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Ask me how desperate and restless I was feeling since yesterday when everytime I wanted to post something on the forum and IF gave me an error saying not more than 10posts for newbie before 24hours - this was just about a post discussion. How small small things drive you crazy and nuts. 😆 So for all people calling Dev pagal psycho and what not, imagine what he must b going thru.
I think everyone here has lots to say about Dev being the insane one here but I am not finding Sonakshi any better. On the contrary, I still expect Dev to behave the way he is coz of what all he has been through in his life and Sona being the only ray of hope for his new found happiness which he never experienced in his life. You can't deny how many times he told her that just by looking at her smiling face he feels the world is a perfect place and everything will be alright which wasnt the case otherwise. And we all know the importance of Sonakshi in his life. I can just feel how helpless He's feeling in the current scenario. He's always been shown as an impulsive guy, saying and doing things at the spur of the moment and later realizing how wrong he'd been and correcting things thereafter. Sometimes we don't even know how we wil react if a certain situation comes in front of us and so even he's not realising the weird things he's doing and how uncultured and sick Sonakshi is finding him. But by saying all this I don't want to justify what Dev is doing in the current track. Thankfully, he'll get back some piece of his brain in the coming times. But thats a separate story.
My actual concern is Ms. Khargosh here. I have always seen how righteous this girl has been. Just the way a traditional girl with modern outlook are. And a lot of it is due to the support from her family.
I won't be surprised if I came to know that the writers have a specific reason to show her as bengali as bengali families as compared to others are considered as very cool, broadminded and liberal due to which bengali girls are considered to be very daring, independent, sweet and self reliant. Almost all what she says all the time is sensible (specially before the break-up), she's logical, she's brave, thinks simply, doesn't rush things, takes her time to think before reacting and knows how to communicate and connect to other people and make them understand without making them feel bad. What's best..She's the support system of the man in her life and makes him want to be a better person. He wants her for himself and she's actually given her all to this relationship yet she maintains her individuality.
But leave Dev, These days I am feeling that the current situation has even trapped and thrown a a girl like Sonakshi out of gear.
Her act of moving on is not making any sense to me coz she's just pretending to move on whereas she's still hanging in there which she's refusing to accept. Her brain knows moving on will be the "right move" given the situation. But She needs to understand that she will never be able to escape from her heart...its important she listens to what she actually wants coz in the battle between her mind and her heart...her mind is telling the heart to shut up which the heart refuses to do. If she feels that out of sight will be out of mind, I think she'd been silly to think that way coz the more she tries to stay away from Dev, her heart will get closer to those feelings that she's trying to supress and forget.
Being away Dev, she still thinks and talks about him all the time. If we're far from the person we love, everything around us reminds us of them. Which we saw happening with Sona as well. The most annoying part, most of her discussions with Hrithik are also about Dev. I mean who does that? Telling Hrithik about her being in relationship before makes sense but discussing about Dev and giving details to Hrithik makes no sense.
What's more...now there's even a slight ego coming in..the daring queen again making an immature dare of marrying Hrithik and promising of it to happen in a month. Ok agreed what Dev did was not fair, but why this ego of ruining your own life and someone else's too.
Yes it was Dev who made a lot of promises, but it was Sona who made the biggest promise of all "main aapko kabhi nahi chorugi, aap mujhe chhor de tab bhi" So if its not reasonable to actually follow that, atleast don't act like a fool pretending to move on.
I could relate to her when she said she doesn't trust her choice after what happened with her but this clich thought of maa baba ki khushi k liye has never convinced me and never will. How can Our parents be happy if we are not?
I think She should not expect Dev to stop following her if she herself is just pretending the move on...then where does the difference lie in these two?? the only difference is that what he's doing is known to her (like following her) as compared to she doing is without him knowing (like thinking about the moments spent with him, looking at his pics when she's alone)
The reason why I bought this topic was coz Again like many situations shown in this show before, I feel this situation is very common and is faced by lot of people. I feel there is nothing wrong in taking a decision to move on..infact its for the good in many a case but its equally important to take this decision or maybe act on it when your brain and heart are fully convinced. And most importantly when you're sure of being fair to the person you're marrying.
The first step towards moving on I feel is letting go but "fortunately" in this case, Sonakshi is still hoding into Dev.
