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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: sona_naksh
wenever i see sona wid her baba i feel i m seeing my papa n me onscreen ..love dem togeder ..d respect n love bose family shares for each is appreciable n dat makes d family more special

True... Baaba like Bijoy is needed for every girl... 🤗

If the girl's father isn't like Baaba then these girls will be suppressed and deprived of what they have been equipped with, in their parents' house... When they have been prepared for all changes coming their way, the boy and the mother complaint about the changes that they have to go through because of this girl... What an irony!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm
A very adorable, heart warming post - something different to read.
I can completely relate to Bijoy Bose, his issues, I find him so sensible, he can see what Asha cannot. Like they say sometimes women are too emotional to see sense, men are too practical which women dont like that much. I like how Bijoy is so practical - such characters are important to bring balance.

Boses are a pleasure to watch feels normal seeing them. Sonakshi has a long way to go in understanding where her expectations went wrong and how to go about the whole mess in motion.

Lovely post 👍🏼

Exactly... We women are so silly and sentimental that we jump into making an impression the moment we enter into someone's life... Go out of our way to be accommodating and influencing... 😆 And we want everything to be revolving around ourselves such that if we are not there nothing moves in our house... 😉😆 Only to toil ourselves at the end of the day and we expect everyone to understand our sacrifices, our non-stop running around to satisfy everyone...

I would like to see Sona being her own self and trying to settle down first... She needn't google for the roles n' responsibilities for herself and apply for the job... 😆 She needs time to be an observant and understand the new environment... But the environment expects her to be a top performer on day one of her new job role... All in the name of rituals... Why can't she just walk around the house getting a feel of belonging so that she can feel at home!!! Any ritual for that?! I think all these rituals are made for that but now blindly following it putting pressure on the girl!

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Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Is the bold true ?? That is a very sad state of affairs for any society. That is also a reason why divorces happen apart from many other factors.

I am not married - those 2 paras are pretty scary to even imagine.

True.. Especially the mothers of sons with no daughters... And mostly they living with their in-laws, had to sacrifice their engineering careers to baby sit and homemaking... All for the sons and in-laws... And they expect the return gifts by having their sons' dedication back for their sacrifices...

I understand that they had a tough decision to make when leaving their careers due to lack of support system... And their husbands not being supportive enough to let them continue their jobs thus losing their own identity in the family... One such mother who is a very smart IT person quit the job to focus on her sons' studies.. She had a big blow when the son didn't respect her enough to be knowledgeable and appraising only the father, as he's the smart one in the house... It's all how the father has projected himself and the mother to the kids... And that bitterness carry forward for her... Now she's more inclined connecting with the son emotionally making the dependency in a different way.. Another mother says that her son is so hardworking in studies and will shine very well in future... And she openly states that the girls will take advantage of him by trapping him in their nets to make their future bright... And the girls are only trying an easy way out not putting hardwork for their careers...

While the mothers of the daughters are more focused on getting their girls independent and not be emotional about the boys... 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Deeps.. 🤗
And how much Sona was rushing and pushing herself to become all that 😆 What can I do to secure her if she herself is adamant on doing all that.. Uff.. If she thinks that it works for her then so be it..🤗 But yeah I will never stop worrying till I see it in my eyes that all her efforts are finally worth it..

I find myself sounding like my father.. I miss my father too much now and I can find his presence around me all the time.. He'd always been worried for us, his 4 daughters, no matter how much we convinced him that we are doing great and happy in our new found life... He must have had his own target metrics for our life factors, I think.. He knew life has given us the best of the things (major credit to him) and he had a contended life seeing us happy... 🤗 RIP his soul.. I miss him too much..

@bold: What's that? I searched in Google.. Dawat is feast!! Is Sona gonna make a food feast for a crowd?!! 😲 God save me from seeing that..

Dev is supposed to help her out in the kitchen department right?! Anyway when Ishu is there noone can enter her kitchen 😆.. So 'Sona' can rest in peace.. 😉

🤗 Dn't worry partner..If there is an indication that your damad will be supporting your little girl like yesterday she can break all stereotypes for being a good DIL and show the world whats "Sonakshi Bose Dixit" is all about😉

Am sure his soul is in peace content and proud with all his little angels shining away to glory .. he is still living in all your conscience my dear 🤗

😆😆 Not just your Sona, its the case for most of the newly weds "oh the terror I felt to light the gas to cook on my first day still send me shivers with hawk eyes watching and commenting all around me" 😆

Dev ?? help ??😲 You remember the condition of that carrot 🤣 ya Sona better leave Dev's tummy to mummy and take care of his rest 😉😆

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

What an awesome idea buddy
Love this idea of Devakshi honeymooning in Kolkata ... With evening boat rides on the ganges ... Romamcing in the sprawling gardens dotting the city ... Nod feeding each other phuchkaa( golgappe)

Don't we all wish dear! 😆😆

Aww your mere imagination is giving me goosebumps😉 ... Phuchkaa ke saath aap ek pucchki lelo meri taraf se 😳😆