Like Father Like Son

Parag was in love with Urvashi but he married Kokila. Ahem was in love with Anita but married Gopi. Parag didn't take any responsibility after his marriage with Kokila. Ahem treated Gopi like a crap in the initial stage of his marriage. He was resilient towards Gopi. Parag's mom was Baa. I wonder did she force Parag to marry Kokila? Or was Baa's husband alive & forced Parag to leave Urvashi & marry Kokila? The difference between the two is Ahem did whatever Kokila asked him to do only to stop him from following Parag's footsteps & being irresponsible but he made the blunder in his personal life like his dad.