However on my personal experience I want to tell you this is so real it is uncanny.
My husband is the most wonderful guy on earth.
But men have to go through such a hard time between family and wife that it is a nightmare for them.
When I got married my in laws said to my husband and I that they need to spend time with me so they took me to their house which was 3 hours away where my husband was in training.
Right after my wedding without having spent 1 day with my husband I stayed with my in laws for 4 weeks
Just meeting their extended family.
Both of us had no guts to say anything to them. My husband felt hesitant to say anything to his parents. I spent 4 miserable weeks crying in the bathroom many days.
Finally my husband said to me are you not missing me? You don't want to come to me and I got angry at him yelling at him for not having the guts to bring me home.
The next day my husband called his mother asking to send me home and she laughed at him saying that he is having husbandly feelings. My husband was so lonely at the training by himself that he was just thinking that now that he is married he will have dinner alone but no one understood that.
Finally I was able to leave because my husband made a plan for honeymoon and flew back with me to his place.
I also remember how much fights we had in our first year of marriage because of constant in laws issues.
Now so many years after marriage I have learnt how hard it is for husbands. My husband loves me and his whole life revolves over me but he cannot shake off the things that his parents have done for him
He has admitted many times that his parents are annoying but he gives all the respect which I support him in
But I made a decision that they will forever do silly things and say things to me so now I don't even bring it to him.
I decided some time back that he is stuck in a rock and hard place and he does everything for me , just expects me to be patient with his family.