A Ranting - Right or Wrong ??

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lucky.m

@lucky.m

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hello all😛

Just a ranting .. Btw I thought I went nuts watching two extremes ;one in serial and other one in precap😆

So ...Now the question comes who is right and who is wrong Swara or Sanskaar .I say both and may be none.

Swara had her share of mistakes, Sanskaar had his share,. Sanskaar may not be right on his part to break ties but what led him to take an extreme step or at least to say those words ? Didn't Swara lead him to that stage ? Sanskaar absolutely made clear his intentions . Just for once couldn't she stand by his side? For once you expect your wife to stand by you but she doesn't .. husband is not supposed to react .. Perfect I say !

Sanskaar might have acted ziddhi Swara is no less .And she was always clear on her priorities, her family ,sister ,then Sanskaar; for Sanskaar it had always been Swara above anyone else. That's where the clash comes in.

It's natural for people to react in a different ways and feel they are right in that situation, to act in that way , feel that's the best thing to do .Swara felt it's right to save the family Sanskaar felt it's right to break ties with family .Priorities I say , may be choices because your present choices determine your future . So now Swasan themselves will be responsible for their separation and I think It's fine . Drama is needed to let the show go on .

So when the final question comes in about right and wrong, I question who is perfect without flaws and to err is human . I may be hurt ,angry, disappointed ,hated few actions of my OTP to core but at the end I love them, .. and Note - with their flaws.

Peace. Waiting for epi to air to get a clarity ..

Lucky

PS ; If you have any thing to say strictly pertaining to this context , you are free to express. Demeaning other characters and digging in past actions in support of Swara / Sanskaar bringing in ragini/ laksh ..request you to refrain if any such intentions.

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Lonelythots

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Posted: 8 years ago

I completely agree with you...every character has flaws... so one character should not be questioned... Swara and sanskar are responsible for the situation they are landing themselves in..

If some one is ok with sanskar breaking off ties cuz he was hurt by his wife , then they should also be ok wit Swara breaking off ties with her husband cuz she believes that sanskar has wronged ragini by harming her husband and she wants to punish herself n her husband for that... I do not endorse either of their actions... my pov... but y flagellate n question only one character... question both their actions equally..

N what kind of anger is it that sanskar picked up a stone to throw it on his brother.. does he not see anything in front of his rage??? Laksh had the decency to save sanskar even when angry... am sorry but sanskar needs some anger management sessions

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kamila.

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Posted: 8 years ago

No words lucky.. I'm totally pissed of this time.. I don't know I have to laugh or cry..

As for now I can't understand hindi.. what Swara said in lrecap I don't know honestly speaking.. if Sanskaar hit laksh on his head with that stone.. which cause him to forget Ragini or paralyzed I don't know.. then he is at fault..

What I know is for Swara everything is her sister.. wow.. if I were Sanskaar.. my first thing is to divorce that girl who can't love me, who can't stand by my side.. and marry a girl who only loves me, only me.. thank God I'm not Sanskaar the very unlucky soul in the world..

P.S:- I'm a girl.. and this my opinion..

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mans1234

@mans1234

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Posted: 8 years ago

Lovely post ..

First I feel it was swara's decision to sacrifice which I dint like .. laksh was at fault n swasan has to suffer ..

Sanskaar made it very clear before only that he doesn't want her to correct things so when he got to know I was expecting a extreme reaction which is justified ..

Now swara chosing ragini over sanskar for no fault of his is not acceptable .. she lied to him n now even blamed him .. this ain't cool ..

For me swara is wrong here n needs to get over this ragini nfamily dose .. she needs to realise her mistake n feel really Sry ..

I m looking forward for this track n want to c a angry sanskaar .. I hope they don't show him guilty .. he is not in fault ..

Of course this is based on today's episode n precap .. need to watch upcoming episode ..

But yeah I m not liking the way CVS are shaping swara .. sanskaar is way to down in her priority list .. I just hope they execute well now .. reason for separation is super lame ..

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Lonelythots

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Vaiyambar...
No words lucky.. I'm totally pissed of this time.. I don't know I have to laugh or cry..
As for now I can't understand hindi.. what Swara said in lrecap I don't know honestly speaking.. if Sanskaar hit laksh on his head with that stone.. which cause him to forget Ragini or paralyzed I don't know..

What I know is for Swara everything is her sister.. wow.. if I were Sanskaar.. my first thing is to divorce that girl who can't love me, who can't stand by my side.. and marry a girl who only loves me, only me.. thank God I'm not Sanskaar the very unlucky soul in the world..

P.S:- I'm a girl..

So is it ok if your husband has anger management issues... y would sanskar like a coward pick up a rock and hit your brother ... such rage ... my my... I would leave such a man who is capable of harming in rage..

Y is no one actually speaking about it?? He picked up a rock to kill his brother ??

It is an attempt to murder!!!

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Nalini Ansh

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Posted: 8 years ago

True.

But it was really 🤣.. Cvs are seriously running out of ideas... Strike that... Ran out of ideas... After kavitha.. 🤣 the last natural act I saw was that and long after was sanskar's reaction to swara's death.. Which obviously failed to meet our expectations later on.. Now it's becoming like ssk minus the super natural things.. Thankfully no devils

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Nalini Ansh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

So is it ok if your husband has anger management issues... y would sanskar like a coward pick up a rock and hit your brother ... such rage ... my my... I would leave such a man who is capable of harming in rage..

