

As far as Pihu not being able to see real colors of Shagun, well if adults like Ishita and Raman can be repeatedly dumb & idiotic enough to be thankful to shagun again and again😳, after all she is a 9 year old kid who was also made dumb for the sake of shagun and this kid isn't even aware of shagun's true colors till date. So it is only fair that, instead of constantly complaining about Pihu, given the fact that she is changing for good, we be considerate towards the kid. After all, if Raman and Ishita can be forgiven for their brainless & useless acts in the past, Pihu is after all a kid.😆

Sorry for the long post Vyas.😊

this is called perfect analysis 👏
Completely based on true facts and wat was shown or wat is being shown .. No assumption no favouritism be it abt surrogacy .. Ishita leaving pihu .. Raman giving pihu's responsibility to shagun or family's mistake !!
As u said everyone played part in this mess we can't blame one or some ... This whole one yr v can say ws a punishment for everyone .. Past can't b changed bt all r genuinely rectifying their mistakes so its unfair acc to me again again point out past mistakes after all v shud move on ..pihu is ishra child !! And wat I saw is pihu rejected shagun first and chose ishra even after shagun's outburst she is still stick to her decision and she herself taking efforts to b close to ishita .. we shud appreciate that .. everything ws a big mwss it will take time to bond n I m glad cvs taking time ... As u said even after everything if ishra still showed gratitude to shagun n said thanks then v can't expect pihu to hate shagun her love is genuine for shagun .. She doesn't know anything abt her true color. No offence to anyone 😊