Dev Weds Sonakshi: ~A tale of Two States~ *You are all invited*

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Aazeen02

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Welcome to Devakshi ki Shaadi

INVITATION:

FORMAL VIDEO INVITATION BY THE GROOM'S MOTHER

Welcome my dear forum wasis...

The BIGGEST week in the life of our Dear Devakshi is here.

Hurdles crossed, tests of love given, approval from families recieved:

Here I, on behalf of the entire Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi Fandom, Invite you all to the Official Wedding Thread of

DevAkshi Ki Shaadi

Mark the date: 30th of September 2016

Secure the time: 9.30 PM

Venue to reach: Sony Entertainment Television.

Please grace the much in love couple with loads of love and blessings, since they are starting their new Journey from here on...❤️

More works coming in the posts under.

PS:If you guys have any suggestions, siggies, caps, creative works, Notes on rituals,anything for #DevakshiKiShaadi, feel free to post in here.

I will include them as much as possible.

Thank you..

Love

Aazeen...

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~~INTRODUCTION OF

THE GROOM AND THE BRIDE~~

First, let's Welcome the Bride Groom of the week.😃

People know him fondly as MR. OBHODRO.😆😆

Mr. Rude?😆😆 Mr. Blue and Grey Dixit...😆😆

And Bhaiyya to the entire Ishwari Mansion, except for three odd people...

Please put your hands together for our Dapper in town:

☺️DEVRATH DIXIT☺️

Choti-choti behno ke bade bhaiyya,

Aaj banenge kisi ke saiyyan.

Dhol nagaade, baje shehnaaiyaan,

Jhoom ke aayi mangal ghadiyaan.

NOW, Please welcome, our ever so gorgeous Bride for the week. Better known as Miss. Khargosh...😆😆 Dr. Bose.😃😃 Miss. Bose...😃😃

Okay-okay! Alright, It is Sonakshi for us as well...😆 Please welcome our beautiful bride,

SONAKSHI BOSE

Na kajre ki dhaar,

Na motiyon ke haar.

Na koi kiya singaar,

Phir bhi kitni sundar ho.

Mann mein pyaar bhara,

Aur tann mein pyaar bhara.

Jeewan mein pyaar bharaa,

Tum toh mere priye var ho.

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Aazeen02

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After meeting our Dulha and Dulhan, let me take you all to the introduction of the families of both the sides. Since I have put songs to introduce the Bride and the Groom; now I will use couplets with their translations to introduce the members of both the families.😃😆

Let's begin with the Baraatis, ie. the Ladke wale, in short, Dev's family.😆

Seedhi se ye banti hain, par darti inke actions se duniya,

(She seems innocent, but all are scared of her actions)

Sab cautioned ho jaate hain jab aati, Dulhe ki Maa .😆😆

(All stay in caution, when the Groom's mother arrives)😆

Please put your hands together, for Mrs. Ishwari Dixit.😃

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Naagin jaisi biwi ke saath rehke kar dikhaaya inhone kaarnaama,

[Living with a snake like wife; he has set a record for himself]

Face par aa jaati hai smile, Jab aata hai Dulhe ka Maama.😆

[It brings a smile on the face when the Groom's Uncle, ie. Maama comes]

Please put your hands together for Maamaji...😃

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Taane maarne mein inko mil sakta hai Grammy,

[She could recieve a Grammy for her tauntings]

Sabka mooh ban jaata hai, jab aati hai Dulhe ki Maami...😆

[All make faces when the Groom's Aunt ie. Maami comes]

Please put your hands together for Gareeb Ki Beti aka Radha Rani aka Maami ji...😆😆

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Inko sab pyaar se bulaaate hain Taanasen,

[People fondly call her Taanasen]

Straight face ke saath aati hai jab Dulhe ki No.1 Behen.

[When she comes with a straight face, Sister no. 1]

Please put your hands together for Mrs. Neha Chaudhry.

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Kheer mein jaise zaruri hoti hai Kishmish,

[Just like raisins are important in a Kheer]

Zaruri hai waise hi, Dulhe ki Behen no. 2, Chashmish!

[So is important our Groom's bespectacled Sister No.2, our Chashmish]

Please put your hands together for Miss. Riya Dixit.

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Chulbuli si chidiya hai, Chehek uski nyaari,

[She's a chirpy and lively bird]

Dulhe ki Sabse choti behen hai jo sabki pyaari.

[She's the Groom's Youngest Sister]

Please put your hands together for Miss. Nikki Dixit.

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Koste hain hum apni kismat jab apna sikka hi ho khota,

[We blame our fate when our own coin is fake]

Nikamma, Nithalla, hai Dulhe bhai jo chota.😆

[Worthless and Useless is the Groom's Younger brother.😆]

Please put your hands together for Maami ka laadla, Vicky.

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Without cheese topping ke jaisa hai ye Pizza,

[It's a pizza without a cheese topping]

Simple se lifestyle wala hai Dulhe ka Jeeja.

[So is the simple lifestyle of the brother-in-law of the groom.]

Please put your hands together for Mr. Ranveer Chaudhary.

