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Posted: 8 years ago
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I liked yest. epi n felt the fight between Dev n Sona was very real. Really felt Dev's impulsive behavior n over-reaction hurt both the ladies in his life again. He has not learnt anything from past experiences.

1) The moment Sona utters the truth abt fasting n abstinence, Dev rushes to confront Ish without even hearing what Sona was saying. N then without even trying to listen to Ish's side of the story, he starts to accuse her of forcing traditions on Sona. Ish again gets a golden opportunity to make Dev feel guilty. N this guilt ridden Dev hurries to shout at Sona without understanding her POV. Dev has to learn a lot about patiently listening n understanding other's POV before jumping into conclusions. He still doesnt understand the importance of balancing the two sides. At the end both Sona n Ish are hurt bcoz of Dev's stupidity. Instead of making situations better, Dev is increasing their insecurities.

2) Instead of acknowledging Sona's efforts to get close to his family members, he is accusing her of needlessly trying too hard to win best bahu paegent. He lives in his bubble that everyone in his family likes Sona n have happily accepted her as part of the family and Sona shud not make any efforts. He confortably forgets all taunts Sona had to hear from Gkb n Dadi bua in his presence.

3) Dev is accusing Sona of taking decisions alone, but he did the same when Ish asked him to drop dadi bua. Even he didnt ask Sona before cancelling on their planned SR. He comfortablly forgets his own mistakes.

4)Even though they made a pact of resolving issues before leaving for ofc, Dev again left Sona teary eyed in the middle of arguement.

5) And now most probably he will tell everyone that he offered Vicky intern position as per Sona's suggestion. Ish wud be angry that even after she herself ordered Dev to help Vicky, he still had to ask for Sona's advise and to make situation worse, role is of intern and not manager, so Sona wud be blamed for this.

All three characters have so much to learn about each other n how to manage the delicate relationships.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, when Dev didn't listen to Sona and went directly to Ish and argued. It was totally wrong. I agree. But he was worried for Sona. He thought she is been forced to follow the things she don't believe in. She never did fasting before and he's aware of all that.

And about DevAkshi's fight, for me both of them were correct with their respective POVs... Dev is angry as he thinks Sona is losing her identity by getting into pleasing the family and doing something she don't believe in. He was thinking why is she trying to be someone else. And Sona on the other hand just want to get along with the whole family. Want to learn their customs. So that they'll wholeheartedly accept her as the daughter-in-law of the house. She's making her efforts, which is good.

Dev is not aware that his mother has not accepted Sona yet. As she always pretends infront of him and he believe her way too much. Yesterday when Dev confronted Ishwari and she was talking about trust, the thing that came in my mind is, what will happen when Dev will come to know about the prenup. What will she say then?

And for resolving the argument. They fought just when he was leaving for the work. So there's no point in thinking he would have immediately come to talk about it considering their frame of minds at that point of time.

But definitely they'll resolve the issue today itself. Both of them know each other very well. They cannot stay angry for a long time.

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