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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey guys. How are you all?
I know i havent posted in a really long time and that is mainly because i don't come onto this forum anymore. I recently came here to have a look at what's going on and how the forum is doing and to be honest i was horrified, disgusted, annoyed, sad and much more to see so much negativity from some of the members! Heck im still seeing it! I thought it would have stopped after a few days but it hasn't.
First of all people who are shipping Bunri i am disgusted. They don't even make a good pair! They have no chemistry and if you think they are better than SaRi then you must totally be out of it. I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion but i will fight you on this one. Hiba is young and innocent looking and looks like shes 18 and theres Sid who looks like he is 30 and is romancing his niece or baby sister and not some grown widowed woman! Bunri are so NOT made for each other.

Secondly people who are bashing Pearl and Hiba you need to stop! Once upon a time they were both together a part of this show and we all loved them. Including you bashers. And i still love them. A lot of us do and some of us quit the show because we can't stand the sight of Pari with someone else. I know Pearl said he was going to come back but people/forum users should NOT call him a liar or a deceiver or someone who just left. He might have wanted to come back and something must have stopped him? Anything could have happened. You dont know what happened that made him quit. You don't know what went down and what was discussed and what happened in between the actors and produces or if anything happend at all. So maybe you should stop judging and stop with the bullshit and stop bashing them.

And so what if they Pearl and Hiba blocked you from seeing their social media pages. I dont blame them for doing that especially if you are going to leave rude comments or negativity or write bad posts about them. Or bug them and irritate them about things. What if it was you who was the actor/actress and it was you who was bashed? You have feelings and you would be hurt so in the same way they have feelings too and you could be hurting them. Think about that. And grow up for gods sake. I thought we were all adults on this forum. Please do raise your hand if you are a child i will excuse your rudeness but if not then grow the f**k up! Behave like adults. Stop bashing people. Stop bringing posts up from the past just to prove a f**king point or just to put yourself at ease or make yourself feel good. It wont affect us at all. Yes we all hated anchal and shona but guess what so did you! You said rude things to them too. But we NEVER went extreme like some people are doing with Pearhi. Leave Pearhi alone. Why dont people just stop the crap. Dont you get tired of yourself?!

Once upon a time this forum had a lot of love and happiness in it and majority of us were friends and we felt like a family. I loved that the most about this forum. And MSM and PearHi was the reason as to why i joined IF. And its why i love this forum so much. But now all i see is negativity and such horrible and vile posts and comments and so much unnecessary bashing. Where have the days gone when people used to be nice and accepting of each other?! If you have a disagreement with someone on social media why are you bashing them on the forum?! You didn't sign up to do that. This forum isn't for that. I made some amazing friends on this foum and im really happy that i still talk to one on social media and i can truly call her one amazing and beautiful friend and the moment i saw her getting bashed i was horrified and i felt so sad and angry that someone could do this just because she disagreed with that person. And the person who bashed her was a friend of hers when she used this forum.
I hate the negativity. It needs to stop. MSM is going of air soon. Is this how you want to spend the last few days on this forum? With so much negativity? Or would you rather have a few happy moments with good posts and happy things like the memories and the happiness and friendship we all shared?

I only came here to post this because it was sat in me like a heavy stone to my chest. I couldnt take it anymore. This forum was my baby and i just hated the bad shit that was happening on it. I hope you all understand where i am coming from and if i have offended anyone or upset anyone then i am very sorry. Please forgive me and i hope that we can continue to be friends. I hope that we can all forget the bad stuff, stop the bashing and be more accepting of each other and let go of the past. And leave each other alone when you disagree with them. Dont post bad things about them. Remember the one who stayed quiet saved himself. And please STOP bashing PearHi. They dont deserve it. They are amazing, talented, beautiful, kind hearted actirs who work so hard for our entertainment. You might not like them anymore but your vile comments are hurting us

Again i am sorry if i have offended or upset anyone. Please do forgive me.
Hate is a choice. Please don't do it.
Thank you xo

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Posted: 8 years ago
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If so called "die hard fans" can become so too faced and change their mind in a blink of an eye like that, than forget about actors, we really can't trust anybody anymore! It's true that ppl hated on Roop and Shona, but only their characters! No one went to the extent of humiliating them in social media..Sid was praised many times before, but no one was blocked then! Writing things like "your chemistry with him is beastly sexy, hot and horny, he wants to own every bit of you, calling their co-satrs b*****, monkeys, etc", how can one expect any girl or their friend to take this easily? especially on a public page?. Be logical. Frankly speaking, if anyone wrote such things on my page where thousands of ppl come, I would've blocked that person too. Calling other fans churels and assholes and doing exactly what they did but 10X worse, how does that make anyone better? When one says that they regret hating on the other actors before, what's to say that they are not gonna regret hating on who they r abusing now? Just as it is not good to love people so easily, it is also not good to hate others so much, doesn't help anybody...only brings harm to onneself!!!...at the end of the day, they are humans and it's not possible to meet everyone's expectations...without knowing other's intentions and the struggles they go through, it's not good to judge anyone! Who r we to decide who the industry should hire and who to not? They know better what's best for themselves... But whatever happened and happened, before the show ends, I just have one and final request from some of u...pleaseee remove all the mean and inappropriate comments that were flooded on Instagram! Almost all the means comments against any of the stars on msm were removed by both Hiba and Noveera from their account (both of whom were extremely disheartened by the sudden and unnecessary negativity)...let's all leave the forum/the show on a positive note, just as it had started! Does that sound fair to everyone? Everyone in this forum were once so close b4, like a family! It's all this unnecessary hatred and craziness, that drifted so many people apart! Please just keep this last request and remove all the inappropriate comments that were put on Anindita mams, Nirmala, Aanchal or whoever's acc! Pleaseee!!!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I m already dealing with the posts that r bashing the actors and hv closed a few too .. But if any post is doing constructyive criticism of an actor in terms of his acting or professionalism , thats allowed as per IF rules .. So let mods decide whats allowed or whats not allowed instead of members becoming moral police ..

Closing this topic as its talking about forum atmosphere and not the show .. we r suppose to discuss the show and not about the forum

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MSM Dev team

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