Y is no one actually speaking about it?? He picked up a rock to kill his brother ??

It is an attempt to murder!!!

Firstly he isn't a coward. Secondly we don't know if he had actually hit him. Thirdly sanskar doesn't have anger management problems. Fourthly there is nothing to speak about it now or later.. Sanskaar was pissed as lakshya talked more nonsense than that is acceptable and tolerable and its not just the first time he did that.. It wasn't right to kill someone yes but that is sheer assumption yet..

And most importantly swara was not leaving her husband she said she will be away from him till he realises his mistakes.. They are as lucky said people with faults and mostly those who without any second thought embrace what is served to them when they know that they are responsible for something . They both as husband and wife have rights on each other. So if either of them needs to be put back on to the right path the other would try with full right. And in complete belief that the other will understand his or her doings when they get to see it their way.. They are soul mates.. They aren't just bound by marriage.. They will be together soon.. And I'm sure they are still together in their hearts and will be too forever..

Swasan are not perfect.. They have their imperfections and they know how to handle them.. Even if it that means they have to be away from each other..

And if you ask me if swara is wrong she ain't. And so isn't sanskaar... Ragini wasn't wrong too mostly.. She realised rather quickly where she is at fault... But lakshya needs to really learn some basics about keeping up his trust for more than five seconds.

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lucky.m

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Bennet.Lizzy

Firstly he isn't a coward. Secondly we don't know if he had actually hit him. Thirdly sanskar doesn't have anger management problems. Fourthly there is nothing to speak about it now or later.. Sanskaar was pissed as lakshya talked more nonsense than that is acceptable and tolerable and its not just the first time he did that.. It wasn't right to kill someone yes but that is sheer assumption yet..

And most importantly swara was not leaving her husband she said she will be away from him till he realises his mistakes.. They are as lucky said people with faults and mostly those who without any second thought embrace what is served to them when they know that they are responsible for something . They both as husband and wife have rights on each other. So if either of them needs to be put back on to the right path the other would try with full right. And in complete belief that the other will understand his or her doings when they get to see it their way.. They are soul mates.. They aren't just bound by marriage.. They will be together soon.. And I'm sure they are still together in their hearts and will be too forever..

Swasan are not perfect.. They have their imperfections and they know how to handle them.. Even if it that means they have to be away from each other..

And if you ask me if swara is wrong she ain't. And so isn't sanskaar... Ragini wasn't wrong too mostly.. She realised rather quickly where she is at fault... But lakshya needs to really learn some basics about keeping up his trust for more than five seconds.

That was bang on Nalini ..Good to see u back ..Any hope of reflections?

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Nalini Ansh

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nope lucky.. I have a 12hr duty everyday in emergency room... I should make time for it sometime later.. Hopefully then there might be...But no not anytime soon. Meanwhile I'm trying to catch up with the episodes but it was really so weakly put up again.. Yet my fingers are crossed for swasan. even with all the history of constantly crushed hopes I'm waiting for something good. That day I'll feel I'm home again..

Damn home sick😭

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Nupur

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Both Swara & Sanskaar are at faults! Both are wrong & both will be responsible for their upcoming separation!

Bt here Swara is more at faults than Sanskaar!

Sanskaar reacted Bt after dealing & suffering alot and he chose his, his wife's & his family's self respect!

Swara didn't bother about self respect - neither her or Sanskaar's - and chose her family which is good for nothing & didn't anything except insulting & hurting them time & again!

So even Sanskaar have some faults, he had reason behind his drastic actions!

While Swara is also right but she could have support her husband atleast once!

I'm not saying she should agree for Sanskaar's every demand even though the truth is Sanskaar hardly demands or asks anything from Swara & supports her, never forbid her to do anything except rarely!

Sanskaar's demand to cut tie with the family is right or wrong, that's another story! Some thinks he was wrong & some including me thinks he was right given the situation & sufferings!

Bt as I said that's a different story & people have different opinion regarding that!

Which disheartened me is even after Sanskaar's some heavyweight words, Swara still didn't think about him much!

Sanskaar said some things, like:

* I always supported you in everything, this time I'm asking your support!

* If you still keep connection with that family, MAIN APNI JAAN DE DUNGA & ISSE EK PATI KI DHAMKI MAT SAMAJHNA!

* If you ever loved me, you will listen to me & support me!

Sanskaar's demand is right or wrong or Swara should accept that or not comes later! Bt the thing is she didn't even try to talk with him again! Maybe Sanskaar wouldn't have listen & budge Bt she could have atleast try to pacify him! He had to hear so many things about himself, his MOM, his blood! I'm not saying that Swara didn't hear or bear anything! She did but still she didn't think about her or Sanskaar's self respect which Sanskaar chose!

And even now I agree that Sanskaar should not have throw stone at Laksh Bt here Laksh was at faults! It was Laksh who went to meet Sanskaar, taunted him, didn't believe him, demanded property papers which Sanskaar don't have & Sanskaar tried to make him understand with logic Bt all no avail.

Yes, Sanskaar was at faults Bt Swara leaving him is Swara's fault & mistake!

I'm again repeating that Sanskaar did wrong as well Bt he is less wrong than Swara & Swara was right little bit but not now!