I was so angry after watching yesterday's episode .So much so that i even tweeted to stop showing this drama.
But later i thought y i started watching this serial. Bcoz of its uniqueness but also its so real. Wat if nothig as such never happened to me but most of the girls face all this after marriage.
This is wat that happened with my sister and i connected to yesterday's episode & post marriage track instantly.
This is wat most of the mil's think and do with their dil's: ( main apni sister ke experience se bata rahi hun)
1) Dil's are treated like a doormat. Unhe dustbin of the house mana jata hai.
2) No privacy is given to newly wed couple.Mil's don't want their son to get even intimate.
3)Take so many years to accept dil as a member of the family.
4)yaa toh yeh rahegi iss ghar mein yaa main...son is left with no choice
5)SIL's make their life even more dificult.
6)Dil ko toy ki tarah samjha jata hai ,bete ko abhi dilwa do..jab mann bhar jayega toh khud phenk dega.
And this is the reality. Hat off to cv's who dare to show this on Indian television.
But i really don't want to see only Sona stronger here..becoz i know she is ...In reality everything depends on the husband how he balances both the ladies.So if cv's want to show the reality then they will have to show Dev as a level headed, stronger man ,jo na apni maa ki naa biwi ki sune ,.Advice or suggestions zaroor le but apne dimaag se kaam le.
One simple thing jo ki mostly mil's bhool jaati hain, ki at one point of time jab woh aur age old ho jayegi, jab woh kuch karne laayak nahi hongi tab beta toh office chala jaayega bas dil hi rah jayegi ,tab wo hi uska sahara banegi.
Dils bhi bhool jaati hain ki kal ko unhe bhi saas ban na hai.
Both shud respect and understand each other.