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Originally posted by: shining89

what happened in that scene?

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Sorry Mods I'm extending the already extended thread... But this post needs to be here for continuation of discussion happening..

We talk about women wanting someone atleast as better off as they are... Don't men want that? In today's world... Especially guys from lower, middle and upper middle want a working woman so that they can make their dreams true earlier... Women want a career to be financially independent... Today compatibility issues result in divorces very soon... Women can't depend on their men for all financial support... They need to be independent... Even in live marriages, guys chose women who r doing as well as them in career but post marriage they expect women to take charge of house n yet work as hard outside..

I'm speaking from personal experience... N I don't believe either stereo type that men shud earn more then women.. I married a guy I was in love with... We had a two states kinda wedding... A guy from North marrying a girl from South... I was already working post MBA for an yr n he did his MBA a yr later so he was just outta b school... I spent all my savings on wedding N HM.. N then there were three yrs where I was earning 30% higher than him... So we're v stereotypes... Nopes... After 5 yrs of marriage I took a break for family planning as I was in a very hectic job... He was all supportive... But come baby I had to join back work when baby was an yr old coz of our home loan... Work at office.. Morning get baby ready, send him to day care.. Go to office... Come back.. Get the child.. Spend time with him.. Make him sleep... Get back to work.. N then sleep by 1 am.. Wake in the night if child is crying... All was just my job... Now me on maternity leave as V had our second baby four months ago... I got to join back in Nov... Do I hv a choice to c back n take care of kids... Nopes... We hv a home loan to take care of.. Do I hv in law back up.. Nopes... Who takes care of both kids, home n work... It will all be me... Am I happy... No not at all... I'm sleep deprived n tired... I want a break... Do I get it... Nopes... This is the truth bout our society... Now men want educated women but won't share household duties... Time has come to change mentality.. N who shud do it... Mothers of sons. I hv started that with training my elder son who is 3.5 yrs that there is no work which is defined for men n women... He helps me with everything... Same I will teach the younger one who is now 4 months old... I don't want my DILs to suffer the way I am doing... Do I try changing my hubby... Sure I do... But the effect stays for a week n then it's back to same old thing. I hvnt given up though... Will keep trying... Or else one day will run away n s how he manages house, kids n work without me... Will come bCk only when I'm sure he will contribute equally coz I contribute equally to household expenses n home loan... Uff... Vented out frustration..

Originally posted by: vids231

Another episode on women empowerment. Shivaay seems like a copy of Tej in so many ways. A cute scene between Soumya, Anika and Sahil. Rudy better buck up. He has tough competition ahead in Sahil. Even I was wondering if he would ask soumya how to go fat. But seem like he is lattoo over her.

Originally posted by: hi50

Soumya visited Annika's house and met Sahil.. He was in love at first sight and calling her as 'Soumya'...!! 😆

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

EXCELLENT EPI! so glad i tuned into hotstar today. really quite good. i fundamentally agree with omkara that the fact that a woman has to ask for permission is ludicrous. but shivaaye does make a good point about the pink cushions and red jacket. a woman's dream is not only her career but also her home and the space she shares with her husband and children. its not only the equality of work and home space, in a relationship the man has to share space as well. the truth is that men are most conservative about sharing their place and space with women- whether they are at home or they are at work. sharing their space is like giving up rather than giving in, you HAVE to make compromises in a relationship on both sides and most men fail at making compromises about things they care about. for shivaaye its the traditional gender role and for omkara its his living space. my husband really likes me in pink, im not fond at all. but sometimes i wear it for him. he doesnt like the shimmer curtains we have up cos they look 'whimsical' but i love them and he put them up and theyve been there for 2 years now. if rids and om were to marry, would he then also b like your changing my space? well...its kind of her space too no? and the plants...shes allergic, shouldnt that be a easy compromise to make? the problem is not working, career, children or home but rather the extremely disproportionate amount of compromises women end up almost always making. and thats primarily because we need permission to do anything and everything, from what we want to study to whom we want to date (even whether we can date or not!) whereas men dont face nearly the same amount of questions on their choices. i like what theyre doing with priyanka, if we go on equality her ishqbaazi shouldve been just as much of part and highlight of the show as the O bros and her bonding with the bros just as important. but its not. however, i do like the turns her character is taking so far. if keeping her as a side means keeping the character developing and interesting id much rather that.

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Sorry Mods I'm extending the already extended thread... But this post needs to be here for continuation of discussion happening..

We talk about women wanting someone atleast as better off as they are... Don't men want that? In today's world... Especially guys from lower, middle and upper middle want a working woman so that they can make their dreams true earlier... Women want a career to be financially independent... Today compatibility issues result in divorces very soon... Women can't depend on their men for all financial support... They need to be independent... Even in live marriages, guys chose women who r doing as well as them in career but post marriage they expect women to take charge of house n yet work as hard outside..

I'm speaking from personal experience... N I don't believe either stereo type that men shud earn more then women.. I married a guy I was in love with... We had a two states kinda wedding... A guy from North marrying a girl from South... I was already working post MBA for an yr n he did his MBA a yr later so he was just outta b school... I spent all my savings on wedding N HM.. N then there were three yrs where I was earning 30% higher than him... So we're v stereotypes... Nopes... After 5 yrs of marriage I took a break for family planning as I was in a very hectic job... He was all supportive... But come baby I had to join back work when baby was an yr old coz of our home loan... Work at office.. Morning get baby ready, send him to day care.. Go to office... Come back.. Get the child.. Spend time with him.. Make him sleep... Get back to work.. N then sleep by 1 am.. Wake in the night if child is crying... All was just my job... Now me on maternity leave as V had our second baby four months ago... I got to join back in Nov... Do I hv a choice to c back n take care of kids... Nopes... We hv a home loan to take care of.. Do I hv in law back up.. Nopes... Who takes care of both kids, home n work... It will all be me... Am I happy... No not at all... I'm sleep deprived n tired... I want a break... Do I get it... Nopes... This is the truth bout our society... Now men want educated women but won't share household duties... Time has come to change mentality.. N who shud do it... Mothers of sons. I hv started that with training my elder son who is 3.5 yrs that there is no work which is defined for men n women... He helps me with everything... Same I will teach the younger one who is now 4 months old... I don't want my DILs to suffer the way I am doing... Do I try changing my hubby... Sure I do... But the effect stays for a week n then it's back to same old thing. I hvnt given up though... Will keep trying... Or else one day will run away n s how he manages house, kids n work without me... Will come bCk only when I'm sure he will contribute equally coz I contribute equally to household expenses n home loan... Uff... Vented out frustration..