Originally posted by: Aazeen02
Stuti, as much as I want Sonakshi to be waiting for Dev every night like a loving wife, I think it is unfair to ask a mother who has been practicing this routine for the past 20 years or more to give all the responsibilities in Sonakshi's hands just in a matter of few days and go to sleep.
Though I know even such mothers in law who are so glad to have a daughter in law finally to lessen her with the responsibility of looking after her son.
It's just the case of a different kind of equation between mil and dil...
As much as we want Ishwari to look into Sona's perspective and give devakshi their space, it is also a little fair for Sonakshi to understand Ishwari's pov and give her time to give sonakshi her space with Dev.
Sorry to butt in but I just wanted to say this , You are absolutely right even sona should think about ishwari. It's not easy for a mother to not worry about her son for whom she had Done everything. But here sona is not jealous of ishwari and she in fact adores the bond dev and ishwari share . She is ready to share the dinner time with ishwari as well. She's not demanding alone time with ishwari in the living area or the dinning place . But ishwari wants alone time with Dev , she's not ready to include sona in her time with her son and that's the root cause of her problems.
She doesn't want to accept sona in her family . She sees sona as her competition and she wants to compete with her and show her that she has an upper hand in dev's life . This is a serious issue and this takes your mental peace . Sona will have to face a lot once she sees this side of ishwari. I personally know how it feels , cos my MIL treats me this very way . She competes with me in the smallest of things but then I don't live with her and we go for a month vacation every year . So I just ignore her and won't give her the reply she wants me to . Now that she realised that I'm in no mood to compete with her and I have a very different place in her son's life she is changing too but slowly.
So from my experience what I think is sona needs to make ishwari realise that dev loves both of them equally and both hold a very different place in his life . Ishwari should realise that she is dev's mother and sona is his wife . Both are different and there is no point in competing with her daughter in law . Love , let love ...
Ishaani
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