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Now, since we are done with the Groom's family, let's meet the Gharaatis, ie. the Ladki wale, ie. Sonakshi's Family.😆

Assi baras ki umar hai phir bhi, lagti hai wo Shehzaadi,

[She's eighty years old, yet looks like a princess]

Aaj bhi proposals aate hain, jab aati hai Dulhan ki Daadi.😆

[At date proposals come when arrives the Bride's Grandmother]😆

Put your hands together for Sona's Daadi.

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Beti ki khushi hi inka Mandir aur inka yahi Kaaba,

[His Temple and Shrine is just his daughter's happiness]

Ideal Father ke goals dete hain Dulhan ke Baba.😃

[Bride's father gives the goals for an Ideal father.]

Please put your hands together for Mr. Bijoy Bose.😃

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Lively rakhti hain jo Bose House ka samaa,

[She keeps the environment of the Bose House Lively]

Problems saari solve ho jaati jab aati Dulhan ki maa.😃

[All problems are solved when arrives the Bride's Mother]

Please put your hands together for Mrs. Asha Bose.

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Dhol nagaade baje, bajti hai Shehnaai,

[Musical instruments ring]

Khaana feels insecure, jab aata Dulhan ka bhai.😆

[And food feels insecure, when Bride's brother arrives]😆

Please put your hands together for Dada aka Sourav Bose.

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Saj uthta hai makeup, jaise sajta hai gehna,

[Make up gets adorned, just like ornaments arorn]

Vicky ke hosh udd jaate hain jab aati hai Dulhan ki behna.😉

[Vicky loses his senses when come Bride's sister]😆

Please put your hands together for Elena.

And that is all about both the families.

I hope, you liked it.😃

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CULTURES:

The tale of our dear Dev and Sonakshi is a classic example of The Two states. Since we all know, Sonakshi Bose is a Bengali and Dev Dixit is a Brahmin Hindu from Uttar Pradesh.😃

Such is the cultural collaboration, that where does the Bengali love starts and begins mixing with the U.P. love; no one knows. Because there simply is no other place of love but the lovers' hearts.😃❤️

So, the families with mutual consent have come up with a mixed tradition wedding. Following Pre-wedding functions like of the North Indian traditions and the main wedding like of the Bengali traditions.

Let's have a look at the Wedding functions that may take place at both the ends:😃

Let's first see, what happens at the Uttar Pradesh wali North Indian Wedding.😃

A few days before the wedding day, parents of the bride bring a Thal of Shagun to their home. The bride is given Chunari of red colour and bangles. She wears the same on the wedding day.

Haldi or Turmeric is applied to both the bride and groom to enhance their complexion and beauty.

This is followed by the Sangeet where women sing wedding songs and dance on their tunes.

One or two days before the marriage, the henna is applied on hands and feet of the bride.

Wedding Rituals

On the wedding day the groom takes the marriage procession to the house of bride. He rides on the Ghodi (She-Horse) and leads the barat (marriage procession). At marriage venue he is received and welcomed by the relatives of the bride. This ritual is known as Milni.

When the barat reaches the house of the bride, Varmala ceremony is performed on a stage specially made for the purpose and bride and groom exchange the garlands.

In the mandap, rituals of kanyadan, phera etc are performed. After the ritual of Saptapadi, the groom and wife become the husband and wife.

Since the marriages in UP are held in winter season and in night, the feast is an important part ofmarriage. The feast consists mainly of heavy and delicious vegetarian food like Kheer, Gajar Ka Halwa, Shahi Paneer, Golgappey, Laccha Parantha, Jalebi and many more dishes.

Post Wedding Rituals

After the wedding is completed, the barat (on the next morning) returns with the bride. The departure of the bride from her home is known as the ritual of Vidai. It is very emotional moment as the bride after birth spends her many years of life and after marriage she has to leave that home permanently.

When the new husband-wife reaches the home of the husband, they are welcomed. The newly-wed wife is not allowed to place her bare feet in the ground. The couple is taken to home-deity where they perform the worship.

After four days of marriage the newly-wed wife is taken to her parental home and she returns to her matrimonial home after 2-3 days and live there permanently.

Some of these rituals may happen according to this by the Dixits. While the main wedding shall happen with the Bengali Rituals.

Let's have a look around, how is a Bengali Wedding done.

Pre-Wedding Rituals

Ashirbaad - On an auspicious day the elders of the groom's side go to bless the bride and vice versa, by sprinkling husked rice and trefoil on their heads and giving them gold ornaments. It is a kind of acceptance of the boy and the girl on both sides.

Gaye Holud - A ceremony in which five or seven married women of the household grind turmeric with mortar and pestle and anoint the bride with turmeric paste. This brightens up the bride's complexion and makes her skin glow. Gaye Holud is also celebrated on groom's side.

Dodhi Mongol - At dawn on the day of marriage seven married ladies adorn the bride's hands with the traditional bangles Shakha and Paula - one pair of red and one pair of white bangles, and feed her a meal of curd and rice, nowadays other dishes as well, the only meal after which the bride and her parents fast the whole day.

