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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

yyy

🤣🤣.I can't stop laughing seeing your reply .Isn't it amazing that not even one in the forum have critized Sonakshi for this ...Dev babu must be feeling so jealous of Sonakshi...😆

My thoughts.

Dear friend your comment in another thread made me post this as a reply to you.

I should have done that there but since it is someone's thread I felt my outburst there. Will not look

Proper.

I agree with whatever you wrote there. Every word. Every letter.Now please read my rant,

You hope any one can survive having criticised Sonakshi for her behaviour towards Dev yesterday?

I suppressed myself from doing so but then your comment inspired me to cough out my take

Do you think any daughter will expose her so called differences that lead her throw Dev out of her room before her parents when they are not ultra serious ones like Neha's?

The great Sonakshi who vouches for discussing differences openly could not do that now? It is much convenient for her to do so since she is in her parent's house ,why didn't she utilise that? Then why did she give such a big lecture to Neha when the latter said Dev listened to her suggestion to restore Ranveer's job? If I remember well she said as long as both of them are free to discuss their views they can sort out any misunderstanding...

You are right when you posted Practice what you preach.

But Sonakshi Bose is quite different. Her discourses are meant only for others but not for her to implement.

What logic she will state for roaming on the roads at midnight ,making her husband follow her like a puppy,isn't it the way he is described in Fusion article?

I think I may feel even more embarrassed if I watch Dev getting thrashed for eave teasing his own wife.Such a great reward offered by Sonakshi for her obsessively in love husband.

You are correct when you said,..What if Iswari had thrown Dev and Sonakshi out to sort out their differences.

I can imagine what kind of outbursts will happen then.

You said you are watching the nok jhok without applying logic.

Good for you.But I can't even do that.I hope you know why.

Finally can you imagine any FIL throw his SIL and daughter out of his house? That too at midnight? Will the other members support him if he does so?leave alone others. Will his wife tolerate that? Never.

I read many of them saying what will happen he had his car credit cards ...

Delhi is famous for such incidents that labelled the capital city as the most dangerous to step out at nights for both women and men.

Then how could Bijoy who boasts he loves his daughter so much do so?

I did not find any sense in Bijoy's action. I wish Asha should have interfered. Any mother would do.

Finally I also like you could not understand what is Sona's problem. She wants Dev to agree to her stance ? May be yes.

Asusual Sonakshi thinks she only can take right decisions. True to her Charecter.

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@404_NotFound

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

LiveLife321 and me were just discussing on how people would react if there was a role reversal and we were not supporting anyone . Some took it in a wrong way .Well what we are saying was not wrong either .We have seen how some critics have used strong words like psychiatrist, mental asylum , doormat and spineless for Dev .I haven't seen them use such strong words for Sonakshi even if she is at fault.As someone said i agree both Dev and Sona made a mistake by sleeping separately in front of their family but just because Bose family is understanding doesn't give Sonakshi the liberty to throw her husband out and her mistake cannot be justified .

I am not comparing Ishwari's reaction from previous fight but lets assume for some reason Ishwari wanted Devakshi to resolve their issue just like Bijoy, if she threw them out of the house .Would some people still accept the scene the way they did now. I have criticized Ishwari for her over possessiveness but her worry for her son was not abnormal .My mom would be worried for me if she knew i was thrown out of the house at midnight .If we are ready to forget logic then we need to do the same for all characters including Ishwari .

Sometimes to bring in some light hearted moments CVs conveniently forget logic .If you want to enjoy the nok jhok then you have to accept the show is fiction and they have some creative liberty .Again its individual choice and if some people want to view that scene as normal scenes then its not wrong either .

During previous fight between Dev & sonakshi, I said such things happen in life and its very common .In husband and wife relationship its should not matter who apologizes or take the first step to resolve the issue by keeping their ego aside .I have the same opinion for today's episode as well but i have to admit that i felt they went overboard with the scenes .I felt bad for Dev period .That's the reason i did not use logic to analyze the scene .If i had then i would have some questions like how can any women walk at 2 in the night ignoring her own safety and even after repeated request from her husband she kept ignoring him .Which sensible FIL will throw his daughter and SIL at mid night ?

Next thing i wanna talk about Is Dev at fault? .For the first time i did not find anything wrong in what he did when it came to Neha's case .If the issue was related to Dev then i would completely support Sonakshi but the issue is related to Neha and she is not happy with Sonakshi's interference and she is feeling like an outsider in her own home now because she feels her Bhabhi just wants to get rid off her .I wont question Sonakshi's intention as i know its noble but her interference is making someone suffocated .In my opinion she should step back as the issue is not simple as she assumes to be

Sona said some contradicting statement today .Dev doesn't involve in his family problems and keeps her away from it : Girl , you are also doing the same by not informing Dev about Bose family issues .Has she realized that ?

Dev yelled at her : She went to talk to Ranveer twice without letting Neha know.Both the times it backfired and Dev supported her .Even after repeated pleadings she continues to do the same and like i predicted Dev lost his patience and snapped back .

P.S. I have nothing against Sonakshi's character but just like other characters she does have some grey shade and i dont think its wrong to highlight her shortcomings in a decent way .It hurts when i have to prove my loyalty towards this show every time i say something against her .