The saying that give time sometime or everything will be ok with time cannot be relied upon. What if time takes too much time and till then things are ruined or what if time goes back in time??
I think everyone here has lots to say about Dev being the insane one here but I am not finding Sonakshi any better. On the contrary, I still expect Dev to behave the way he is coz of what all he has been through in his life and Sona being the only ray of hope for his new found happiness which he never experienced in his life. You can't deny how many times he told her that just by looking at her smiling face he feels the world is a perfect place and everything will be alright which wasnt the case otherwise. And we all know the importance of Sonakshi in his life. I can just feel how helpless He's feeling in the current scenario. He's always been shown as an impulsive guy, saying and doing things at the spur of the moment and later realizing how wrong he'd been and correcting things thereafter. Sometimes we don't even know how we wil react if a certain situation comes in front of us and so even he's not realising the weird things he's doing and how uncultured and sick Sonakshi is finding him. But by saying all this I don't want to justify what Dev is doing in the current track. Thankfully, he'll get back some piece of his brain in the coming times. But thats a separate story.
My actual concern is Ms. Khargosh here. I have always seen how righteous this girl has been. Just the way a traditional girl with modern outlook are. And a lot of it is due to the support from her family.
I won't be surprised if I came to know that the writers have a specific reason to show her as bengali as bengali families as compared to others are considered as very cool, broadminded and liberal due to which bengali girls are considered to be very daring, independent, sweet and self reliant. Almost all what she says all the time is sensible (specially before the break-up), she's logical, she's brave, thinks simply, doesn't rush things, takes her time to think before reacting and knows how to communicate and connect to other people and make them understand without making them feel bad. What's best..She's the support system of the man in her life and makes him want to be a better person. He wants her for himself and she's actually given her all to this relationship yet she maintains her individuality.
But leave Dev, These days I am feeling that the current situation has even trapped and thrown a a girl like Sonakshi out of gear.
Her act of moving on is not making any sense to me coz she's just pretending to move on whereas she's still hanging in there which she's refusing to accept. Her brain knows moving on will be the "right move" given the situation. But She needs to understand that she will never be able to escape from her heart...its important she listens to what she actually wants coz in the battle between her mind and her heart...her mind is telling the heart to shut up which the heart refuses to do. If she feels that out of sight will be out of mind, I think she'd been silly to think that way coz the more she tries to stay away from Dev, her heart will get closer to those feelings that she's trying to supress and forget.
Being away Dev, she still thinks and talks about him all the time. If we're far from the person we love, everything around us reminds us of them. Which we saw happening with Sona as well. The most annoying part, most of her discussions with Hrithik are also about Dev. I mean who does that? Telling Hrithik about her being in relationship before makes sense but discussing about Dev and giving details to Hrithik makes no sense.
What's more...now there's even a slight ego coming in..the daring queen again making an immature dare of marrying Hrithik and promising of it to happen in a month. Ok agreed what Dev did was not fair, but why this ego of ruining your own life and someone else's too.
Yes it was Dev who made a lot of promises, but it was Sona who made the biggest promise of all "main aapko kabhi nahi chorugi, aap mujhe chhor de tab bhi" So if its not reasonable to actually follow that, atleast don't act like a fool pretending to move on.
I could relate to her when she said she doesn't trust her choice after what happened with her but this clich thought of maa baba ki khushi k liye has never convinced me and never will. How can Our parents be happy if we are not?
I think She should not expect Dev to stop following her if she herself is just pretending the move on...then where does the difference lie in these two?? the only difference is that what he's doing is known to her (like following her) as compared to she doing is without him knowing (like thinking about the moments spent with him, looking at his pics when she's alone)
The reason why I bought this topic was coz Again like many situations shown in this show before, I feel this situation is very common and is faced by lot of people. I feel there is nothing wrong in taking a decision to move on..infact its for the good in many a case but its equally important to take this decision or maybe act on it when your brain and heart are fully convinced. And most importantly when you're sure of being fair to the person you're marrying.
The first step towards moving on I feel is letting go but "fortunately" in this case, Sonakshi is still hoding into Dev.
The saying that give time sometime or everything will be ok with time cannot be relied upon. What if time takes too much time and till then things are ruined or what if time goes back in time??
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