Main wedding rituals

Mala Badal- the ceremony when bride and the groom exchange garlands with each other.

Bor Jatri - The members of the groom's house as well as his friends dress in their best attire and journey to the bride's house where the wedding takes place.

Bor Boron - When the bor jatri reaches the bride's place, usually the mother of the bride along with other members come out to welcome the groom and his family by showing the holy earthen lamp, sprinkling trefoil, and husked rice placed on a bamboo winnow (kula). Then they are served sweets and drinks.

Potto Bastra - After the groom is seated at the chadnatolla (wedding altar and canopy) - the sanctum sanctorum where only the groom, bride and the priest takes their place, the groom is offered new clothes by the person who is to do the sampradaan - the elderly male member of the family who does sampradan offers the responsibility of the girl to the groom

Saat Paak - The bride, usually seated on a low wooden stool called pidi is lifted by her brothers and is taken round the groom in seven complete circles. The significance is they are winded up securely to each other.

Subho Dristi - After saat paak the bride and the groom are made to look at each other in front of all the assembled invitees. The bride is told to remove the paan leaves. This exchange of loving glance is to initiate them to be together officially by the society.

Mala Badal - After the circles are completed, still sitting high on the piri, the bride and the groom exchange garlands of fragrant flowers thrice. This is the first step in which they accept each other.

Sampradan - The bride then takes her place at the chadnatolla where an elderly male member of the bride's family hands her over to the groom and the couple's hands are bound by the sacred thread amidst recital of Vedic chants and are placed on the mangal ghot - a brass pitcher filled with water that is covered with mango leaves attached to one twig and a green coconut placed on it.

Yagna - The bride and groom sit in front of the sacred fire and chant mantras after the priest. Agni, the fire god is made the divine witness to the marriage. See Vedic marriage.

Saptapadi - Seven circular rounds are taken by the couple around the fire thereby solemnizing the occasion.

Anjali - An offering to the fire is made. The bride's brother puts puffed rice (khoi) in the hands of the bride, and the groom standing close to her holds her hands from the back and extends their arms forward. They then pour the offering into the fire together.

Sindoor Daan and Ghomta - Once again seated at their respective places in chadnatolla the groom applies sindoor or vermilion (a symbol of marriage worn by Hindu women thereafter) on the bride's hair-parting. The bride then covers her head with a new sari offered by the groom as ghomta or veil.

Post-Wedding Rituals

A ceremony welcoming the newly wed bride to her new home, with the feet dipped in a mixture of milk and alta.

Bidaay - This is a farewell - mixed moment of joy and sorrow as the bride is bid adieu with blessings of her parents and relatives to start a new life with her beau.

Kaal Ratri - After the couple reaches the groom's house and the initial welcome ceremony is over they are separated for the night, probably to get a refreshing sleep and prepare for the next day's final wedding ceremony.

Bou Bhaat & Bodhu Boron - The girl cooks and serves all the members of her husband's family. A banquet is held to treat the guests who lavish gifts on the new bride.

Phool Shojja - The couple and their bed are adorned with flowers and are left together in their room to enjoy conjugal bliss.

Source Credit:

WeddingDoers.com for the North Indian Wedding Rituals

Wikipedia for the Bengali Hindu Wedding Rituals.

PS: If you guys find any fault, or find the information incorrect, or want additions to it. Feel free to comment and Notify.😃

I do not hold any credit for the above informations.😳

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Sangeet.

Guys, please contribute caps for today's sangeet.

Dada, Elena, Maa-baba, Nikki-Riya, Vicky,

And not to forget our Dulha and Dulhan.

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Here on, posts will be posted as per ceremonies are going to be telecasted in the show.

I don't want to disturb their order.

That is why not making any posts about ceremonies since it's not yet clear that if they will have haldi and Mehendi as well or not.

It is a very genuine request for you all to contribute pictures of the ceremonies when they are telecasted on the show, to be included here in these posts.😃

Thanks and love😃

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Keeping this post for all the off-screen masti pictures, since we are getting loads of them.😃

And here come the OMGGG pictures of the day:

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Posted: 8 years ago

If you guys have any suggestions, siggies, caps, creative works, Notes on rituals,anything for #DevakshiKiShaadi, feel free to post in here.

I will include them as much as possible.

Thank you..

Love

Aazeen...

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Posted: 8 years ago

I dont want to sound negative but I am not 100% sure that DevAkshi wedding will happen especially since there's so much hype & everything is happening so fast. All those promises again between Dev & Sona makes me think that some HUGE twist is waiting for us which will pause wedding at least for now.
Let's keep fingers crossed but I am not having good feeling about this whole wedding track so soon.

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Originally posted by: Maitri_B
I dont want to sound negative but I am not 100% sure that DevAkshi wedding will happen especially since there's so much hype & everything is happening so fast. All those promises again between Dev & Sona makes me think that some HUGE twist is waiting for us which will pause wedding at least for now.
Let's keep fingers crossed but I am not having good feeling about this whole wedding track so soon.

Erica has confirmed that the wedding will happen for sure!

Chill dear.

Its a time to enjoy, just sit back and enjoy!