For those who hated shravan in last episode..

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PprEDKV

@PprEDKV

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Posted: 9 years ago

I totally agreed that what shravan said in yesterday's epi was wrong and very very harsh about women..

That bedroom part was very very very bad... CVs should not have added that part..

But can we just for once try to place ourselves in his character. I know many people should have given bhashan on this and there are many arguments for the same.

But I just wanted people to know that whenever some person or character is negative there is an input behind his/her behaviour.. I have already posted about this today.. So I will not say more on this.

But I want to give the example of the real person..

My mom is a counselor. There is a boy who is in depression since 2001. U know why?? Bcoz his best friend betrayed him in teen age.. They always used to be best friends and share good bonding thenafter they became lovers.. The girl was very mean and somewhat characterless.. The boy was possessive about her so he started giving her instructions that beware of those boys and don't be very much close to them and thenafter the girl told him that don't take this relatioship seriously.. I was just doing timepass..

After that the boy committed suicide 2 time but unfortunately could not succeed bcoz he is having caring and loving parents.. But he still cant accept any other girl in his life..

I know this story is not truly related to shravan but TWO things are related and that is REJECTION AND BE BETRAYAL.. I m not saying sumo is like that girl... NO SHE IS NOT AT ALL LIKE THAT GIRL..

And ya when I see that guy. I surely believe that SHRAVAN is far far better than him even though he was not only cheated by his mother but also his best friend.

Shravan was was in pain when his mother leaved him.. He needed someone who can heal him. So he went to his best friend and love of his life. But was very badly insulted and rejected by him..

He is surrounded by those women who are selfish in their own ways.. He started falling again for sumo.. But wes again rejected.. Remember guys we know that sumo id MAJBOOR but he doesn't know at all..

So I think whatever he said yesterday was absolutely correct as per his life experiences (Except that bedroom part... I just hated that)

But what sumo said was right. But what she thought was wrong. ( I have already written about it)

So my conclusion is just that plz don't frame opinion about shravan in just one day.. In real life also when someone did something bad to us then we frame our opinion on that person is so bad. But we forget about the past good deeds he/she has done for us.. In the same way now we are doing we just concluded shravan in one episode.. Recollect that past all the episodes guys... He is not like this.. He was just in so much pain that now his limit was over... And ya the one thing is HE WAS DRUNK... So he will regret his words after knowing truth..

BCOZ HIS ORIGINAL NATURE IS NOT THIS WHAT HE BEHAVED YESTERDAY.

I truely love his character and intensity of his love IN ALL THE PAST EPISODES

Everybody is saying that Adi said he should change his nazariya for everything..

BUT yar there should be atleast ONE person to guide him about the so called NAZARIYA for women. Sumo also just told and argued that he should change his nazariya.. But didnt guide him properly.. There should be one person in his life to guide him about right or wrong...

I m not taking sides but I m just saying that this time we and SUMO should need to understand him and the reason behind his thinking..

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orion23

@orion23

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Very well said!

With you on this!

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hermoinelily

@hermoinelily

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Posted: 9 years ago

totally agree aid u! there s no use in just complaining and saying to change his views...someone needs to show and guide him properly... aftrall action speaks better than words.!!!

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Nancy (Zin)

@PlainJane

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Posted: 9 years ago

Bang on. I agree with you. 😊

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Nitu789

@Nitu789

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Posted: 9 years ago

awesome ...Full respect to ur Thoughts 👏

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vibg

@vibg

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Posted: 9 years ago

I, for one, have been giving Shravan chances as a character (or giving CVs chances). no one, not even Sumo, can guide him. for that to happen, the dude has to listen to the other person. Shravan has not been listening to others for a while now. he is blinded by daddy's words and his own interpretation of events around him. he builds an assumption, which is always, his POV... and responds by yelling, screaming, taunting, breaking things and getting drunk. How can anyone help him then? Only Shravan can help himself..he needs to calm down and think about why and what is going on around him.

there is no excuse of his behavior in recent times... PCT destruction, disgusting taunts to Sumo, and then manhandling her... he is a smart, educated adult and needs to start acting like it. Sumo had too much faith in him. He has NONE in her. and that's heartbreaking. everyone can see Sumo's goodness xpt the one who claims to be loving her forever😕

well written and I agree with a lot of what you said. but it's just not Sumo that needs to understand his POV. he has suffered.. YES! but so has she.. her life has not been a bed of roses either. granted, she didn't get betrayed by a mother.. but she has had her own struggles. both are suffering and only both of them can heal each other.

Edited by vibg - 9 years ago

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PprEDKV

@PprEDKV

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: vibg
I, for one, have been giving Shravan chances as a character (or giving CVs chances). no one, not even Sumo, can guide him. for that to happen, the dude has to listen to the other person. Shravan has not been listening to others for a while now. he is blinded by daddy's words and his own interpretation of events around him. he builds an assumption, which is always, his POV... and responds by yelling, screaming, taunting, breaking things and getting drunk. How can anyone help him then? Only Shravan can help himself..he needs to calm down and think about why and what is going on around him.
there is no excuse of his behavior in recent times... PCT destruction, disgusting taunts to Sumo, and then manhandling her... he is a smart, educated adult and needs to start acting like it. Sumo had too much faith in him. He has NONE in her. and that's heartbreaking. everyone can see Sumo's goodness xpt the one who claims to be loving her forever😕

well written and I agree with a lot of what you said. but it's just not Sumo that needs to understand his POV. he has suffered.. YES! but so has she.. her life has not been a bed of roses either. granted, she didn't get betrayed by a mother.. but she has had her own struggles. both are suffering and only both of them can heal each other.

Yes both are suffereing and need to heal each other.. Agree...

But shravan can listen when someone peacefully explains him.. Sumo never peacefully explained him the things.. HE listened at the coffee shop where sumo bought him and explained him everything... He listened and started believing in her words...

But u r right they both need to understand each other.

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@rubys07

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Posted: 9 years ago

So on point man. I hate no one, not Sumo, not Shravan and not even Aditya...the way they are behaving actually makes them relatable to me, and more human. Both Sumo and Shravan have their fair share of griefs and struggles and we cannot really undermine anyone's pain and suffering. Shravan's attitude and behavior may come off as stubborn and irrational at times but maybe half of us would have done the same thing if we were in his place, with a past like his. While I don't defend the actions of an MCP lead, I totally get where this bitterness of Shravan is coming from.

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PprEDKV

@PprEDKV

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: rubys07
So on point man. I hate no one, not Sumo, not Shravan and not even Aditya...the way they are behaving actually makes them relatable to me, and more human. Both Sumo and Shravan have their fair share of griefs and struggles and we cannot really undermine anyone's pain and suffering. Shravan's attitude and behavior may come off as stubborn and irrational at times but maybe half of us would have done the same thing if we were in his place, with a past like his. While I don't defend the actions of an MCP lead, I totally get where this bitterness of Shravan is coming from.

Ya everyone behaves the way they are grown.. The inputs they get from childhood...

Its not that easy to forget the past.. Its the human behavior.. Shravan has very painful past.. Everyone needs to understand him and place ourselves in his place..

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