Dev should shut down his business

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now that i have your attention... no I am not talking about the Ishwari communications business... but this khufia business that runs undergroud - lying/hiding in the name of not wanting to hurt his loved ones.

In today's episode, he could have done so much to save the trouble... yes he saw the family planned his birthday ... sure he cant go to club and celebrate it with Sona alone. I appreciate his thought ... then what ?
He could have told Ishwari that Sona is waiting and I will go get her ... How will that hurt his mom ? why did he have to hide it ?

While cutting cake, He could have said - i have sent driver to bring sona and we will cut the cake as soon as she comes home.. but no he wont tell open his mouth.. again hides it in the name of not wanting to hurt his mom and family... again why would they feel bad if he waits for his wife ?? i cant understand

arranging the closet - He could have told sona that he didnt get a chance or didnt have time or skill to do it..when she was telling him how proud she is... he decided to hide the truth again in the name of not wanting to hurt Sona's feeling ... seriously

Wedding time- non veg menu - he could have told sona that his family doesnt even eat in a place where they serve non veg.. but he decided to keep quiet and let so many dixit guest suffer -- again in the name of not wanting to hurt sona's family... seriously .. why would they get hurt if non veg is not served ? yes elena and saurabh were complaining and even bijoy was asking... just to make it difficult for you ... but seriously had he spoken with sona or asha... all the conflict could have been avoided

Sona's medical reports -- he has been hiding them again not to hurt sona and her feelings... but can you hide it for ever ??

Asha Maa - He is lying and hiding the truth again ... again not to hurt sona ... can he really escape this ??

So i dont care how he runs his other businesses .. but he seriously needs to shut this down ... like right now... as all he is doing by lying/hiding is hurting one or the other.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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on cake cutting issue and all i cant say anything until tomorrows episode !!!
and for the rest i remember dev saying to riya that tujhe patha hain naa mein expressing mein thoda weak hoon !!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowiee

on cake cutting issue and all i cant say anything until tomorrows episode !!!

and for the rest i remember dev saying to riya that tujhe patha hain naa mein expressing mein thoda weak hoon !!!


arey wahh... expressing mein weak hai...

Sona ke samne tho bada express karta hai... all fake and shallow promises... chup hone ka naam hi nahi leta... aur maa and family ke saamne tho mu mein jaise fevicol lagaliya/... chup... sannaataaa..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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N Dev is feeling he is stuck between mother n wife n has to choose one n disappoint the other. He can keep both happy atleast for one day if he opens his freaking mouth.
Why wud he just assume Ish wud b hurt just bcoz he has to go n pick up his wife..afterall he will come back for the celebrations at home. There is just no logic in wat Dev does these days...they r trying to show him like a bechara pati..stuck between mother n wife but actually he is a duffer who doesn't even understand how to act in any situation n takes useless advise from Mama.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally understand your disappointment with the cake cutting incident.Like I said before let's wait and see what made him take the decision .

If there is no strong reason I would say he was wrong .Cake cutting can wait ...even in a birthday party people wait till all the important guests have arrived .

Asha case : he was wrong period .Nothing can justify his actions

But for rest of the case I disagree that he was the only one to be blamed .The other party was equally responsible especially the wardrobe and non veg issues .Medical report is totally a diff issue so I don't think it's similar to other incidents listed above .That incident needs to be analyzed in a different light and I don't blame him for hiding .Strictly my POV
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with yyy on the cake cutting. Lets wait and watch. However even today opening his mouth would have saved a lot of heartbreak and more importantly Sonakshi is standing outside a club all decked up. That is inherently risky. Her mobile has no charge (and he has a text telling him that), he has a missed call from his wife's mother... Forget infertility... This blase attitiude towards women's safety can cause more damage
He didnt have to go on their secret date. He could however have excused himself and gone to pick her (I think he didnt realise they had plans for 12 midnight and he thought till about 11:15 (as per mobile phone times) he would still be able make it for the date). That is the time he sent the driver. However, even then... either he should have gone to pick her or sent mamaji or vicky to pick her. May be its old fashioned. who knows.. i felt driver was not enough

He should surely have told his mother that where sona is. Of course the secret date is no more a secret. right?

both of them didnt tell ishwari... wouldnt she have pulled an all nighter and ruined your bday plans anyways. No one has addressed this habit of Ishwari have they?

agree with you - with a small addition - everyone needs to stop this secretive business - Sona, Ishwari, mamaji (if he alone stops this a lot of damage can be controlled), Neha-GKB... you name it
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know what makes him think that lies don't hurt? Wasn't Sona hurt today? If you ask me, lies hurt a lot more than truth. Lies at least hurt one person (at least the one who was lied to), at least truth has a possibility to be understood.
Where does this twisted thinking come from?

It's like a man who is cheating thinks that if only he keeps lying to his wife, she won't be hurt. But doesn't stop the actual thing that would hurt her.

Who I ask you wants to be lied to? Who wants to live in a fool's paradise with their head buried under the sand like an ostrich?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

I totally understand your disappointment with the cake cutting incident.Like I said before let's wait and see what made him take the decision .

If there is no strong reason I would say he was wrong .Cake cutting can wait ...even in a birthday party people wait till all the important guests have arrived .

Asha case : he was wrong period .Nothing can justify his actions

But for rest of the case I disagree that he was the only one to be blamed .The other party was equally responsible especially the wardrobe and non veg issues .Medical report is totally a diff issue so I don't think it's similar to other incidents listed above .That incident needs to be analyzed in a different light and I don't blame him for hiding .Strictly my POV



For cake cutting..it would not even have computed for him ... He is acting more like a vulcan rather than a human now a days... But vulcuns atleast understand the logic .. So i guess not even that...

Unless someone had him at gunpoint , i cant really understand why he agreed to cut it with out sona... What i am looking fwd to see is if he even mentioned it to the family - lets wait for sona.. Then everything asked him to cut and he cut it to keep them happy...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think the aarti and cake cutting is Ishwari's wish based on the time of his birth. Maybe she said that she will do aarti at 12:03 and he should cut cake following that.

I am not saying what he did was right, but it is his mom autopilot. 😆 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Cvs have made him like a joker.
Is he for real?

Both mother-son act like they have done masters in planning plotting and lying. When they got caught, play their infamous ' 8 saal ka tha' victim card, which has no connection with their current kartoot.

Hiding medical condition of sona which is seen as noble deed will eventually come out as a mistake. I can totally imagine GKB who has foot in mouth syndrome would openly call her 'banj', ishwari taking nirjal vrat till she gets heir of family, Neha having wicked smile. Sonakshi had right to decide whether she sish to go in marital life or not.


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