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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Kamal kulshreshta

@srilotus

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Delhi is famous for such incidents that labelled the capital city as the most dangerous to step out at nights for both women and men.

agree with u

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Jyoti Thakur

@JyotiBThakur

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

When i read your Title and knew what must be the content in your post:

And then i started reading your post and as expected... It was all the same:

And this is for your PHD in the subject "Dr. Sonakshi Bose Dixit":

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
Hey dear ...I know even I didn't want to hijack Sam's thread either ...glad you opened a separate topic...will respond to u on this once I login through laptop..and will edit the post

Thank you . Waiting to read yours. It is always a pleasure to read your views.

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: srilotus
Delhi is famous for such incidents that labelled the capital city as the most dangerous to step out at nights for both women and men.
agree with u

Thanks.Proven fact it is.Surveys also indicated that only.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Pasting my response here

Ishwari sent Sona off to her maika because Sona won't back off on the Neha front and it's getting tiresome for Ishwari and Dev. While Neha needs to open up, in this instance Sona's intentions are right, her approach is getting a bit in your face... The subtle self-respecting manner of helping dada isn't as much used here

Having said that, I don't know how long Ishwari will bury her head in the sand and keep sending sona to her maika or ask her to sleep with her SILs etc. to keep the her own ecosystem intact? You know who can change this... Dev and only Dev... It doesn't matter what Bijoy or Neha say to Ishwari... Only when Dev will speak to Ishwari (that even when he hasn't signed in after work, his love for Ishwari doesn't diminish) will she respond. He was going to go and bring his wife back (and bring balance back in the HIS ecosystem) the same night. Ishwari didn't let him go... (I get her reasons...). He made it loud and clear he won't return back the next day till he brings Sona back. Ishwari knew that. The whole household knew that. Ishwari knows what Dev is capable of doing in Sona-diwangi... She still chooses to disrupt the Bose-ecosystem at 2 AM. We need to remind ourselves this mother-son duo like waiting on each other (Dev did the same after the temple incident. However, in that instance Ishwari had walked off without saying a word to Dev). She keeps forgetting that her son doesn't only like Sona, he loves her... he craves for her

Why did Sona throw Dev out of her room...? Wasn't it the same as Dev walking out on her and working in the courtyard and then sleeping on the sofa in full view of the joint family...? In my honest opinion... NO... why? A, Everyone at Bose's knew there was an argument on between Dev-Sona... In case of Dixits, when Dev slept on the sofa no one knew and no one was trying to dissipate the tension either. B, Dev was getting due respect from other family members and knew he won't get verbal abuse. Sona, on the other hand, gets confusion causing treatment from Ishwari and verbal abuse from Mamiji. Should Sona have thrown Dev out of her bedroom that night - I don't know. I think the situation was well under control. No one's temper was flailing and she knew her family were giving Dev enough love and respect for her to show a bit of attitute. It was all amicable as against to him sat in the courtyard and not even speaking to her properly when she came down to check on him. However, some viewers may not agree, and I respect that

Bijoy throwing the pair of them out vs Ishwari throwing them out - That to me is like comparing apples to ceiling fans... again, Bijoy was very clear - He reprimanded his daughter for not responding to Dev's advances. Ishwari on the other hand had a jibe at Sona that Duserra morning, saying Sona doesn't even know when Dev came home...

All these incidents need to be looked at within context to see how much of this is fair and how much isn't. Sona needs to back off on the Neha issue. Its been stretched like a chewing gum now and if her husband's family want to dig their own happiness' grave she sometimes needs to pick her battles. If that makes Dev unhappy in the long run that would have to be dealt with later.

We still have a problem - Ishwari wants to see a happy Dev... For A Happy Dev we need Sona around Dev... But Sona may sometimes bring up uncomfortable topics... How will Dev deal with that? Unless that puzzle is resolved, this JIGJAW is incomplete... We have a problem Houston

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ifuser

@ifuser

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree with the post! just cause sona is independent that doesn't mean she's right in everything. No one want to comment her attitude behavior any point of time even she's been forcebly involving in the Dixie family matters specially she should understand she's still a newbie in the family to understand every one first.
Why is like that whatever sona thinks n talk is right always ... but yes I agreee she's good with lecturing people when ever occasion arise but when it comes to her she does think n behave differently. And I see most of the viewers want to think she's right always cause she's a girl n they name as "women empowerment " .
I'm sorry I'm a women too but I'm NOT biased. When sona is going wrong I can clearly see it. There were so many situations where she went wrong. Btw Sona is a human being after all she too have many shades of Colors including grey but no one want to notice that side of the color in her...

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ifuser
I agree with the post! just cause sona is independent that doesn't mean she's right in everything. No one want to comment her attitude behavior any point of time even she's been forcebly involving in the Dixie family matters specially she should understand she's still a newbie in the family to understand every one first.
Why is like that whatever sona thinks n talk is right always ... but yes I agreee she's good with lecturing people when ever occasion arise but when it comes to her she does think n behave differently. And I see most of the viewers want to think she's right always cause she's a girl n they name as "women empowerment " .
I'm sorry I'm a women too but I'm NOT biased. When sona is going wrong I can clearly see it. There were so many situations where she went wrong. Btw Sona is a human being after all she too have many shades of Colors including grey but no one want to notice that side of the color in her...

Nice to meet you. I never thought except me and yyy someone else also is there who could feel like this.Thank you.

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varsha

@varshu_018

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#10

these situations are not created for any logic these are just for the fans to relive those moments of their cute fight sequences so no one is ready to criticise

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